Teach51
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12 Jul 2020, 7:34 am
Young men are far more skilled now 
I also can't tolerate a bad kisser.
12 Jul 2020, 7:42 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I talked to a bunch of girls...
... and got a corona virus.
End of experiment.
... and got a corona virus.
End of experiment.
Have you noticed how beautiful women are less attractive, these days, because of the coronavirus?
12 Jul 2020, 7:46 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
- He: I want to get to know you, let’s have coffee together.
- She: To bed, now.
- *kissing*
- She: No.
- She: To bed, now.
- *kissing*
- She: No.
-He left with a tent in his pants.
The_Face_of_Boo
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12 Jul 2020, 7:48 am
blazingstar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
blazingstar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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When you kiss a woman in bed, height doesn’t matter.
Kraftie, please stop repeating this silly sentence every time; women don't pick men only based on what it feels like kissing them in bed.
How do you know? I consider how a man kisses me in bed to be extremely important.
Only? you missed the word only.
And you kiss them in bed before you accept/reject them to date you?
Like a trial?
You never know. I did not miss the word only, but I think you are underrating the salient point which is that kissing is more important than you might think.
After I posted that, I wondered how many of the men who have difficulty "getting" a woman focus on how well they can kiss. If your experience is limited, you may be doing it all wrong. A bad kiss will turn me off far more quickly than someone who is shorter than I am.
There are dancers who I would gladly have followed to the end of the earth, based on a single dance that left me breathless. Same goes for kisses.
Someone stated they may get a single "hook up" but are never contacted again. When I was much younger, if someone was a skilled lover, a woman is eager to have the experience again. I am much too old for tinder, etc, but I was in college in the days of sexual freedom and I can tell you from direct experience most young man don't have a clue.
I'm not saying anything further because this is not the adult forum. It was just a thought I would throw out there.
You are talking on an entire different wavelength - about en entire different phase in dating; unlike you, cyberdad got me from one post.
I am not saying the kissing skill is not important for intimacy within an already established relationship.
But how the kissing skill is even relevant for a man’s chances to be accepted by a woman for a coffee date?
Please be realistic people; and please pay attention to what’s written before replying.
A levantine saying: “I am talking about the table, while you are talking about the chair”.
If you are still struggling to get it; this how usually it goes:
1- One asks out the other
2 - Feelings may develop between them.
3- AND THEN kissing in bed may happen.
I am taking about the stage 1, you are talking about the stage 3, you can’t tell a man’s kissing skill from stage 1. Got it now?
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Teach51
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12 Jul 2020, 7:51 am
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I talked to a bunch of girls...
... and got a corona virus.
End of experiment.
... and got a corona virus.
End of experiment.
Have you noticed how beautiful women are less attractive, these days, because of the coronavirus?
I have a feeling that relationships will be based on more serious qualites than looks from now on. We are heading towards a more restrained and less superficial era. Hopefully intelligence and kindness will be high priorities. Things that are not easily attained are somehow valued more, men and women have lost respect for each other and themselves.
12 Jul 2020, 8:09 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
blazingstar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
blazingstar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Quote:
When you kiss a woman in bed, height doesn’t matter.
Kraftie, please stop repeating this silly sentence every time; women don't pick men only based on what it feels like kissing them in bed.
How do you know? I consider how a man kisses me in bed to be extremely important.
Only? you missed the word only.
And you kiss them in bed before you accept/reject them to date you?
Like a trial?
You never know. I did not miss the word only, but I think you are underrating the salient point which is that kissing is more important than you might think.
After I posted that, I wondered how many of the men who have difficulty "getting" a woman focus on how well they can kiss. If your experience is limited, you may be doing it all wrong. A bad kiss will turn me off far more quickly than someone who is shorter than I am.
There are dancers who I would gladly have followed to the end of the earth, based on a single dance that left me breathless. Same goes for kisses.
Someone stated they may get a single "hook up" but are never contacted again. When I was much younger, if someone was a skilled lover, a woman is eager to have the experience again. I am much too old for tinder, etc, but I was in college in the days of sexual freedom and I can tell you from direct experience most young man don't have a clue.
I'm not saying anything further because this is not the adult forum. It was just a thought I would throw out there.
You are talking on an entire different wavelength - about en entire different phase in dating; unlike you, cyberdad got me from one post.
I am not saying the kissing skill is not important for intimacy within an already established relationship.
But how the kissing skill is even relevant for a man’s chances to be accepted by a woman for a coffee date?
Please be realistic people; and please pay attention to what’s written before replying.
A levantine saying: “I am talking about the table, while you are talking about the chair”.
If you are still struggling to get it; this how usually it goes:
1- One asks out the other
2 - Feelings may develop between them.
3- AND THEN kissing in bed may happen.
I am taking about the stage 1, you are talking about the stage 3, you can’t tell a man’s kissing skill from stage 1. Got it now?
I understood. There are steps ahead of #1 and sometimes it involves kissing. And, if you can't kiss well, you may as well never try #1.
However, I will shut up now.
Teach, I understand you have a younger lover. And certainly there are exceptions. Enjoy!
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12 Jul 2020, 8:12 am
blazingstar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
blazingstar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
blazingstar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Quote:
When you kiss a woman in bed, height doesn’t matter.
Kraftie, please stop repeating this silly sentence every time; women don't pick men only based on what it feels like kissing them in bed.
How do you know? I consider how a man kisses me in bed to be extremely important.
Only? you missed the word only.
And you kiss them in bed before you accept/reject them to date you?
Like a trial?
You never know. I did not miss the word only, but I think you are underrating the salient point which is that kissing is more important than you might think.
After I posted that, I wondered how many of the men who have difficulty "getting" a woman focus on how well they can kiss. If your experience is limited, you may be doing it all wrong. A bad kiss will turn me off far more quickly than someone who is shorter than I am.
There are dancers who I would gladly have followed to the end of the earth, based on a single dance that left me breathless. Same goes for kisses.
Someone stated they may get a single "hook up" but are never contacted again. When I was much younger, if someone was a skilled lover, a woman is eager to have the experience again. I am much too old for tinder, etc, but I was in college in the days of sexual freedom and I can tell you from direct experience most young man don't have a clue.
I'm not saying anything further because this is not the adult forum. It was just a thought I would throw out there.
You are talking on an entire different wavelength - about en entire different phase in dating; unlike you, cyberdad got me from one post.
I am not saying the kissing skill is not important for intimacy within an already established relationship.
But how the kissing skill is even relevant for a man’s chances to be accepted by a woman for a coffee date?
Please be realistic people; and please pay attention to what’s written before replying.
A levantine saying: “I am talking about the table, while you are talking about the chair”.
If you are still struggling to get it; this how usually it goes:
1- One asks out the other
2 - Feelings may develop between them.
3- AND THEN kissing in bed may happen.
I am taking about the stage 1, you are talking about the stage 3, you can’t tell a man’s kissing skill from stage 1. Got it now?
I understood. There are steps ahead of #1 and sometimes it involves kissing. And, if you can't kiss well, you may as well never try #1.
WTF.... I am talking about a typical scenario, not some a very particular one
Quote:
However, I will shut up now.
Thanks goodness, because you were starting to boil my blood by all these.... illogical ideas. Phew.
12 Jul 2020, 8:14 am
Teach51 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I talked to a bunch of girls...
... and got a corona virus.
End of experiment.
... and got a corona virus.
End of experiment.
Have you noticed how beautiful women are less attractive, these days, because of the coronavirus?
I have a feeling that relationships will be based on more serious qualites than looks from now on. We are heading towards a more restrained and less superficial era. Hopefully intelligence and kindness will be high priorities. Things that are not easily attained are somehow valued more, men and women have lost respect for each other and themselves.
Hopefully.
12 Jul 2020, 11:46 am
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13 Jul 2020, 1:07 am
13 Jul 2020, 2:14 am
kraftiekortie wrote:
There are many women who are “inexperienced,” too.
The only way to gain experience.....is to gain experience. People have to make an effort to gain experience.
The only way to gain experience.....is to gain experience. People have to make an effort to gain experience.
In "Eve online", you can buy experience.
Maybe people should go there.
The_Face_of_Boo
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13 Jul 2020, 8:12 am
Pepe wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
There are many women who are “inexperienced,” too.
The only way to gain experience.....is to gain experience. People have to make an effort to gain experience.
The only way to gain experience.....is to gain experience. People have to make an effort to gain experience.
In "Eve online", you can buy experience.
Maybe people should go there.
In WOW you just need to smash more heads.
13 Jul 2020, 2:02 pm
