Young woman at the gas station

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I wanna make a bet: The OP will regret his action and things will end up badly.

Who wanna bet against me?

It's now 9 AM local time. I have not received a text

But I don't necessarily regret it. Not this move in itself. But I'm not exactly happy with myself either.

Over the past few months, I have started to think that being forward wouldn't be a bad thing to try. I get way too much mixed advice on how to approach/talk to a woman and how long it should be between the first encounter and when I should make a move.

Before I did this, because of the way she was whenever I was in the store("I remember you", "your eyes are what make me remember you", "oh, hey you cut your hair", smiling at me when I went up to the register last night), I felt like that if I didn't do something, she would think that I'm not into her.

There just doesn't appear to be an exact right way to do things. I've heard of people who have never found romance because they don't even try and keep to themselves. It seems like maybe I just gotta make the right move on the right girl. It looks like in this case, this girl may have been the type that's creeped out by this. Perhaps there's some who wouldn't be, but I had no way of knowing either way.

Although I've been in quite a few brief relationships over the years, looking back on all of them it was only the first one way back in 7th grade that I feel like was "one that got away". I had frenched kissed her and she was so grossed out that she dumped me. This is all too hard, g**damnit. Give me a break!

Don't lose hope. French kissing needs to be slow, dry with a little lip nibbling and biting.
Someone kissed me once like he was in a fencing tournament. En guard!! ! It was hard not to laugh.

Women tend to think that if you get the kissing right
the rest will follow. It's all a matter of rythm.

I wouldn't get to upset. I'd give it another day first. And even if she doesn't text you or whatever it doesn't mean she was 'creeped out'. She could have a boyfriend, I wouldn't expect to hear anything if that's the case. Or she could just be the type of person that doesn't feel strongly. Can't really say.

I didn't date or kiss anyone EVER until I was 21 about to turn 22 and now I am married. Almost nobody meets their 'one' in high school. If you're really concerned about meeting someone, than my advice would be to widen your pool of candidates greatly and try to meet someone online, while also looking locally. Online relationships do work, that is how my marriage started (quickly moved to video chat and then met up 3 months in).

You never know.....the CubsBears guy could look like a young Brad Pitt.

I hope he gets a text soon, and they have a nice conversation.

I think you should go back and see what happens.