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15 Sep 2020, 9:17 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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A man who knows how to invest his wealth is a better catch than a man who only knows how to work on his looks.

Physical appearance is a depreciating asset.  Wise investments are appreciating assets.  50 years from now, a man can either be ugly and poor or ugly and wealthy -- all else being equal, which do you think would be better able to provide a home, food, clothing, and medical care?


Fnord KNOWS!! ! ! :D Well said!! :heart:



A better investment for a model-like gold digger would be: to marry an old rich sugar daddy; and cheat on him with a hottie guy while he’s not around to satisfy her sexual needs.

What? You really think that young and hot gold diggers who marry fat old rich men are loyal to them? :roll: Come on.


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15 Sep 2020, 9:21 pm

Fnord wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
RightGalaxy wrote:
Fnord wrote:
A man who knows how to invest his wealth is a better catch than a man who only knows how to work on his looks.  Physical appearance is a depreciating asset.  Wise investments are appreciating assets.  50 years from now, a man can either be ugly and poor or ugly and wealthy -- all else being equal, which do you think would be better able to provide a home, food, clothing, and medical care?
Fnord KNOWS!!  Well said!!
A better investment for a model-like gold digger would be: to marry an old rich sugar daddy; and cheat on him with a hottie guy while he’s not around to satisfy her sexual needs.  What?  You really think that young and hot gold diggers who marry fat old rich men are loyal to them?  Come on.
A young and hot gold digger married to a rich old man just can't hide her lying eyes.

Someone ought to write a song about that.


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16 Sep 2020, 7:36 am

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My husband is a bodybuilder, he literally needs me to help him put a jacket on sometimes cause his arms/shoulders are too big lol

People treat you with a lot more respect from what I've noticed. They're almost intimidated of you because you're not average looking at all. Nobody dare say anything bad to him kind of thing.

When you're with someone like that you feel a lot safer and protected cause nobody messes around. You're not gonna pick on some guys wife when the husband looks like they're built like a tank. They'd snap you in half for just looking at the wife wrong.

There's a hell of a lot of confidence you get from looking like that too. A bit too confident when he snaps the door handles off the kitchen door accidentally though. :roll:

I started getting quite toned and shredded myself (cause he eats ridiculously healthy and I tend to just eat what he eats anyway cause I'll mostly cook it cause his cooking is awful) but since I did I've noticed people at my work treat me a hell of a lot differently, like there were a group of girls there that gossiped and made drama about everyone but they don't do that around me now cause it's like they're suddenly intimidated of me? It's just weird how people have changed on the account of me looking better. These days they're all trying to be my best friend after they we're little dickheads before - and it's literally just to show off.

I'd say my life like this is way better because before I was going out with this skinny runt of a guy and it was just really boring. At least now I get the best piggybacks ever. :mrgreen:

Of course it's all down to personal preference, no one is better than anyone else. I just think the mental health and physical benefits you get for being built like a brick s**t house are much better than not being from having the experience myself.


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16 Sep 2020, 7:43 am

The Wolfman, ideally, has a body commensurate with Lupine pursuits. Flexibility over brawn.



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16 Sep 2020, 7:58 am

A couple of my female friends definitely like muscles. As a male person, I feel it'd be hypocritical of me to criticise their lust for a smokin'-hot bod.


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16 Sep 2020, 8:02 am

I don't have "muscles"---and I've done all right. Most of my life, I've been overweight to obese.



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16 Sep 2020, 8:03 am

^ me too, except I've been on the tall and skinny side most of my life. but always had girlfriends and managed to get married twice too.



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16 Sep 2020, 8:06 am

I'm short and stubby.....just under 5 foot 5.



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16 Sep 2020, 8:08 am

i'm 6'3" and was 150lbs when I was 30.



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16 Sep 2020, 8:13 am

I once knew a guy who was slightly hunched over, about 6 foot 3, and weighed about 140 pounds----and he really got the ladies.

I can never aspire, even at my short height, to be 140 lbs. I was almost 190 about 2 years ago. I'm 170 now, and only slightly "chubby."



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16 Sep 2020, 11:12 am

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I'd say my life like this is way better because before I was going out with [b]this skinny runt of a guy and it was just really boring[/b]. At least now I get the best piggybacks ever. :mrgreen:


Remember to focus on such slips of tongues, fellow average and shortie guys. :mrgreen:



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16 Sep 2020, 12:11 pm

I give piggybacks :P

I’m a “shortie.”



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16 Sep 2020, 1:05 pm

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I give piggybacks :P

I’m a “shortie.”


My point is to point to the amount of disrespect she had for her ex just due to his physical stature (and much sexually and masculine inferior in her eyes); this is a common attitude btw among a lot of women who dated short/skinny guys before, sadly. Now I predict she will deny this and make it sounds that he was jerk in other ways bla bla, the typical defense narrative (this happens every time)....but I will not believe it, the slip of tongue is always the ultimate truth.



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16 Sep 2020, 1:38 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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I give piggybacks :P

I’m a “shortie.”


My point is to point to the amount of disrespect she had for her ex just due to his physical stature (and much sexually and masculine inferior in her eyes); this is a common attitude btw among a lot of women who dated short/skinny guys before, sadly. Now I predict she will deny this and make it sounds that he was jerk in other ways bla bla, the typical defense narrative (this happens every time)....but I will not believe it, the slip of tongue is always the ultimate truth.
Guys in general are known for caring a lot about women's looks. This is basically the same as a guy admitting he likes skinny women with big boobs. Both are entitled to their own preferences about what they are attracted to & want in a partner as long as they are being realistic about it.


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16 Sep 2020, 1:43 pm

nick007 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I give piggybacks :P

I’m a “shortie.”


My point is to point to the amount of disrespect she had for her ex just due to his physical stature (and much sexually and masculine inferior in her eyes); this is a common attitude btw among a lot of women who dated short/skinny guys before, sadly. Now I predict she will deny this and make it sounds that he was jerk in other ways bla bla, the typical defense narrative (this happens every time)....but I will not believe it, the slip of tongue is always the ultimate truth.
Guys in general are known for caring a lot about women's looks. This is basically the same as a guy admitting he likes skinny women with big boobs. Both are entitled to their own preferences about what they are attracted to & want in a partner as long as they are being realistic about it.



Yup, but I've never seen guys here giving their ex women animal names because of height or weight or any other physical trait.



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16 Sep 2020, 2:46 pm

The women I know tend to think body builders are shallow, self-obsessed and not very bright.This is probably a gross generalization
I myself prefer the intellectual athletic type :D


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