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05 Dec 2020, 1:54 am

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oh, i found more

It sounded as if he was scratching the plastic, like chewing sometimes. Really interesting noise
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Awe, a little pea pod worm. :heart: :P


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05 Dec 2020, 2:12 am

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My question is has your tall stature helped you with getting dates or with attracting the opposite sex despite having autism?

Yes it does. Another factor is dating became easier for me as my income increased.


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05 Dec 2020, 4:46 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
My question is has your tall stature helped you with getting dates or with attracting the opposite sex despite having autism?

Yes it does. Another factor is dating became easier for me as my income increased.


Indeed.
There are very few lonely billionaires. :mrgreen:



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05 Dec 2020, 7:46 am

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My question is has your tall stature helped you with getting dates or with attracting the opposite sex despite having autism?

Yes it does. Another factor is dating became easier for me as my income increased.

Wouldn't help with Rexi. For her you need some weasels or at least caterpillars. :mrgreen:


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05 Dec 2020, 8:52 am

I have aspergers but never officially diagnosed. I'm quite tall, but not as tall as you asked in the first post of this thread.

I must admit in every single relationship or experiences Ive had with women, my height didnt matter to the woman at all. And its understandable because its not usually a very important thing a woman considers. I would say some women might prefer a tall man, but not many care about it so much, or enough to let it influence her decisions.



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05 Dec 2020, 10:33 am

^ What the tall men are not understanding is; that height is often not a bonus nor influences anything; but it’s the lack of it which often lead to an instant rejection. So in this sense, tallness is an advantage.



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05 Dec 2020, 10:55 am

quite an extreme wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
My question is has your tall stature helped you with getting dates or with attracting the opposite sex despite having autism?

Yes it does. Another factor is dating became easier for me as my income increased.

Wouldn't help with Rexi. For her you need some weasels or at least caterpillars. :mrgreen:

Spot on. It got old people insisting on promising me tech things when I beg them not to and not coming around to it.

It's true that i used to steal and manipulate for toys because i didn't have and i still can't afford what could even keep me close to the people I loved, like games, and I can't compete with their addictions, but i realize that i needed love much more than that.

"You got the world, but, baby, at what price?
Something so strange, hard to define
It isn't that hard, boy, to like you or love you
I'd follow you down, down, down
You're unbelievable
If you're goin' crazy, just grab me and take me
I'd follow you down, down, down
Anywhere, anywhere

One for the money, two for the show
I love you, honey
I'm ready, I'm ready to go
How did you get that way? I don't know
You're screwed up and brilliant
And look like a million dollar man
So why is my heart broke?"

I have seen rich people share barely any with their family because they are poor in their heart. I have seen people use wealth to feel loved because they are sad. And I have seen more value in a hug than in any kind of passing things, through my experience.

Everyone desires happiness and there is nothing that can grant it, it is and isn't. It is in such a way that you can't synthesize it. It is at the core of all needs and wishes. It is defined in many many ways.

But i dont think anything has value, i can find flaws to everything. Wealth: its value is about how you are seen, how much you can buy, but you don't need it to be valuable. Courage, creativity, respect, charm, love, family, peace, everything is a concept of value that can be useless and useful, and that can please a person but is that the point? Cant and shouldn't you feel good while someone doesn't respect you? When you aren't courageous and if you aren't creative? I feel it's an illusion that you have value if you have x, y, z. That they somehow could grant you happiness, and make you believe in yourself. It's probably important to know your inner value because then you will know people who love you for you won't leave you if they see a better gamer, a better kisser, a better scientist, because the only value of a person is who they are. That can't be replaced. People are similar in some ways but never the same.



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05 Dec 2020, 2:02 pm

That's right and not even a new thing. That's live for to realize this.
For this show me your pretty soul and give me a virtual hug and get me a beer ...
Oh I forgot that you aren't around. OK bad jokes aside.
You are right that the values of people count more then the things that they own.
You like to relate to humans and not blenders nor blended idiots who are into those.
You have realized that it is the way that humans are that counts and not what they
are pretending to be. That proves that you are a really bright and incredibly awesome girl.


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05 Dec 2020, 9:16 pm

quite an extreme wrote:
That's right and not even a new thing. That's live for to realize this.
For this show me your pretty soul and give me a virtual hug and get me a beer ...
Oh I forgot that you aren't around. OK bad jokes aside.
You are right that the values of people count more then the things that they own.
You like to relate to humans and not blenders nor blended idiots who are into those.
You have realized that it is the way that humans are that counts and not what they
are pretending to be. That proves that you are a really bright and incredibly awesome girl.

I have been thinking about what to reply, but there's nothing I can think of except that you made me feel very happy. I would really like to hug you. I appreciate your compliments and yes it's a great way that it all links to pretending vs being real, thinking about it. It's like take love for what it is. Money for what it is. People for what they are. Idio- I mean Talent for what it is.



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05 Dec 2020, 9:18 pm

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Rexi wrote:
oh, i found more

It sounded as if he was scratching the plastic, like chewing sometimes. Really interesting noise
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Awe, a little pea pod worm. :heart: :P

interesting name for the little fellow. It's good to see it all grown up, it's cute
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05 Dec 2020, 9:49 pm

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^ Yeah I was talking about the domesticated variation; the domesticated species is safe for handling. Their skin was so soft; felt like silk.

They did grow to beautiful bushy white moths I remember then all died right after; they looked similar to the moth in the picture you posted, but they don’t fly. In other term it is a new species shaped by humans for silk production; they can’t live without humans - they’re so fragile.

No, they didn’t stink; they smelled more like leaves.

That's interesting they're so dependant on humans and can't fly. It's sad they died so soon.

Silk extract is amazing in skin products, when added to beauty creams it has the unique quality of absorbing the impurities and releasing the nutrients and active substances. Silk protein is also beneficial as it provides the skin with much needed amino acids which are essential for keratin production.



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05 Dec 2020, 10:10 pm

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Rexi wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
Rexi wrote:
Pepe wrote:

blah blah blah short blah blah cute blah blah
- references to Pepe-


Oh yuss! Pepe Le Pew is a favorite because he is totally me. Chasing the cuties, making utter romantic advances and being hopelessly clingy, ultimate sacrifice for the qt queens.

But as you can notice his wishful thinking cuties are actually anything but skunks. What a heartbreaking realization it ends up to be. Ah ma leetle lost labor o'lufe

You must realize that the only better alternative for a man is Bugs Bunny. He is reliable, skillful and creative and most of all he is an ace of the dating world, as opposed to his good friend daffy, whose only luck in life is Tina which pulls him out of the relationship lack of knowledge mess he is in. She is incredible and loving and honest <333

Be careful to pet skunks. Once you are over Covid19 you may smell them again. :twisted:

Ooh, hehe.
Pet skunks are my favorites, when descented they make even less smelling pets than others. And either way you should have an outside cage for them because they're pretty wild, they need to be somewhat in the nature. But along with cats and dogs they have a very high cooldown on pooping. And unlike dogs, not such a big instinctual marking.


I have had my anal glands removed, over a year ago, and I prefer to live inside and have access to a bar fridge.

I have no idea what "cooldown on pooping" means, but I can give it a shot, after you explain what it is, if you like. 8)

Perfection in a pet.

Cooldown on pooping is the time it takes for you to doo your deeds. If it takes centuries though I would start getting worried.. eventually.



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05 Dec 2020, 10:19 pm

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I have heard of the infamous odor of ferrets.

It's strong carnivore odor and comes from the anal glands. They are able to spray a stinking secretion out of them just like skunks but not as far and they very rarely do. But it's not at all nice to remove the glands and in my opinion are there worse perfumes that humans use. :twisted: Only one ferret did spray it once as she touched a cactus with her feet. She didn't even used it towards cats or dogs. She teached those without that get out of her way even that they were a lot bigger. But a bloody nose with additional holes isn't funny for dogs and cats. :mrgreen: Of course we took her usually on the arm before this even happened. :wink:
But ferrets aren't ideal pets because of their odor and because they dislike being cuddled and because if they don't grow up in very nice conditions where they are in touch with humans then they are biting if you try to grab them. :?

Aww, they are very well behaved, reminds me of people who have high self-control.

Sounds like cats, if you don't socialize them, they end up being feral.



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05 Dec 2020, 10:26 pm

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I kind of feel like you are using it as a bit of an excuse. I'm 6ft and have not had a gf since I was 16. It is pretty much down to how fun you are to talk to and then online maybe looks get you that initial conversation. Being tall is not one of the main reasons people get rejected.


2 men with good personalities and similar looks.
One is tall.
One is short.

Who do you think has the advantage? :wink:


I think I didnt explain myself properly as usual... I am not saying that it is not an advantage. But on a list of priorities that women choose from, this is way down there compared to how @op is making out.

I think a better way of seeing it in perspective is. Men like choosing shorter women. How do you feel it is in terms of a dealbraker on the height of a women?


I like shorter women, but it isn't a deal-breaker. My first GF was a little taller than me.
Personality is more important.

My first bf was a lot taller than I was and when I was holding on to him, my back ached for hours xD especially that he wanted me to hold him like that



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05 Dec 2020, 10:39 pm

my ex said my height was attractive to her. other than that, it has not helped.



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05 Dec 2020, 10:48 pm

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Pepe wrote:
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I kind of feel like you are using it as a bit of an excuse. I'm 6ft and have not had a gf since I was 16. It is pretty much down to how fun you are to talk to and then online maybe looks get you that initial conversation. Being tall is not one of the main reasons people get rejected.


2 men with good personalities and similar looks.
One is tall.
One is short.

Who do you think has the advantage? :wink:

None, they sound boring, too alike.

Can I get both? I like the cute small man so I can grab him in secret places.


I can be "cute and small" if you like. :mrgreen:

You can. I will grab you when you're in the fridge, and make sure you don't get back in there.