28 Jan 2021, 10:41 pm
kraftiekortie wrote:
I once had a crush on a woman who, objectively, seemed ugly. She certainly smelled good, though 
As I said, personality is the most important thing.
Did you have a crush on her because of how she treated you?
If not, what was the attraction?
29 Jan 2021, 12:37 am
29 Jan 2021, 12:38 am
Pepe wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I once had a crush on a woman who, objectively, seemed ugly. She certainly smelled good, though
As I said, personality is the most important thing.
Did you have a crush on her because of how she treated you?
If not, what was the attraction?
Personality is like the tortoise and looks is the hare. We rush things like the hare making quick decisions on the fly but in the end the tortoise wins in the long run.
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29 Jan 2021, 1:37 am
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I think it represents first impressions.
If that's the case it makes sense for the males but does not compute for females
Why not?
Women's attraction attends to be more emotion based.. so first impressions of just photos and they don't think guys are so great - they haven't gotten to know them yet, no emotions flowing yet to make them think/feel highly of a guy. So of course their first impression is that most guys are "meh."
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goldfish21 wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I think it represents first impressions.
If that's the case it makes sense for the males but does not compute for females
Why not?
Women's attraction attends to be more emotion based.. so first impressions of just photos and they don't think guys are so great - they haven't gotten to know them yet, no emotions flowing yet to make them think/feel highly of a guy. So of course their first impression is that most guys are "meh."
And that isn't sexist because?
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29 Jan 2021, 1:50 am
Pepe wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I think it represents first impressions.
If that's the case it makes sense for the males but does not compute for females
Why not?
Women's attraction attends to be more emotion based.. so first impressions of just photos and they don't think guys are so great - they haven't gotten to know them yet, no emotions flowing yet to make them think/feel highly of a guy. So of course their first impression is that most guys are "meh."
And that isn't sexist because?
Because it's fact?
Males are attracted primarily by physical appearance. Females attraction to males, and their bodies' physiological preparation for intercourse, is triggered by their emotions towards the person more so than simpler physical attraction.
Good looks make guys hard, good feelings make women's juices flow.
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29 Jan 2021, 1:58 am
cyberdad wrote:
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good feelings make women's juices flow.
Good looks = good feelings = juice flowing
It's not that simple. That's the more simplistic male turn-on process. Trust me, I'm very well versed in that.
Women are more complicated emotional beings. (Thank the Laaaawd bebe jebuz I don't have to deal with them - heterosexual problems!)
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goldfish21 wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
good feelings make women's juices flow.
Good looks = good feelings = juice flowing
It's not that simple. That's the more simplistic male turn-on process. Trust me, I'm very well versed in that.
Women are more complicated emotional beings. (Thank the Laaaawd bebe jebuz I don't have to deal with them - heterosexual problems!)So about 5% of women will date a man significantly uglier than them and its because the aforementioned men have material wealth that gives them the good feeling.
I think you are overcomplicating a simple algorithm
29 Jan 2021, 4:06 am
goldfish21 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I think it represents first impressions.
If that's the case it makes sense for the males but does not compute for females
Why not?
Women's attraction attends to be more emotion based.. so first impressions of just photos and they don't think guys are so great - they haven't gotten to know them yet, no emotions flowing yet to make them think/feel highly of a guy. So of course their first impression is that most guys are "meh."
And that isn't sexist because?
Because it's fact?
But isn't it politically incorrect to point it out?
29 Jan 2021, 4:53 am
goldfish21 wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
good feelings make women's juices flow.
Good looks = good feelings = juice flowing
It's not that simple. That's the more simplistic male turn-on process. Trust me, I'm very well versed in that.
Women are more complicated emotional beings. (Thank the Laaaawd bebe jebuz I don't have to deal with them - heterosexual problems!)Well, if you're not into ice cream, what makes you an expert on it all of a sudden? Plus, I always wondered if about half of the cakes take on an emotion-based ice cream role, and the other half keep the cake role.
Now, as to the general point of the thread, beautiful people do get preferential treatment. And this is by average-to-ugly people who bask in the glow of their beauty. Amazing how uglies treat their own so poorly (both male and female).
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29 Jan 2021, 6:20 am
ezbzbfcg2 wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
good feelings make women's juices flow.
Good looks = good feelings = juice flowing
It's not that simple. That's the more simplistic male turn-on process. Trust me, I'm very well versed in that.
Women are more complicated emotional beings. (Thank the Laaaawd bebe jebuz I don't have to deal with them - heterosexual problems!)Well, if you're not into ice cream, what makes you an expert on it all of a sudden? Plus, I always wondered if about half of the cakes take on an emotion-based ice cream role, and the other half keep the cake role.
Now, as to the general point of the thread, beautiful people do get preferential treatment. And this is by average-to-ugly people who bask in the glow of their beauty. Amazing how uglies treat their own so poorly (both male and female).
Expert?
This is basic common knowledge stuff right up there with girls develop breasts. Wtf?
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29 Jan 2021, 9:43 am
goldfish21 wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
goldfish21 wrote:
good feelings make women's juices flow.
Good looks = good feelings = juice flowing
It's not that simple. That's the more simplistic male turn-on process. Trust me, I'm very well versed in that.
Women are more complicated emotional beings. (Thank the Laaaawd bebe jebuz I don't have to deal with them - heterosexual problems!)You must understand something:
me.
me.
me.
https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/05/stop-say-women-complicated/
Come on, you can do it.
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29 Jan 2021, 10:16 am
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Rexi wrote:
... As if men were the only ones who ever gaslight, tell mean jokes, or roll their eyes and complain.Exactly. Besides, my clit has twice the nerve endings on your weewee. It's not that complicated.
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