Would you date me if I were at my goal weight of 140?

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kraftiekortie
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09 Nov 2021, 6:14 pm

I'm pretty knowledgeable about Isolation----I used to isolate myself to the point where I almost became a hermit.



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09 Nov 2021, 6:16 pm

All in all, I don't see why Zeromancer would have too much difficulty getting a date.



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09 Nov 2021, 6:27 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
All in all, I don't see why Zeromancer would have too much difficulty getting a date.


That is the impression I get.
The problem for her seems to be finding a *satisfying* relationship.
I nominate you if she is comfortable with an older man. :mrgreen:



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09 Nov 2021, 6:28 pm

Nope...no can do!

I'm married---and I'm more than twice her age.

And she'd think I'm too "straight," anyway LOL



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09 Nov 2021, 6:30 pm

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I have found it curious how so many people desperately hunt for happiness/blissfulness.
It is, after all, only a chemical reaction in the brain.
It is simply an organic form of drug addiction. 8)


But U Luv KFC!? an organic form of drug addiction. the desperate hunt for colonel sanders . and the resulting chemical reaction in the brain. and gut.


If one does not eat, one dies. :skull:
Some things are unavoidable. :wink:



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09 Nov 2021, 6:37 pm

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I liked it better when KFC was Kentucky Fried Chicken.


It used to say: "I luv Joe Biden".
Until more information about him came to light.
I had to change it to something else, pronto. 8O

I hardly eat KFC anymore. 8)

I think we should change the thread topic to:
"Would you date me if I only ate KFC?" :mrgreen:



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09 Nov 2021, 6:39 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Nope...no can do!

I'm married---and I'm more than twice her age.

And she'd think I'm too "straight," anyway LOL



Perhaps she wants a sugar daddy.
Doesn't hurt to ask. :mrgreen:



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09 Nov 2021, 6:47 pm

I don't do "sugar daddy."

And she's too classy for that sort of thing.



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09 Nov 2021, 10:45 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I don't do "sugar daddy."

And she's too classy for that sort of thing.


You sound as though you have turned serious.
I hope I am wrong. 8)



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10 Nov 2021, 1:21 am

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essentially you're kind of stuck with your body shape. So it wouldn't be a very good use of ones time to focus on changing their body shape since that would be like holding yourself to an unrealistic standard.

Not true. Their skeletons are almost identical, real body shape defined by skeletal muscles is covered by body fat in both cases. Both can lose excess fat, improve tone of core muscles to achieve slimmer waist and build more muscles where they want more volume to achieve body shape very close to "unrealistic" hourglass standard.


Some expert says otherwise: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/arti ... -tips.html



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10 Nov 2021, 3:13 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Sweetleaf wrote:
essentially you're kind of stuck with your body shape. So it wouldn't be a very good use of ones time to focus on changing their body shape since that would be like holding yourself to an unrealistic standard.

Not true. Their skeletons are almost identical, real body shape defined by skeletal muscles is covered by body fat in both cases. Both can lose excess fat, improve tone of core muscles to achieve slimmer waist and build more muscles where they want more volume to achieve body shape very close to "unrealistic" hourglass standard.


Some expert says otherwise: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/arti ... -tips.html

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Essentially, the length of your collar bones versus the size of your pelvis, and the length of your body compared to the length of your legs are big factors in determining proportions and aesthetic beauty.

However, we can use exercise to enhance our body shape and appearance, as well as increase muscle and bone strength.

This expert says pretty much exactly what I've said.



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10 Nov 2021, 4:59 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I don't do "sugar daddy."

And she's too classy for that sort of thing.



We should ask her



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10 Nov 2021, 5:02 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I don't do "sugar daddy."

And she's too classy for that sort of thing.



We should ask her


:mrgreen:
Good to have you back, blobby.



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10 Nov 2021, 5:04 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
smartHulk wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
essentially you're kind of stuck with your body shape. So it wouldn't be a very good use of ones time to focus on changing their body shape since that would be like holding yourself to an unrealistic standard.

Not true. Their skeletons are almost identical, real body shape defined by skeletal muscles is covered by body fat in both cases. Both can lose excess fat, improve tone of core muscles to achieve slimmer waist and build more muscles where they want more volume to achieve body shape very close to "unrealistic" hourglass standard.


Some expert says otherwise: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/arti ... -tips.html


Not all bone structures are created equal. 8)



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10 Nov 2021, 5:11 am

smartHulk wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
smartHulk wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
essentially you're kind of stuck with your body shape. So it wouldn't be a very good use of ones time to focus on changing their body shape since that would be like holding yourself to an unrealistic standard.

Not true. Their skeletons are almost identical, real body shape defined by skeletal muscles is covered by body fat in both cases. Both can lose excess fat, improve tone of core muscles to achieve slimmer waist and build more muscles where they want more volume to achieve body shape very close to "unrealistic" hourglass standard.


Some expert says otherwise: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/arti ... -tips.html

Quote:
Essentially, the length of your collar bones versus the size of your pelvis, and the length of your body compared to the length of your legs are big factors in determining proportions and aesthetic beauty.

However, we can use exercise to enhance our body shape and appearance, as well as increase muscle and bone strength.

This expert says pretty much exactly what I've said.


This might help to change a person's body shape, also:

Image

:mrgreen:



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10 Nov 2021, 10:55 am

Most of the people in this thread are missing the point! You are all quibbling about bone structure and body shape, but that's irrelevant here.

She shouldn't feel like she's any less of a person because of her body. And you shouldn't be discouraged from dating just because you feel like your body is imperfect. There are a lot of guys who would date her as she is right now.