Attitude toward caucasian men with non-caucasian women

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it has been my experience that mean people only get meaner as they age. "age mellows" is largely a myth, as early personalities tend to be stable over time.

personality is also influenced by environment. Over time you can unlearn bad ideas. Like ridiculous white supremacy.

^^^that is a fatal human flaw, we won't be able to collectively evolve in time for the next destructive meteor strike or cosmic death ray strike.

I'm Caucasian, and most women I dated were Caucasian too. And all my actual girlfriends were Caucasian.

That said, my interest in women was always mostly race-blind. If a woman showed interest in me, and wasn't too difficult to be around, I gave her a chance, regardless of her race (or attractiveness level, for that matter). I don't know if that makes me "woke" or just plain desperate. Either way, those proto-relationships didn't last, due to a combination of cultural differences and me not being a Chad.

it's all good.

A lot of dating/meeting girls is circumstantial. If in the circles you move in you only meet caucasians and that happens to be what you are attracted to that doesn't really make you "racist".

On the other hand, If a dude hypothetically met a really nice girl and they were physically attracted to her but decide not to pursue because of her race then the only person who loses is them (the girl dodged a bullet). No harm done (unless they told the girl they don't date (insert racial group) then that's f'cked up.

I’m decidedly “non-Chad”—yet I’ve had more success than some Chads.

Chads tend to not do so great as they age; it can be said that “non-Chads” “catch up” to supposed Chads once each hit their 40s.

Eh, in all my years in Seattle with the various black partners, the only open hostility I ever got was from black men, and that was largely confined to the type of guys who hang around gas stations at night, there was definitely a class element to it. The weirder thing I've frequently seen over the years is the good looking black man with the much less attractive white girlfriend or wife, always in that configuration and never the other way around, like the white girl is a trophy of some sort. You can quickly get into some thorny territory there, as it's become fashionable to accuse white men who date outside of their race of fetishizing or exoticizing the women they pursue, but the black man who only dates white women has long been a much complained about fixture of the black community, but the new racial morality police are too scared to lump them in with the white guys in the same way.

that is a very sad statement out human nature.

sorta turns me off on the whole idea.