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sinsboldly
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05 Aug 2007, 4:41 pm

Going bi can double your chances for a date on Saturday night!



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05 Aug 2007, 6:33 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
Going bi can double your chances for a date on Saturday night!


Changing my standards at all,
would increase them by more than
double.

Well, maybe not for a date - as I don't
intend to make THAT mistake again, but
as to hooking up.

Luckily, I'm not really seeking so little.



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05 Aug 2007, 8:28 pm

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"We should talk. What's your phone number?"

If she gives you it, awesome.

If she says no...

"Haha, I can't believe you thought I was serious." Then walk away.


Pathetic.

It's transparent as glass when a guy tries to pretend he wasn't interested after being rejected.

It doesn't make you look good. It makes you look hostile and petulant. And it makes her glad she shot you down.



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05 Aug 2007, 9:08 pm

Yeah. I've actually gotten to the point
of not just noting these antics, but laughing
aloud when I see them. I suspect it'll get
me into some bar fights again.



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05 Aug 2007, 9:20 pm

:lol:



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05 Aug 2007, 9:29 pm

juliekitty wrote:
DataSage wrote:
"We should talk. What's your phone number?"

If she gives you it, awesome.

If she says no...

"Haha, I can't believe you thought I was serious." Then walk away.


Pathetic.

It's transparent as glass when a guy tries to pretend he wasn't interested after being rejected.

It doesn't make you look good. It makes you look hostile and petulant. And it makes her glad she shot you down.


And then word gets around - who could resist talking about the bozo that got so bent about it?



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05 Aug 2007, 9:33 pm

"It's too damn hot, it's too damn loud and it's too damn crowded. I don't remember why I came here, and there's not much keeping me here. I'm thinking about going outside and enjoying the evening properly, instead of through an alcohol-induced haze. Care to join me? Then I don't think I'd have any reason to stay here."

It's worked a couple of times... and coincidentially, I've only used it a couple of times. Of course, it only works on the right kind of person. Can't say I know how far it'll take you, because I never go beyond sitting somewhere outdoors and just chatting.



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05 Aug 2007, 9:37 pm

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Today I have an altogether different perspective. Would you consider studying the book, "Drive Your Woman Wild In Bed" by Stacey Keith? Yes, the title is very catchy indeed but it is more about codes of conduct for the men then whatever is done in the bedroom.


I looked up a review on Amazon.

http://www.amazon.com/Drive-Your-Woman- ... 0446670472

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A Disappointment, April 5, 2000 By A. Lawrence - See all my reviews

I'm convinced that some of these excellent reviews must be a marketing scheme. My impression of Keith's book is that it is primarily focused on topics that are routinely espoused in freshman level sociology courses. Which is to say, there is very little actual discussion about sex per se, and a great deal of discussion regarding social gender issues in a femminist ideological framework. The route of all sexual difficulties, implies Keith, is the dysfunctional attitudes and degrading behavior which men universally impose upon women. This supposed guide to sex and romance condecendingly preaches such sophmoric advice as not oggling other women in public and refraining from racially prejudiced humor. The recurring theme here is modern ideological/political correctness and please men learn to be more sensitive yada yada, as if the readers are men of paeleolithic barbarism sith the emotional maturity of a basket of puppies. Some sexual technique towards the final chapters focuses entirely on either licking or fingering the clitoris (duh!). One last note: watch out for the male "sexual sophistication" test; the questions are manipulated so as to classify men who are less than Keith's ideal into dysfunctional descriptions; the questions' and results' prejudice should make diciplined behavioral scientists weep for the damage "pop-psych" writing like that of Staci Keith can do to people's perceptions of sex and gender issues.


:lol:



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05 Aug 2007, 10:04 pm

juliekitty wrote:
Pathetic.

It's transparent as glass when a guy tries to pretend he wasn't interested after being rejected.

It doesn't make you look good. It makes you look hostile and petulant. And it makes her glad she shot you down.


Thank you for proving my original point.



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05 Aug 2007, 10:26 pm

DataSage wrote:
juliekitty wrote:
Pathetic.

It's transparent as glass when a guy tries to pretend he wasn't interested after being rejected.

It doesn't make you look good. It makes you look hostile and petulant. And it makes her glad she shot you down.


Thank you for proving my original point.


which was

DataSage wrote:
Okay, you guys are forgetting a couple of things:

1. I am awesome.
2. I am good looking.

Basically, if a girl doesn't give me her phone number, then I don't want it. It basically tells me I'm too good for her.


so let me get this straight, you gear up your moxie to approach women so she can tell you that you are too good for her? Does anyone ELSE get this?

oh, wait a minute. . . it's PASSIVE AGRESSION, I guess I DO get it!



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05 Aug 2007, 11:38 pm

What a dork.



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05 Aug 2007, 11:42 pm

lol @ the hate.



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05 Aug 2007, 11:45 pm

nb411 wrote:
lol @ the hate.


If you read his advice thread,
I think you'll see that 'tis well
deserved. I can't imagine any
but the most shallow person
having interest in this guy.



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05 Aug 2007, 11:45 pm

nb411 wrote:
lol @ the hate.


actually it is self defense, not hate.
identifying passive agressors is a survival technique for women.



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05 Aug 2007, 11:46 pm

Just calling 'em as I see 'em. ;)

sinsboldly wrote:
identifying passive agressors is a survival technique for women.


Don't need much technique to identify this numbnuts.

I've seen at least five thousand jerks like him.

My favorite thing about them is when they stomp away. :)



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05 Aug 2007, 11:49 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
nb411 wrote:
lol @ the hate.


actually it is self defense, not hate.
identifying passive agressors is a survival technique for women.


As someone with many passive aggressive traits,
I'd like to ask why? Oh, I know that they cause me
tons of trouble, but I'm curious of takes from the
receiving side. Indeed, 'twas my understanding that
this was more often an accusation against women.