babybird wrote:
This is an all inclusive question. Do you prefer your partner or potential partner to wear makeup? .... I wanna look glamorous though
I hope you want an honest answer to help you make your decision. Hmmm, you said "all inclusive", so alright, the truth is, seeing makeup and sexy clothing always made me think "casual sex", "one-night stand", "f**k buddy", whereas seeing practical clothing, practical shoes, and no makeup made me think "the one to marry and start a family with".
As for the combination of stiletto heels and makeup... well... let's just say it makes quite a bad impression on me. But I'm ND so I'm honest about such matters, so one time I said,
"Honestly, I have to say, the way you're dressed... stilettos, makeup, skimpy clothing... I think you should find someone else, not me, because with the way you're dressed, I don't think in terms of a long-term monogamous relationship. I just think of casual sex from behind so I don't get your cosmetic gunk smeared all over my face and hands."And then, to my great astonishment and shock, she turned around without leaving, and that's how I lost my virginity!! It was a goddamn nightmare that went on for months and months, because she refused to stop dressing like that, and I kept frowning and honestly warning her that I can't have a serious relationship with anyone who dresses like that, and I only wanted a serious relationship, but I was so weak that I succumbed to the temptation of her high-heeled invitation every damn time without exception.
God, this is so embarrassing to admit to. I'm pathetic -- what kind of man can't resist such a devilish temptation even after months and months of saying again and again,
"Alright but this time will definitely be the last time."As if that wasn't already embarrassing enough, the very worst part of it was that I never succeeded in bringing myself to say "no" to her, and instead the way I finally got rid of her was to openly and honestly tell another woman that I want a serious relationship but I need serious help. So the new woman said to the stiletto woman,
"F**k off, b**ch, he's mine now."It worked. I said to the new woman,
"Oh thank you, thank you so very much! I couldn't have done it without you!"She smiled and said,
"You're welcome, but now, just to make sure you stay loyal to me, I have a little something in my bag here, and I intend to use it regularly."Then she unzipped her bag, and took out a pair of stiletto heels, makeup, and a miniskirt. I was devastated, but I did everything she wanted anyway, every time. And that's how I now have six wonderful kids!
P.S.: The part about how I lost my virginity is not true