Womens' Bodies.... What do guys ACTUALLY want???

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Todd489
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17 Aug 2007, 10:00 pm

I really only have two requirements as far as looks go:


1)TAcceptable nasal structure. And by acceptable, I mean no short, squat bulldog-ish noses. "Beak-like" noses are fine, just no short wide noses please.

2) Not fat. Sorry to any fat people reading this, but fat women disgust and appal me. I get the same sensation looking at a fat woman as most people would do when watching this video:


[youtube]http://youtube.com/watch?v=JMhILe_c18A[/youtube]

So long as they meet those two requirements, they've passed the physical portion of the exam. The mental portion, however, is about two-hundred times more difficult. This is very unfortunate for me and for women in general.



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17 Aug 2007, 10:28 pm

cal: to me, it seems todays beauty ideal was made in a way that could be likened to the following procedure:
create your favorite meal by mixing everything you like best about something: your favorite sweets, your favorite fish, your favorite bbq and that cool sauce you got at the asia shop that tastes so great. all mixed together et voila. 5 stars at guide michelin. or so...

or think about making the best car by: having the sleek lightweight concept of the lotus elise, the killer engine of a dodge viper, the chromed exhaust pipes of a cool chopper, some aerodynamic features of a formula one car and the storage area of a pickup or van. mangle, weld some and you have the most beautiful car ever built. or so.

i cant find another explanation how this hodgepodge of random "cool features" came to be declared as beautiful.



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17 Aug 2007, 10:46 pm

Cool video. :P



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17 Aug 2007, 11:16 pm

I have no definite requirements for a potential girlfriend, but I do like women with large chests, whether they be skinny or heavyset.

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17 Aug 2007, 11:40 pm

It all depends really. I don't really have "type" in that way though extreme thinness or obesity is a turn off, and I mean actual obesity, not like 15 or 20 pounds extra for example, and I don't think I would be attracted to a woman as tall as me or taller but I am nearly 6'3 so that most likely won't even be an issue.. Thinking back on my crushes I can't pinpoint any particular physical trait they all had in common. Breast size isn't important to me, and while I have to find a woman "attractive" to be interested, she doesn't have to be a "knock-out" to be attractive to me. I truthfully don't even know what I exactly want, all I know is that I am attracted to who I end up being attracted to. Personality traits are off topic so I won't go into those.



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17 Aug 2007, 11:43 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
...but I do like women with large chests....


Aye, but only if they're filled with booty.



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17 Aug 2007, 11:47 pm

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i dont think its sick or unnatural or whatever to find younger girls attractive.


It is quite natural for men to be attracted to younger girls. Nature dictates it. Logically, they are more likely to be healthier and haven't bared any children yet. The reason men tend to like blonde women is that blonde hair tends to look shiner and shine to hair indcates how healthy the person is and men pick up on that kind of stuff instinctively. With big natural boobs it is easier to indicate age because the older the woman gets the more they tend to go south therefore you can tell the big booded young ones because they don't have saggy boobs. Its all nature and instict masking as opinion and preference.



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18 Aug 2007, 4:04 pm

Heeey, Solidess, I haven't seen you here in a while. Nice to see ya. ^_^

I think that it really depends on the individual person. For me, personally, the bodyshape itself isn't as important as the face, hair, skin...and of course how a girl USES her appearance...the way she moves her face and body...and I won't deny that certain clothing and make up definitely attracts me. So it's not the main thing I pay attention to.

But, if we're talking purely the bodyshape...well, I won't deny that I do find slender bodies with large breasts but thin waists attractive. (I don't have much interest in booty though--sorry Cal.) Now, if a girl is totally skinny but lacks any curves or boobage then I'd actually find that less attractive than if she had some meat on her bones but was busty (without being overweight). I'm not going to use numbers because I just don't THINK in terms of numbers, so I honestly can't tell you my idea height/weight specifics.

I do find overweight girls unattractive in general, however, so it's a fine line...if you're just not skinny then there's nothing to worry about, but if I see you as fat then I'd probably have trouble being attracted to you. The problem is that girls don't know when they're fat and when they're just not skinny because the media distorts their perception.

But again, it really depends on so much more, even in the realm of asthetics.

As for ages, I'm not really that into girls who are younger than me because many of them seem immature. I prefer the early-to-mid-20's...like, say, 22-24.



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18 Aug 2007, 4:09 pm

Aysmptotes wrote:
gekitsu wrote:
i dont think its sick or unnatural or whatever to find younger girls attractive.


It is quite natural for men to be attracted to younger girls. Nature dictates it. Logically, they are more likely to be healthier and haven't bared any children yet. The reason men tend to like blonde women is that blonde hair tends to look shiner and shine to hair indcates how healthy the person is and men pick up on that kind of stuff instinctively. With big natural boobs it is easier to indicate age because the older the woman gets the more they tend to go south therefore you can tell the big booded young ones because they don't have saggy boobs. Its all nature and instict masking as opinion and preference.

I tend not to like blonde hair. Well not platimum blonde, haven't fancied anyone with it for some reason. I do prefer someone around my age maybe a couple of years younger is fine.



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18 Aug 2007, 4:16 pm

I'm not too picky about most women, I can always find something attractive about them. However the ideal women would be slightly shorter than me, not munchkin short and not taller than me. Long wavy permed brunette hair is always the thing that catches my eye the most for some reason. The size of a woman's breasts is not important at all to me, I'm an ass guy. Cardiovascular fitness is a plus, if they can keep up with me on a mountain bike - That would be hot.



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18 Aug 2007, 4:36 pm

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I'm not attracted to a man who's TOO perfect. Are there men who feel the same way about women? I asked my brother and he said there was no such thing as a woman being too gorgeous for him.


Only to the point where the woman is at risk of every other guy out there trying to snatch her from me.


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18 Aug 2007, 8:29 pm

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Only to the point where the woman is at risk of every other guy out there trying to snatch her from me.


Never understood this. I mean, I really
haven't found that attractive people are
more fickle. Nor do I think that they seem
to have all that many more opportunities.

Mostly, people don't hit on what they know
is out of their league. So, just about any
women gets hit on.



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18 Aug 2007, 8:37 pm

Claws and fangs.



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18 Aug 2007, 9:56 pm

Danielismyname wrote:
Claws and fangs.


I thought you were the vampire. (Actually, my brother swears I have claws (along with "witch fingers"), but I don't. My nails are just naturally sharp, no matter how short they are.)


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18 Aug 2007, 10:01 pm

Sounds like mine. I'm quite capable of
rending flesh, apparently.



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18 Aug 2007, 10:04 pm

calandale wrote:
Sounds like mine. I'm quite capable of
rending flesh, apparently.


So am I. I've done it a few times by accident (and once on purpose). Of course, it doesn't help that I usually leave them rather long.


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