I hate seeing young couples (rant)

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The other reason why women have trouble dating is the simple situation:

Men fear that women will laugh at them.
Women fear that men will kill them.

It's the inequality of the relationship: going on a date with a man we don't know well could end in our deaths. Usually the worst thing that could happen to a man going on a date with a woman he doesn't know well is that she will make fun of him.

Of course there are exceptions, but that's the general situation.

many aspie men have concluded that the lions' share of women in their experience are enigmas - unknowable, untouchable.

Although I have to say I find most women very mysterious and unknowable...and I'm a woman! I don't understand their secret language of hints and subtle insinuations; when to smile and when not to smile; how not to offend them by just being myself.

If you want to say something, just bloody say it! Don't hint and imply and suggest!

I just keep out of the way of humans these days tbh. I can't understand them or why I'm so horrendously offensive to them.

Dating and marrying a man is risky

You have to decide what is worth the risk!

the war between the sexes continues unabated. news at 11.

You have to decide on a strategy for finding the kinds of people you would want as a potential partner. Some strategies are safer than others.

Most people I know, including myself, met their partners at work. I suppose you see all sides of people when they are at work, don't you.

would not have been possible to meet anybody at work. too many sociopaths surrounding me.

There is possibly no worse use of your time than being jealous of other people.

Envy is a deadly sin.

I’m afraid to do this. I developed an immediate attraction to someone I shared an office with who later became my boss. For obvious reasons, I made no moves, but I finally mustered the courage almost two years later to do so on her last day working at my job.

She told me she had a boyfriend, and it appeared she told the truth on that one.

And it was probably the only time to ever be relieved after being turned down. She didn’t tell anyone or get mad, and I was afraid she would

I'm wondering if meeting our partners at workplaces is a 20th century phenomenon.

In the 21st century people seem to meet online, on dating apps or whatever. We don't meet partners in the real world anymore

I feel like writing off everyone around you as a sociopath greatly limits one's ability to find a partner.

Interestingly, I've only ever had success at asking out gals I barely knew. Every time I've asked out a woman I know well, I've been turned down.

I was under the impression smart phones were the only escape from incel hell in Europe? Generally I've heard that people do not like to be romantically or sexually approached in public by strangers?

All the more reason to legalize guns. Female paranoia of males is a remnant of ape evolution, it is not as applicable in modern times when there are guns. The gun is the great equalizer nowadays, it is not enough to merely give females guns, gun training is recommended as well.

Yeah I can see the dissonance of a society where people are going around saying "we need love not war" and promoting free love, juxtaposed against corporate culture where people live in fear of being punished for basic flirting. Could be a Capitalism issue though.