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03 Aug 2023, 6:11 pm

auntblabby wrote:

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^ Are you in a relationship now?

mebbe.

I’m really happy for you.

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03 Aug 2023, 6:23 pm

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auntblabby wrote:

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^ Are you in a relationship now?

mebbe.

I’m really happy for you.

thank you

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03 Aug 2023, 6:47 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

With all things being equal like the distance or traffic, should the man still do that or is it sexist?

It depends on whether the man wants to have sex or a platonic friendship. If he wants a platonic friendship (or if he has lost interest in the woman and doesn't want to see her ever again), then he is expected to walk with her to her car and open her door for her and wish her well and say goodbye politely. He is also expected to say, "See you again soon", even if he has no more interest in her.

On the other hand, if he wants to have sex soon, then he is expected to kick the woman lightly in the buttocks and tell her with a cheeky grin, "Now get outta here, you rascal, before I change my mind."

Note the man and woman in the above examples are neurotypicals. Obviously neurodivergent people don't operate like the above.

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03 Aug 2023, 7:15 pm

I followed my guy to his car when I couldn't hold back. ^

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03 Aug 2023, 7:22 pm

I kick them in the balls when I want to have sex with them soon. It works every time.

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03 Aug 2023, 7:32 pm

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I kick them in the balls when I want to have sex with them soon. It works every time.

Oh come on, that's absurd. That doesn't work every time. It works with approximately 50% of men. What works every time is if you kick them in the balls AND criticize their weak performance. That makes nearly every normal man very hot under the collar.

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03 Aug 2023, 7:35 pm

Rotter wrote:

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I kick them in the balls when I want to have sex with them soon. It works every time.

Well yeah, I just figured that criticizing their performance was a given.

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03 Aug 2023, 7:39 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

I followed my guy to his car when I couldn't hold back. ^

And then what happened? Let me guess. Was it like the following?

Isabella: "I really enjoyed meeting up with you today."
Him: "Me too! Let's do it again soon."
Isabella: "You could drive around the block, then come back here. That would be soon."

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03 Aug 2023, 7:51 pm

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Well yeah, I just figured that criticizing their performance was a given.

Oh I see. In that case, you were right all along. Criticizing their performance is a given, and kicking them in the balls is optional. The ball-kicking is used to fine-tune the level of roughness, depending on what one likes and one's mood at the time.

Criticize performance without ball-kicking = make it rough.
Criticize performance with ball-kicking = make it less rough but still rough.

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03 Aug 2023, 7:53 pm

What if one doesn’t want rough at all? Kick them very hard?

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03 Aug 2023, 8:04 pm

Rotter wrote:

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I followed my guy to his car when I couldn't hold back. ^

Pretty much, tbh.

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03 Aug 2023, 8:10 pm

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What if one doesn’t want rough at all?

The answer depends on whether the man is typical or not.

If it's a typical man, then start using BDSM with you in the dominant role and him in the submissive role. This will make him not rough at all, but it won't magically transform a brute into a sensual & attentive lover.

If it's not a typical man, then simply start kissing.

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03 Aug 2023, 8:19 pm

My guy is dom but also sensual and attentive.
He's not rough or a brute.

I suppose diversity makes the world go round.

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03 Aug 2023, 8:22 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

Pretty much, tbh.

Aha. In that case, here's the rest of how I assumed the conversation was:

Isabella: "I really enjoyed meeting up with you today."
Him: "Me too! Let's do it again soon."
Isabella: "You could drive around the block, then come back here. That would be soon."
Him: "Or I could just stay here and never leave."
Isabella: "Never leave?! Oh my god, that's so disturbing!! !"
Him: "Oh I'm so sorry! I didn't mean I'd literally never leave your home. I just meant --"
Isabella: "Hey, I didn't say I don't like the idea."

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03 Aug 2023, 8:27 pm

Not quite. ^

I didn't tell him my name or address for a couple of months.
He wasn't coming anywhere near my house.

This all took place outside, or at his house.
That's why I went to his car.

Mystery Girl - Roy Orbison

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03 Aug 2023, 8:32 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

My guy is dom but also sensual and attentive. He's not rough or a brute.

Well yeah, but that works for you without ball-kicking because of your special mental attitude as summed up in the Satanic quote in your signature:

"Be kind, and make good choices. - Satan"

Oh wait... I read that wrong. Your quote says "Sarah" not "Satan". Hmmm, in that case, did you already kick him in the balls extra-very hard?

IsabellaLinton wrote:

I didn't tell him my name or address for a couple of months.

Ohhhhhh so that's how you got on top of him. Very clever, I must say.

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