Okay, Enough Lieing, GUYS, is this whant you really want?

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11 Oct 2007, 1:51 am

NeantHumain wrote:

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calandale wrote:

Actually, I'm not joking.
Yeah, I know that there are
differences, but seems cheaper,
in the long run.

Well a RealDolls are expensive, but they are still about 50000 times less than a real woman.

And a "high-class escort" is maybe 25,000 times less than a woman you actually love and care about. Yes, it'll scratch an itch, but you may find you do want something more than the raw physical act, even if it's just a little enthusiasm.

An enthusiastic partner is great, but not always necessary. Having a real relationship would be nice, but I don't know how to enter into one, or what I would do.

Also, me and calandale were talking about these things

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11 Oct 2007, 7:20 am

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Pffft, I'm not interested in simple sex.

Indeed. Complex sex is MUCH more interesting.

Oh, absolutely. :wink:

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11 Oct 2007, 12:22 pm

Space wrote:

.....[snipped]

Also, me and calandale were talking about these things

Also useful for the carpool lane

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13 Oct 2007, 5:00 am

GoatMan wrote:

What I don't understand is how anyone can allow themselves to be seen in such a vulnerable state without the trust which develops in a loving, romantic relationship? I mean, I cannot see myself allowing anyone I didn't feel I could trust getting that close to me physically. To do so would require me keeping a weapon on hand at all times to feel at ease.

Exactly. Or as the rappers say: Word.

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but my approaches with women always fall flat (even if they show interest in me first!).

Same here. Even if they show interest in me first. Then again, who knows what kind of interest that is?

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13 Oct 2007, 7:20 am

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Darling,

Somehow I think that you were rejected in High School and College; and that is why the sour attitude to relationships. Get real and get help. What are you some sex addict? I know I was one; believe me it is fun for a while than you destroy yourself.

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13 Oct 2007, 12:05 pm

I want to become asexual. I used to want a serious, long-term relationship, was in one for several years. Now i don't want a relationship of any kind. i am what i am; it would not end well, and it would always be a struggle. Ebven if my social skills were much better, i don't know any single women in my city that i would actually want to date. As regards to sex, i don't get any, but i think it's overrated in any case. maybe over the years my sex drive will die down through lack of use.
If i had better social skills i would go for one-night stands - with girls looking for one-night stands. love is a luxury not for me.

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13 Oct 2007, 5:28 pm

Honestly Brian003, 10 years ago friends with benefits was what I was after. But having had several casual sexual encounters I daresay that at the point Im at right now in my life I want a serious relationship with benefits. So yeah, I want somebody to f**k, But thats just the tip of the iceberg.

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14 Oct 2007, 9:29 am

uniquequeen wrote:

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What are you some sex addict? I know I was one; believe me it is fun for a while than you destroy yourself.

One can be addicted to sex,
without hurting themself.

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14 Oct 2007, 5:21 pm

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Milady begs to differ. I am not talking physical pain; I am talking more emotional. If one is masturbating all the time; than one does not have much time to doing any socializing (how akward it may seem) and no hope to fill the void some of us feel. (or for that fact, any other solo sexual behavior)

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14 Oct 2007, 6:52 pm

uniquequeen wrote:

It's much better if you have an accomplice.

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14 Oct 2007, 8:44 pm

My Lord,

If one were to accomply you on any activity then would it not be an solo activity any longer?

-Lady U

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14 Oct 2007, 9:16 pm

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Nope, actually I have such severe intestional/stomach problems that I might have to get my stomach removed and have a colectomy.

It's pretty much impossible to have a relationship when you have crap problems.

And just because I want a "Fuxkdoll" does certainly not mean I am a sex addict; I would say it is quite normal given my condition.

Not to mention I am not even sure that is what I want and I just typed it because it is rather funny.

I could have dated when I was 14, but I avoided it like the plague.

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14 Oct 2007, 9:53 pm

I am sorry to read of your misfortunate situation; my thoughts and prayers are with you. I will just tell God to be with the fellow that I am communicating online with.

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14 Oct 2007, 9:55 pm

Okay, did not have your name at the time; I will tell God to be with you Brian

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14 Oct 2007, 10:15 pm

Brian003 wrote:

So I have been contemplating what I really want and I have came to a conclusion:

In high school it would have been extremely easy for me to get a girlfriend; I had the looks and I did the sports so I could have basically have dated whoever I wanted but instead I decided to date no one.

In College, it is the same thing.

I realize now that I don't really want a girlfriend and I don't think I ever will want a girlfriend for a couple of years.

I guess all I really want is "Friends with Benefit" AKA Sex.

If I don't really care about half of my own emotions then why would I bother to care about other peoples emotions?

I wouldn't.

I think lots of guys my age(20-College Student) Neurotypical or Aspie feel the same way. In fact, like 90%. Relationships are a major pain the rear end!

lol!

That's what hookers are for, buddy.

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14 Oct 2007, 11:25 pm

uniquequeen wrote:

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My Lord,

If one were to accomply you on any activity then would it not be an solo activity any longer?

-Lady U

Where the hell did sex addiction require one
to be alone? Or not even in a large group?
Plus, one can masturbate whilst socializing -
you just need close (or oblivious) friends.

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