Do girls break boy's hearts INTENTIONALLY?

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juliekitty
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25 Jan 2008, 2:26 am

TrueDave wrote:
Maybe thats the equivilent.


I would say!

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Elemetary school teasing the girls was fun. And yes we CAN hold it in till we go to the bathroom but we think its funny when you get mad and call us gross. :wink:


Pull any pigtails while you were at it? Ya hypocrite! :wink:



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25 Jan 2008, 2:46 am

No but once I caught an older boy behind a tree giggling .
I walked up and said "whatta doin?"

He said he was pulling the elastic of Jill M**ks skirt to make her mad. :twisted:
I said "Its fun?" he said do ahead . I kinda over did it.I de-skirted her in the middle of the crowded playground. I remember her panties had baloons and flowers on her butt. 8O

I ran as far away as I could and hid. One of my classmates just happened to pass by and find me . He said" Better stay there, you're dead meat man." and he sadly walked away. :cry:

I have no memories about what happened after that. :?



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25 Jan 2008, 5:00 pm

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Girls want attention. If you get your heart-broken over meaningless flirting, then I don't know what to tell you.



There is a point flirting crosses into saying "I am attracted to you, ask me out."



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25 Jan 2008, 9:00 pm

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If women aren't flirting to pursue a man, then what ARE they flirting for? I would have a hard time flirting with anybody that I didn't already know well and was interested in, let alone anybody that I only casually knew.


To impress other women, it's like a contest. I've often thought (and I've had NT girls admit as much to me) that the MAIN points of women dressing up, wearing makeup, etc are vanity and impressing other women, rather than attracting men.
I don't know how to flirt, hence don't do it.


O RLY?

Interesting.



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25 Jan 2008, 9:33 pm

FYI, that's not my motivation at all.



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25 Jan 2008, 10:12 pm

Oh come on people, girls get more practice and become more numb about what they do to men
because they do most of the rejecting and the men get mostly rejected,
over time this kinda burns men out and then sometimes the littlest thing hurts from the raw burnout,
every now and then a man has to have some success or it all gets vary cold and resentful and lonely.
for the most part women get to be more picky.



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26 Jan 2008, 4:20 am

"raw burnout"

Yeah I can see that. Good point made there.



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26 Jan 2008, 11:03 am

juliekitty wrote:
FYI, that's not my motivation at all.


I did not say every single one, I mean the majority.


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26 Jan 2008, 11:28 am

TrueDave wrote:
I'm going to say something in a hypothetical smartypants kinda way.

If I walked up to someone told them I had a gun and to give me all thier money , but when they became scared I laugh and say I was just having fun isnt that a lot like casually flirting?


I can see where your logic is coming from truedave, you mean if I walked up to someone & told them I had a gun & to give me all their money, ( & this is the part were it can go wrong)
They packing heat, proceed to go back with their arm out, looking like they going for they wallet, but pull out they gun & shoot, you can end up dead or hurt before getting the, it was only a joke in...

So other words one day you will wish you never messed with the game of flirting to have fun, as one day you will regret it? that part most of them don't see... Normally has to happen to them or someone they know...


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26 Jan 2008, 4:47 pm

Logic and my name in the same sentence, I don't get that much! :lol:

I wasn't really thinking that far ahead but its another good point.

I was really just thinking teasing hurts people in the short term, and if you know it you shouldn't do it.

I "hid " from my mom when I was little and thought it was funny when she had the whole neighborhood out looking for me. But when I heard her crying I came out of my hiding spot. ( and got a hell of a apanking.) But I did'nt do it anymore because I saw that it hurt her.



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26 Jan 2008, 5:15 pm

There are lots of guys who know it's just for fun, and enjoy it.

FYI, as an experiment, the last time married guy started flirting with me I responded in a friendly, but cool manner.

He didn't look very happy about it. So, there you go -- I hurt someone by NOT flirting.

Whatever is a girl to do? :P



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27 Jan 2008, 10:18 pm

according to my ex, I had been flirted with on several occasions...went right over my head. Just thought they were being nice...;)

I don't know about the breakin' a guy's heart so he'll come crawling back. In hunting, you point the gun at what you shoot, and when you shoot, you shoot to kill...;) (Another bad analogy..;)

I do know the Eagles made a career out of writing songs about crawling back to someone...;) me, if I got the brush-off, I assumed it was permanent...;)



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28 Jan 2008, 5:51 am

Anyone that intends to break someones heart doesn't deserve anyone.

What a horrible thing to do.



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29 Jan 2008, 3:11 am

Maybe.
I just became aware of the fake number thing.
Not just giving a fake number but a fake number you call that says" You're a creepy loser, now get ten ring tones for free."

Yes they actually included a commercial. Seems too premeditated to not be mean spirited.

I would never do that to a woman.

Tell her I'm as gay as they come? Maybe. :wink: