Anyone have a *good* valentine's day?

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Yesterday morning when I posted was a bad sign, Valentine's day got very worse indeed before getting better, leaving lasting hurt upon me

I was sick yesterday with a nasty lil' cold actually. Hahahah. But at least I didn't have to see any PDA's at school.

I ended up on a date with a girl, our second time out and my first time with her without our mutual friends who hooked us up. She's cool, there are a lot of things about her that I do like, and she's shown a lot of interest in me - but there are a few things I'm seeing in her personalitywise as well that I'm really wondering if I'll be able to or want to deal with in the end. Also things almost went sideways in terms of a third party last night; overall yesterday was a real mixed-bag.

My Valentine's was pretty good. Had a second date with a girl I met on a online dating service. We're spending Saturday together.
I would definitely recommend such services for the lonely. I see beautiful girls everyday and on rare occasions I work up enough courage to begin a conversation and start building a rapport with them. However, when I get around to asking them on a date, they always preface their agreement with a "I'm just looking for friendship" provisio

The girls you meet on dating services are by definition looking for something more than friendship, so at least you won't suffer from a pre-emptive broken heart.

Anyways, that's my advice.

In my country we don't celebrate Valentine's day.

Very good She bought me a nice card and is going to get me a gift, though she has to wait about a week. I bought her a card with Snoopy, and a large stuffed dog, and she loved them both (she likes Snoopy, and I was tipped off that she wanted a dog from Walgreens)!

Kind of crappy. I worked in the grocery store for 6 hours, dealing with very grumpy customers (one almost hit me in the head while yelling, another yelled, many complained about not having certain products and that It's my fault for not carrying them), and then from all of that emotion and negative energy...I cried for about an hour (I don't like being sensitive sometimes because of that); after that, I went to my social group for aspergers only to find out that this woman who has AS that I was friends with wanted to stay friends; this was fine with me (okay, at least she wasn't scared of me or thought me weird like most NTs). Nevertheless, another year w/o a girlfriend. Hey, on the positive side, at least I have a job, a car, a small villa, but more important than that, I have my family, my 1 or 2 friends and their cats, who all love me. I'm grateful for that more than anything.