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28 Feb 2008, 2:39 pm

gwenevyn wrote:

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Noq quite sure I follow you? Holding back when, online now or in real life?

Ah, I'm just speculating anyhow. What I mean is IRL, when you are focusing on being nice and polite, maybe women feel like they can't connect with you?

I don't know how this stuff works, either.

Gwen is trying to tell you that you are a hypocrite and pathetically pretender , kiddy.

Aren't we all!

Er. Hypocrites, that is.

You mean that we are all masked somehow?

Well this is a deep theory and I somehow agree to some extent.

But I don't think being masked is same thing as being so self-righteous hypocrite. Hypocrisy is the act of condemning another person, where the stated basis for the criticism is the breach of a rule which also applies to the critic and of which the critic is in breach to a similar or greater extent.

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28 Feb 2008, 2:41 pm

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I do not have AS, but I feel I should comment on this since I get this too.

I often feel like I'm treated like a child or some sort of "neat novelty." It's a pain in the ass, and somewhat obvious, I'm a year younger than most college students, and I look younger than my age on top of that. It's frustrating and I don't feel like I'm taken seriously all the time.

See?? he's NT and he's facing the same problem ....it's not just a matter of social skills.

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28 Feb 2008, 2:41 pm

I withdraw from this conversation. When I posted I had only read the original post. Now having read everything in between, I see what a shitstorm it has become.

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I could have them against a wall and bang them easily, and they treat me like a child!

Maybe because you act like a whiny twelve-year-old that has seen too many R-rated movies.

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28 Feb 2008, 2:42 pm

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Maybe because you act like a whiny twelve-year-old that has seen too many R-rated movies.

I didn't want to say it, but thank you

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28 Feb 2008, 3:23 pm

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Sigh...much confusion.

First of all, theres no such thing as a gentleman. I don't care what you think of certain actions and how rude they may be, the simple fact is women like assertiveness. Their sexual nature is submissive by default, and although they scream and cry for a sensitive guy, don't ever be so foolish as to think they don't want to be dominated in some way.

And second, it doesn't matter what face a person puts on when faced with a certain situation. I am both the Lord and Savior, I could explain in pages how humanity should be saved, how it has it's graces. Then in the other, I could reveal how much I detest and despise them all, and how the failed experiment known as creation cannot be corrected unless erased.

So, in closing, think a little more in depth of what people may say, and how they act. They're human after all, and follow a rather predictable pattern of thinking...

Okay there are gentleman. What is your socioeconomical background? I'm guessing you are lower-class or you wouldn't have said. Also you are generalizing. Not all women like the overly assertive as*hole type. If they were all like that the human race would pretty much be extinct. Also I have met many domineering and agressive women who were still very feminine. There are sensitive men who are masculine, and frankly I think your view of the world is quite small, or you would know that there are all different types of men and women. On another note guys who are naturally shy should not have to change who they are. American society in many ways is getting very progressive in this area, and you do see shy men with domineering women. Yet people sometimes jokes about it. Btw the anime references make YOU seem quite childish and immature, time to turnoff the cartoons.

Wow, such a hostile response. You're weak. We will not get along.

But anyway, you're completely wrong. All women seek to be dominated, whether it be physical, sexual, intellectual or by means of judgement by society through their behavior of gender reversal.

You say if things were this way, we would be extinct. Just the opposite. Humans are nowhere near perfect, as you so "accurately" portray. Intelligence was never factored into our being, yet alone social pre-dispositions. And so we struggle, against basic instinct of survival of the fittest, constantly adapting what we feel so deeply into what we think we should be.

I take you, for example. So frustrated with your failure. You're not one to be dominant, simply by intellectual nature. You know it's wrong. But, it's now what you feel.

And so, you lash out. You're unable to understand everything around and inside you, so you're alone. And so, you begin to hate. You value yourself above others, giving condescending remarks about "class" status. How petty.

You're cornered. You don't know what to do. You came here, you saw truth your hateful self didn't want to accept. Put it down, put it down simply and quickly. Your right, and any other is wrong and stupid. I pity you, and the life that awaits you.

So predictable.

I am far from weak. I am also someone that has had a wide view of the world. There are women who are dominant and certainly feminine and sensitive men who are not dominant yet masculine. Your opinions are dumb, and I disagree. Also in certain social classes of society men can act sensitive and artistic and things like that and it is perfectly acceptable. A construction worker acts domineering and agressive simply because he has to in order to survive. A composer may come across as the submissive male type. These weren't condescending remarks. I am assuming you are American as am I and in our society we tend to erase class while most other societies underline it. And I'm not talking about money here I'm talking about classy beahvior by definition. You see 14 year olds wearing tatoos and getting drunk in our society, very low-class behavior. How many people listen to hip-hop as opossed to broadway? Yet the street-wise mentality is glorified. There is no reason to pity me at all, because I actually no how to get women, yet I just have a difficult time with it right now, due to social skills problems I have always had and frankly due to luck. That is what life is. Life is about luck.

No. Life is about circumstance, not luck.

And with such a "wide view of the World" it's funny how you forgot to leave out that part that everyone thinks differently, everyone wants different things, and that different people will sacrifice different things in order to obtain a different ideal from their own.

Theres no such thing as "class." It's a simple invention by simple humans to put their insecurity to rest and give them a reason to act so high and mighty. You're just like those 14 year old hip-hop savvy teens. You think you're so much better, and that you're so right.

There is such a thing as acting in a classy way or acting like a gentleman. Take a Cary Grant type vs. a John Wayne type. No I don't think I'm better I just know there is classy and unclassy behavior.

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There is no reason to pity me at all, because I actually no how to get women, yet I just have a difficult time with it right now, due to social skills problems I have always had and frankly due to luck.

What's that I smell...it's, it's...the insecurity of the weak. Masked with the stench of the self-righteous. Disgusting.

I am not anywhere near weak, and thats a dumb comeback. There is nothing self-righterous about it.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:25 pm

Phagocyte wrote:

I withdraw from this conversation. When I posted I had only read the original post. Now having read everything in between, I see what a shitstorm it has become.

kid020 wrote:

I could have them against a wall and bang them easily, and they treat me like a child!

Maybe because you act like a whiny twelve-year-old that has seen too many R-rated movies.

wow you're not very intelliegent are you? Guess what I can physically throw a girl to the wall or on the bed and bang her brains out. Why the hell wouldn't I want to?

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28 Feb 2008, 3:28 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:

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See?? he's NT and he's facing the same problem ....it's not just a matter of social skills.

A year younger so what, if people don't respect you thats there problem. I tend to do this but it is kind of ridiculous to let peoples opinion's of you bother you.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:29 pm

I've had people treat me like a kid. It's annoying at times but I rather be that than the boring "adult".

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28 Feb 2008, 3:33 pm

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wow you're not very intelliegent are you?

I don't know if I'm "intelliegent" or not, whatever the hell that means. If you're going to insult me on the basis of intelligence, at least have the decency to use proper English. Spell correctly, and punctuate when necessary.

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Guess what I can physically throw a girl to the wall or on the bed and bang her brains out. Why the hell wouldn't I want to?

So can a lot of people. They're called rapists.

Stop being a loser and get your act together.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:33 pm

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I've had people treat me like a kid. It's annoying at times but I rather be that than the boring "adult".

Are you Asperger's because this made me think of another aspect of this situation which I find quite interesting: I have read that people with Asperger's tend to act developmentally younger. This is a very positive view on your situation. I think it would be less likely to bother a girl to be treated like a kid. At times, I don't mind it when girls treat me like a kid if there being nice to me, it just makes me feel like they don't look at me as a potential boyfriend.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:37 pm

Kid020, you're clearly caught off guard and looking for an arguement...and so, I present to you:

2+2=22.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:37 pm

Phagocyte wrote:

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wow you're not very intelliegent are you?

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Guess what I can physically throw a girl to the wall or on the bed and bang her brains out. Why the hell wouldn't I want to?

So can a lot of people. They're called rapists.

Stop being a loser and get your act together.

No it's called sex, I wasn't talking about random girls I didn't know. ( you don't seem to know much about it). You have no room to call me a loser, and tell me to get my life together. I have managed to be in a relationship, and have friends and quite frankly do well most of the time. Just curious, have you?

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28 Feb 2008, 3:40 pm

kid020 wrote:

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wow you're not very intelliegent are you?

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Guess what I can physically throw a girl to the wall or on the bed and bang her brains out. Why the hell wouldn't I want to?

So can a lot of people. They're called rapists.

Stop being a loser and get your act together.

I could almost swear your a bitter virgin. Try much to impress while seeming indifferent much?

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28 Feb 2008, 3:40 pm

[quote="Bluesummers"]Kid020, you're clearly caught off guard and looking for an arguement...and so, I present to you:

2+2=22.[/quote

no 2+2= 4

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28 Feb 2008, 3:40 pm

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Not really. I have one good platonic friend for eleven years, but that's about it.

I admit I have little social success, though at least I'm damn sure it's not because I'm disrespectful or sexist.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:43 pm

kid020 wrote:

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Kid020, you're clearly caught off guard and looking for an arguement...and so, I present to you:

2+2=22.[/quote

no 2+2= 4

Sigh. Just as I expected. I don't like you, or your "wide" yet narrow views.

I dare you to submit to one of your faults. I dare you.

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