The reason women won't date you has nothing to do with your looks and everything to do with the way you conduct yourself socially. That is a huge can of worms, but you can improve it! First, stop thinking of yourself as some sort of grotesque monster, that clearly isn't true. Besides, if you think you are a loser, people will not want to be around you. Go to wikipedia and look up "social proof" to see why. Also, Complex wrote a complete e-book in this site (It's either in this section or in the adult section, I forgot) - read it, it should do you some good.