simplyhere wrote:
Honestly I think the guy should make the first move...
That is my advice to you whether or not he is an Aspie. Nothing wrong with telling him you like him if you are comfortable with that. . .but trust me. . .let him initiate the relationship if that is what he wants. I promise it works better that way for everyone.
Surely telling him is initiating the relationship, if he likes you too - not that I see anything wrong with that. Of course, the danger of waiting for him to take the initiative is that, for whatever reason, he may be under the impression you're not interested and in that case he will not do it.
I can't personally vouch for if relationships work differently if she asks him out, never having been asked out myself.
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