t0 wrote:
LoveableNerd wrote:
Aspie guys usually don't have any desire to do the types of activities that lead to meeting women in the real world, so if you stop looking and only do what you like to do, your odds are likely better at winning the lottery than running into your dream girl.
If you: "only do what you like to do"
And this results in you not doing "the types of activities that lead to meeting women in the real world"
Does it logically follow that:
1) You don't really want to meet your dream girl? Or
2) Does it mean your dream girl isn't in the real world?
Or is there some other option I'm missing?
It means that not many girls, at least in Podunk where I live, are into RPG's, sci fi or computer programming. There are a few into libertarian politics, believe it or not, but they are all taken. The only single ones I ever see around town anyway are either still in high school (jail bait), or ewwww doesn't even begin to describe them. So, I'm sure she is in the real world, but nowhere near where I live. And yes I want to meet her, that is why the advice of "quit looking" doesn't fly... in order to have a prayer of meeting her I have to actively search in places I would not have any logical reason to be otherwise. Like online for profiles listed in cities far away from here.
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