BigK wrote:
sands wrote:
I think that might be common with Aspergers. Romance is not really a big deal. I think it's more important to have shared values and beliefs. Romance to me is buying dead flowers (in which I hate) to get something that should be given freely because you love the person anyway! Of course, that's just my opinion.
Romance is a big deal if it is a big deal to your partner.
I will never understand why being given flowers/presents is a wonderful thing to some people but it is.
People's minds work very differently. It doesn't really matter how others see things only how it matters to
your partner.
Talking to the flower guy here.
I've found that giving flowers at valentines and christmas is a great way to show the person that you care and are thinking about them.
It's what I started doing Freshman year of college( I'm a junior this year) I chose a girl at random who I knew didn't have a boyfriend or any reason to celebrate, and made her day by sending her a rose(non romantical of course) and a card, just wishing her a happy valentine's. I did the same thing this past christmas, which I think is a great idea as well........even if rumors ended up floating around about me dating said girl, and again at valentine's this year, to a girl who is a close firend of mine who hates valentines', but it still cheered up her day. from now on, Christmas and Valentines is when I do it. just a simple reminder that I care, and that they are appreciated.
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