Getting Women to Take You Seriously

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There are a lot of guys out there who really CANT STAND girls who act like insecure, macho guys and pull this s**t.....just so you get the idea. Insecurity in women can be JUST as much of a Turn-Off to Men as vice versa.

You've totally lost me. Maybe you could outline what you view as insecurity in women, and maybe even how your comments are at all relevant to the discussion at hand.

Your explanation is neither the simplest nor the right one.

What is a fact is that most women I have met have responded negatively after my sincere and best attempts at the time to make good-faith converdation with them. Trying to play the flirting game when in actuality you don't know what the f*** you're doing seems to be an invitation for disaster (as your shaking off aspie faux pas doesn't mean the girl will). Now learning what you're doing in social situations is always nice; then again, this is what I've been trying to do for many years with progress much slower than that of my age-peers (you know, those theory-of-mind deficits we have that make socializing for us memorizing ever more intricate rules and exceptions to simulate smooth NT-style socializing to the extent we can).

Insecurity in this case must refer to your overcompensation with quipped, cocksure answers to everything and your framing AS-related dating and social difficulties in NT advice/memes even after explanation should have made it clear to you that your ideas are off-base.

**eating popcorn**

NH, can't for the life of me imagine why women don't take you seriously.

Popcorn sounds good. That stuff in the black bag with natural white cheese - what brand is that? Where I live now they only have the caramel option.