Do girls you like want nothing to do with you?

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michel
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27 Aug 2008, 10:38 am

ProtossX wrote:

I hate the way the world works it'd be nicer if everyone even medicore ppl had a shot with hotter babes but I guess thats not how the world works and it sucks but o well

every hot blond ive liked seem to like a diff guy tht looks nothing like me

You have to try to put yourself in their position. Let's say, for argument's sake, that you're one of those hot blondes with juicy tits you're so attracted to. Who do you think you'd want to hang out with and date? A mediocre guy, or a hot guy? Remember, attraction works both ways.

Of course, you'd want to go out with a hot guy, or maybe a dangerous looking guy, someone exciting, wild, and fun. Someone with a cool factor.

Hot blondes with nice tits don't exist solely for your sexual fulfillment. They are real girls with real feelings and desires, not blow up dolls you can use and dispose of at your convenience.

If you're serious about dating such a girl, find out the type of guy she likes and become that guy. Remember, attraction works both ways.

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27 Aug 2008, 11:34 am

Xercies wrote:

I wonder why that is...anyway why do you really want these hot babes not just for sex. There not really going to say anything interesting and thats why they go out with these buff dudes. Both of them have no brains and just use their looks to attract people. But us we can use our smarts.

Beauty and dumbness are not correlated , stop making such dumb statements.

Most ugly girls ,dumb or brainiac, wish to go out with these 'buff' dudes but they just can't, they usually have no chance with them since these dudes usually have many options and they will probably pick the prettier... .

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27 Aug 2008, 11:36 am

ProtossX wrote:

I dunno is it pickier if they THEY ARE into total meatheads with big arms and u know buffer guys?

I hate the way the world works it'd be nicer if everyone even medicore ppl had a shot with hotter babes but I guess thats not how the world works and it sucks but o well

every hot blond ive liked seem to like a diff guy tht looks nothing like me

Look, if you only seek for a gorgeous blonde model and you do realize that you are not attractive enough to attract then maybe you have to aim lower..

How the way world works won't change for you.

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27 Aug 2008, 11:36 am

I think you find there is some correlation for beuty and dumbness...

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27 Aug 2008, 11:38 am

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I think you find there is some correlation for beuty and dumbness...

No there's not ....but there's a positive correlation between self-esteem and beauty and self-esteem affects people's success. Beauty was never a disadvantage , anyone telling you otherwise is lying to himself and to you.

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27 Aug 2008, 11:49 am

Xercies wrote:

I think you find there is some correlation for beuty and dumbness...

No, no correlation whatsoever. Do you think Angelina Jolie, who won an oscar, flies her own airplane and is an ambassador for goodwill projects is dumb? Because she sure is purdy.

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27 Aug 2008, 11:56 am

Yes yes I do...I think most celebrities are dumb actually, and i haven't seen a fit smart girl yet...

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29 Aug 2008, 3:55 pm

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I know it can be difficult finding someone that appeals to your tastes, but keeping an open mind with women, regardless on their physical appearance, will bring you luck. Having a great attitude around the ladies wouldn't hurt either, they are not attracted to needy or disrespectful guys, it shouldn't be that hard to find a nice young lady.

What he said.

If you don't like women who aren't smoking hot, blonde or whatever just tell them you're not interested if they don't get your hints.

Isn't that simple enough?

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29 Aug 2008, 5:00 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:

Xercies wrote:

I think you find there is some correlation for beuty and dumbness...

I actually think there could be, if you think of evolution a more physically attractive person will not need intellegents as much to find a mate. I don't have any stats or studies to back that up though. It just seems logical.

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29 Aug 2008, 5:04 pm

Here is an idea: why not date a girl for who she is, and not just because she is blonde, has big boobs and a tight ass? I mean, sure looks are important, I think my girlfriend is absolutely stunning, really -- but I love her for who she is, LoL

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29 Aug 2008, 5:22 pm

mickaelx99 wrote:

Yep. I didnt even notice my ex had a body when i met her,
until 10 minutes later when i finally managed to get myself
away from those eye and looked aound. It was what she
said, what i felt when our eyes met and her smile, i think i
fell a little in love with her right there on the spot

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29 Aug 2008, 5:30 pm

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and not just because she is blonde

Why all this common hatred against blondes?
ps: I am not blonde

mickaelx99 wrote:

Here is an idea: why not date a girl for who she is, and not just because she is blonde, has big boobs and a tight ass? I mean, sure looks are important,* I think my girlfriend is absolutely stunning, really -- but I love her for who she is, LoL**

Ok philosopher , once you start dating an unattractive ugly non-stunning hag-girl then you can start preaching your wisdom and about how to love someone's innerself alone.

Don't get me wrong, I am not with ProtossX's illogical high standards but I hate people who claim that they fall in love with someone else regardless of the looks and claim that looks had nothing to do with the initiation of their feelings toward this person.

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29 Aug 2008, 5:50 pm

My problem is that everyone else is completely demoralized and I refuse to be. Girls don't trust nice guys because there are to many people running around trying to be nice guys and I get to hear all the horror stories about how they got played and the guy slept with their best friend or some other terrible thing like that. I've been cheated on and I've been played before but I don't allow that to make me untrusting of brand new people I meet.

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29 Aug 2008, 6:16 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:

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and not just because she is blonde

Why all this common hatred against blondes?
ps: I am not blonde

mickaelx99 wrote:

Prince.

I haven't dated the beauties either.

and should it matter though? hmm?

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29 Aug 2008, 6:33 pm

Gamester wrote:

Prince.

I haven't dated the beauties either.

and should it matter though? hmm?

Uhh if she wasn't a beautie to you then why did you date her?

talk about low standards you date people that you think don't look attractive or beautifuL? for what?

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29 Aug 2008, 6:35 pm

You should never discount beauty... I am just saying though, that it's better to have looks and a personality to go with it. Otherwise, you might as well just buy a Barbie and throw it onto your bed... LoL

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