NT/Aspie Girls- Does intelligence mean anything romantically

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That's good. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who thinks like that.

To me being successful in life is being happy. And jobs, income and other things don't cause happiness.

It's more intuitive and wise than that, real love!

looking back (it's been a few years) I think it was the overall intelligence, wit, the fact that he never poked fun at my clumsiness or ridiculed my random thoughts and monologues... well maybe he did a bit, but in a nice way

he was also really chilled out, which I like a lot, and easy to be around with, non-judgemental.

as far as impressing goes I must admit that I was most impressed with his ability to hold a discussion and the fact that he was a philosophy graduate was also super sexy

I am attracted to men with high IQ's but how educated they are doesn't seem to mean much as how much charisma they have. People with low average intelligence can have alot of charisma and I might be attracted to them sexually. However, when it comes to long term relationship; I definetly need some one that is bright. Otherwise they don't undertsand me and I am frustrated with men that are as thick as bricks.