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28 Jan 2009, 1:46 pm

BellaDonna wrote:

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Ooo another LoTR username!

What does that mean?

LoTR stands for "Lord of the Rings." The username "frodosam" combines the names of two characters from that story.

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28 Jan 2009, 2:25 pm

GoatOnFire wrote:

15. Obsolete. wanton.

Interesting, since "wanton" is sorta the antonym of what present-day people mean by "a nice girl."

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28 Jan 2009, 3:09 pm

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My dad had a saying that went something like:

"Good girls go to Heaven, bad girls go to Hell, and nice girls go everywhere else!"

Somehow, it's one of the few things he said that actually makes some sense in the Real World.

I've never understood that saying.

Where is everywhere else?

Oh, I dunno ... Paris? The Bahamas? Hawaii? Maybe anywhere that a man might want to take a girl that treats him nicely? Any place that caters to women who behave nicely?

Use your imagination.

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28 Jan 2009, 3:14 pm

In my opinion a nice girl is someone who is friendly with a kind nature.

Some of the things you people are describing I would call gushy and insipid, pushovers and sickly sweet people.

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28 Jan 2009, 3:22 pm

I thought this thread was about why nice girls may finish last.

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28 Jan 2009, 3:27 pm

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Girls are bought up and conditioned to be nice, thats all. When I was growing up - it was don't do this or don't do that or it will upset him. It was always about how men felt and how to act around them - BS.

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28 Jan 2009, 5:59 pm

Fnord wrote:

BellaDonna wrote:

Fnord wrote:

I've never understood that saying.

Where is everywhere else?

Oh, I dunno ... Paris? The Bahamas? Hawaii? Maybe anywhere that a man might want to take a girl that treats him nicely? Any place that caters to women who behave nicely?

Use your imagination.

So both good and bad girls die and nice girls get to live life to the fullest and travel the world.

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28 Jan 2009, 6:09 pm

BellaDonna wrote:

Fnord wrote:

BellaDonna wrote:

Fnord wrote:

I've never understood that saying.

Where is everywhere else?

Oh, I dunno ... Paris? The Bahamas? Hawaii? Maybe anywhere that a man might want to take a girl that treats him nicely? Any place that caters to women who behave nicely?

Use your imagination.

So both good and bad girls die and nice girls get to live life to the fullest and travel the world.

Pretty much! Amazing things can happen when a person is nice.

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28 Jan 2009, 6:14 pm

Fnord wrote:

BellaDonna wrote:

Fnord wrote:

BellaDonna wrote:

Fnord wrote:

I've never understood that saying.

Where is everywhere else?

Oh, I dunno ... Paris? The Bahamas? Hawaii? Maybe anywhere that a man might want to take a girl that treats him nicely? Any place that caters to women who behave nicely?

Use your imagination.

So both good and bad girls die and nice girls get to live life to the fullest and travel the world.

Pretty much! Amazing things can happen when a person is nice.

I'm not being stupid but why should good girls have to die - it doesn't make sense.

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28 Jan 2009, 7:50 pm

BellaDonna wrote:

= Rape

Big girls don't cry.

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28 Jan 2009, 7:51 pm

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I'm not being stupid but why should good girls have to die - it doesn't make sense.

Because they are mortals. Nice girls are like the Highlander...

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28 Jan 2009, 7:54 pm

^ You mean as in "There can only be one" right? They're out there. WP is loaded with them.

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28 Jan 2009, 7:56 pm

BellaDonna wrote:

I'm not being stupid but why should good girls have to die - it doesn't make sense.

Every living thing eventually dies ... the good, the bad, the indifferent ... we're all going to die someday, regardless of what we say, do, think, or feel. It's inevitable, so we would do well to enjoy life simply, and be nice to as many people, and as often, as we can.

Because in the end, our entire lives will be represented by a single hyphen between two dates ...

John Hoyer Updike
March 18, 1932 – January 27, 2009

... and that's all there is to it.

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28 Jan 2009, 10:18 pm

i consider myself to be a nice girl, i'm not slu*ty, or bitchy, i have good intentions and i don't intentionaly do something to hurt anyone. I have respect for women and men, and i don't think i'm "better" than anyone. I give everyone a chance.
Yes they do exist, i know quite a few.

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28 Jan 2009, 10:23 pm

It takes me months to decide whether someone is nice or not (male or female), in respect to romantic relationships and quality friendships.

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29 Jan 2009, 12:25 am

frodosam wrote:

It takes me months to decide whether someone is nice or not (male or female), in respect to romantic relationships and quality friendships.

That is the right way to do it.......I mean, we have to watch movies four or five times to get the complete story. How much harder is when dealing with the complex psyche of a human, aspie or not.

hale_bopp: In my opinion a nice girl is someone who is friendly with a kind nature.

Yes, quite right. I think each person's definition of nice is dictated by their life experiences, and thus a norm would be hard to determine. I know some pushovers and gushy girls whom I avoid like the plague, they are not nice, or worse, trustworthy.

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