19 Feb 2009, 12:12 pm
19 Feb 2009, 1:54 pm
19 Feb 2009, 3:58 pm
Metalwolf wrote:
I am a 28 year old single female, who has been on a date only twice. I had tried e-harmony, until that got too expensive to keep paying every month. My mom had tried to set up a date where the guy could meet me, but ultimately he wasn't interested in keeping on dating as we lived too far apart. The other guy I dated was too dominant.
Its not that I never had guys become interested in me, as apparently they seem to find me pretty and so will look at me, but they never seem to ask me out. I seem to either not give off the 'proper signals' that signify interest, or it is 'culture' today for the female to ask the guy out. I don't know.
I don't wear makeup, and I love Star Wars and video games, so I wish I could find a man who a had simular interests.
I just wish I could find a guy.
Its not that I never had guys become interested in me, as apparently they seem to find me pretty and so will look at me, but they never seem to ask me out. I seem to either not give off the 'proper signals' that signify interest, or it is 'culture' today for the female to ask the guy out. I don't know.
I don't wear makeup, and I love Star Wars and video games, so I wish I could find a man who a had simular interests.
I just wish I could find a guy.
Wow, I can't believe youdon't have a guy with those qualifications-NOT SARCASM-
19 Feb 2009, 4:30 pm
sinsboldly
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20 Feb 2009, 1:12 am
billsmithglendale wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
billsmithglendale wrote:
Come to think of it, there's a woman at my workplace like this as well - likely either depressed or an Aspie, or both.
The moment I saw her my first day at work, I developed a huge crush on her. However, I'm married, so I can only admire from afar, as it should be. She doesn't like me that way anyways, from what I can tell, so no worries there
She's exactly what I like -- Chinese-American, certain look to her, very pale skin, a certain kind of face, intelligent, well-read -- while some people think she's pretty, she's not at the top of anyone's list by far. She's also 35 and apparently not in a relationship, though she may have had one in the past with a guy whose pic and facebook responses seem to peg him as an Aspie (they apparently are not together). She does some Aspie things (like twisting), and comes off as cold, disinterested, or sour.
I think it's a shame -- to me, she's gorgeous, and she does have a great smile and some good humor when you get it out of her. I think she is probably overly picky, but also probably one who is hard to live with or around -- for instance, she lives with her sister right now after moving out here from another state, but she and her sister are not on great terms (there's an age gulf as well).
From what I can tell on her facebook page, she doesn't have a BF, doesn't seem to spend a lot of time with guys, just female friends, but isn't gay (her friends are homely but not lesbian or masculine). I do wish she was happy, and I still lust after her a bit too much (in my mind) when I'm around her, because she physically reminds me of several ex girlfriends and crushes.
The moment I saw her my first day at work, I developed a huge crush on her. However, I'm married, so I can only admire from afar, as it should be. She doesn't like me that way anyways, from what I can tell, so no worries there
She's exactly what I like -- Chinese-American, certain look to her, very pale skin, a certain kind of face, intelligent, well-read -- while some people think she's pretty, she's not at the top of anyone's list by far. She's also 35 and apparently not in a relationship, though she may have had one in the past with a guy whose pic and facebook responses seem to peg him as an Aspie (they apparently are not together). She does some Aspie things (like twisting), and comes off as cold, disinterested, or sour.
I think it's a shame -- to me, she's gorgeous, and she does have a great smile and some good humor when you get it out of her. I think she is probably overly picky, but also probably one who is hard to live with or around -- for instance, she lives with her sister right now after moving out here from another state, but she and her sister are not on great terms (there's an age gulf as well).
From what I can tell on her facebook page, she doesn't have a BF, doesn't seem to spend a lot of time with guys, just female friends, but isn't gay (her friends are homely but not lesbian or masculine). I do wish she was happy, and I still lust after her a bit too much (in my mind) when I'm around her, because she physically reminds me of several ex girlfriends and crushes.
I am glad I am not married to someone that knows all of that about a girl he is infatuated with!
Merle
Do you ever window shop for something you have no intention of buying? It's a harsh truth, but most guys look, even when they're perfectly happy at home. I have no intention of ever trading what I have for that person, but it is a person I can't help but feel something for due to various factors. I've seen the same behavior from woman coworkers as well (including towards my long-married self), so I think this is just a human thing.
And in my case, I happen to be nosy and a people watcher. I just think it's such a waste -- attractive woman, not taking care of her skin or dressing well (because she works around tech dorks all day, I guess, but there must be more). I think she's unhappy, but she's not doing what it takes to be happy.
seriously dude, you are starting to sound creepy.
Merle
20 Feb 2009, 1:37 am
ToadOfSteel wrote:
computerlove wrote:
jawbrodt wrote:
Hmmm.....Pennsylvania? 
dude, you're in the pennsilvania
Wolf, I'd like to introduce you to Jawbrodt, nice guy, funny, good person
Jawb, metalwolf, nice chica, loves star wars and video games
shut up I'm trying to figure out how close to jersey she is...
I feel sorry for aspies that live in Jersey. It is a shame because Jersey is a nice place. If I was to move there I would most probably be the only black aspie on the island.
20 Feb 2009, 1:38 am
ToadOfSteel wrote:
computerlove wrote:
jawbrodt wrote:
Hmmm.....Pennsylvania?
dude, you're in the pennsilvania
Wolf, I'd like to introduce you to Jawbrodt, nice guy, funny, good person
Jawb, metalwolf, nice chica, loves star wars and video games
shut up I'm trying to figure out how close to jersey she is...
I feel sorry for aspies that live in Jersey. It is a shame because Jersey is a nice place. If I was to move there I would most probably be the only black aspie on the island.
20 Feb 2009, 1:53 am
20 Feb 2009, 9:29 am
20 Feb 2009, 11:46 am
Aspie_Chav wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
computerlove wrote:
jawbrodt wrote:
Hmmm.....Pennsylvania?
dude, you're in the pennsilvania
Wolf, I'd like to introduce you to Jawbrodt, nice guy, funny, good person
Jawb, metalwolf, nice chica, loves star wars and video games
shut up I'm trying to figure out how close to jersey she is...
I feel sorry for aspies that live in Jersey. It is a shame because Jersey is a nice place. If I was to move there I would most probably be the only black aspie on the island.
Pennsylvania is a long way from Jersey.
New Jersey is a bit closer.
20 Feb 2009, 1:40 pm
BigK wrote:
Aspie_Chav wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
computerlove wrote:
jawbrodt wrote:
Hmmm.....Pennsylvania?
dude, you're in the pennsilvania
Wolf, I'd like to introduce you to Jawbrodt, nice guy, funny, good person
Jawb, metalwolf, nice chica, loves star wars and video games
shut up I'm trying to figure out how close to jersey she is...
I feel sorry for aspies that live in Jersey. It is a shame because Jersey is a nice place. If I was to move there I would most probably be the only black aspie on the island.
Pennsylvania is a long way from Jersey.
New Jersey is a bit closer.
Those of us in the US state of NJ refuse to acknowledge the existence of a particular island in the English Channel...
In other words, we often omit the "new" from our name...
20 Feb 2009, 1:59 pm
Metalwolf
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20 Feb 2009, 6:25 pm
ToadofSteel, I live close to Delaware if you are wondering 
20 Feb 2009, 8:05 pm
20 Feb 2009, 8:51 pm
ToadOfSteel wrote:
Those of us in the US state of NJ refuse to acknowledge the existence of a particular island in the English Channel...
In other words, we often omit the "new" from our name...
In other words, we often omit the "new" from our name...
Island!?! What island? Sounds like Euro-propaganda to me
20 Feb 2009, 9:08 pm
Metalwolf wrote:
I am a 28 year old single female, who has been on a date only twice. I had tried e-harmony, until that got too expensive to keep paying every month. My mom had tried to set up a date where the guy could meet me, but ultimately he wasn't interested in keeping on dating as we lived too far apart. The other guy I dated was too dominant.
Its not that I never had guys become interested in me, as apparently they seem to find me pretty and so will look at me, but they never seem to ask me out. I seem to either not give off the 'proper signals' that signify interest, or it is 'culture' today for the female to ask the guy out. I don't know.
I don't wear makeup, and I love Star Wars and video games, so I wish I could find a man who a had simular interests.
I just wish I could find a guy.
Its not that I never had guys become interested in me, as apparently they seem to find me pretty and so will look at me, but they never seem to ask me out. I seem to either not give off the 'proper signals' that signify interest, or it is 'culture' today for the female to ask the guy out. I don't know.
I don't wear makeup, and I love Star Wars and video games, so I wish I could find a man who a had simular interests.
I just wish I could find a guy.
*starts singing "someday my prince will come" from snow white*
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