Would you date a single mom?

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08 May 2009, 1:22 pm

Asuigeneris1 wrote:
I was a single mom when I met my boyfriend, but it isn't really the same as it would be if my sons were young...they are teens and doing their own thing, and they have a father already.

...my boyfriend also is in no way shape or form in the right state of mind to be a dad, so I know that he will never want children of his own.


Sounds like a win-win situation to me. I think that dating a single mom with Young(as in under age 13) is a bigger deal than dating a single mom with teenagers. Young children are very needy and demand a lot of attention, and this can lead to some MAJOR jealousy issues for their boyfriends if the woman has male children.



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08 May 2009, 1:59 pm

if said single mom/mum likes me & the kids don't mind me being involved then yes, why not :)
I'd imagine someone with children will be responsible, but also very caring.



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09 May 2009, 2:07 pm

Screaming children and crying babies annoy me so I probably wouldn't date a single parent, and they already been sexual with someone, I want someone who is a virgin.


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09 May 2009, 2:33 pm

i date an aspie-mom of three nice and nerdy aspie-kids... and she dates an aspie-dad of four nice and nerdy aspie-kids in return... so last summer we chose to live together happily efter after...

and now we are probably the largeste aspie-family in denmark... or europe... or even world? 8)










and øh... we actually wouldn't mind if we were even more aspies! :mrgreen:



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09 May 2009, 3:08 pm

Depends on how old the kid/kids are. Over about 6 probably fine - the older the better. A baby no way - probably not under the age of 3 either. Very young children are too noisy, messy and dirty for me to tolerate.



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09 May 2009, 4:08 pm

aspi-rant wrote:
i date an aspie-mom of three nice and nerdy aspie-kids... and she dates an aspie-dad of four nice and nerdy aspie-kids in return... so last summer we chose to live together happily efter after...

and now we are probably the largeste aspie-family in denmark... or europe... or even world? 8)










and øh... we actually wouldn't mind if we were even more aspies! :mrgreen:


thats fantastic!! !
:D :D :D :D



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09 May 2009, 4:17 pm

hell no. if you have kids there not my responsibility, plus i grew up in a home with step parents and it was AWFUL.



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09 May 2009, 4:31 pm

aspi-rant wrote:
i date an aspie-mom of three nice and nerdy aspie-kids... and she dates an aspie-dad of four nice and nerdy aspie-kids in return... so last summer we chose to live together happily efter after...

and now we are probably the largeste aspie-family in denmark... or europe... or even world? 8)


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10 May 2009, 11:32 am

@ lotusblossom: yep! :-)

@ toadofsteel: yep 8)



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11 May 2009, 9:48 am

I'll date any woman who is compatible with me


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