Asuigeneris1 wrote:
I was a single mom when I met my boyfriend, but it isn't really the same as it would be if my sons were young...they are teens and doing their own thing, and they have a father already.
...my boyfriend also is in no way shape or form in the right state of mind to be a dad, so I know that he will never want children of his own.
Sounds like a win-win situation to me. I think that dating a single mom with Young(as in under age 13) is a bigger deal than dating a single mom with teenagers. Young children are very needy and demand a lot of attention, and this can lead to some MAJOR jealousy issues for their boyfriends if the woman has male children.