Reasons why you're a bad catch

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I don't think I'm a bad catch but I do have a bit of anxiety and don't like long distance conversations.

1. I'm not really handsome (I think I'm okay but it seems like a lot of girls act like I'm disfigured or something)
2. I don't really have a future
3. I don't trust a lot of people
4. I don't like drinking, smoking, or watching reality TV.

That's about it.

My impulse control results in anger, temper tantrums and emotional outbursts when I do not get what I want. Aspergers/Autism can explain impulse control because my brain never fully developed and I still have the emotional maturity of a young child.

Weird and eccentric behaviour due to my Aspergers/Autism. Obsessive compulsiveness and narrow fields of interests due to my Aspergers/Autism.
Highly stress and anxious due to my Aspergers/Autism.
People do not like me or accept me due to my Aspergers/Autism.

I blame Aspergers/Autism for all my problems and I do not accept any responsibility.

1. Average looks.
2. Clueless about human relations
3. Clueless in social situations
4. Short attention span
5. Bad at small talk
6. Clumsy

I guess I'm pretty average on this forum...

Relatively short life ahead of me

I have little emotional attachment to people such as Boy Friends or Girlfriends.

1) I fail at almost everything I attempt.
2) I'm too clingy
3) I can't stand up for my own interests
4) I live with my parents and haven't tidied, not to speak of cleaned, my room once in the last two years, also haven't changed my bedsheets within half a year.
5) I'm perfectly comfortable with just being a very good and nice friend with an always open ear.

Lop I got all of those minus number 2

1. I'm immature and am not into commitment.

2. I have low self-esteem but this is not always apparent at first. The low self-esteem comes out later.

3. I am not good at being a gentleman, so I refuse to even try. I don't do the wooing thing at all.

4. What you see is typically not what you get.

5. You can never count on me to be emotionally available at any given time.

6. I'm pretty incompetent with most everyday things. At the stuff that women often think they are incompetent at, I'm just as bad or worse.

7. I'm flaky. I change my mind and ideas a lot.

8. I'm crazier and more complicated than she is.

9. I hate kids, animals, and plants.

10. I don't "take charge" or take initiative on anything, and I get very angry and hurl around accusations of sexism when I'm called out on this. If you order me to "be a man," I will likely break up with you on the spot.

11. I believe that marriage is an institution that primarily exists to benefit women, especially divorce, alimony, and custody laws, so I refuse to consider partaking in this awful system. I think co-habitation without marriage and without children is much more equal.

12. I don't have much of a social life or any close friends -- and really no male friends at all. I expect my girlfriends to arrange one for me.

Solution: move somewhere where women have less power to set expectations in dating relationships -- somewhere where women are more likely to be more assertive AND less likely to expect the man to conform to some perfect chick flick marriage-material stereotype. Somewhere like Asia, Eastern Europe or a large east coast city in the U.S.

I'm bi-polar
Get depressed for days
Don't want to go anywhere(this could be a plus,I'm a cheap date)
I don't like company
I don't like people moving things around in the house
No killing fly swatting or spider mashing allowed
I snore
My yard is full of snakes and other wild animals
I say sarcastic things
I drink,cuss,and sometimes smoke.Wish I had one now.
If backed in a corner I have a nasty temper
I stim and pace
Dislike holidays
I interrupt a lot
Hate boring chit chat
Dress like a bag lady at home,I will change for town.Other than that it's tobacco road.

1. I'm overweight.
2. I smoke about a million cigarettes a day, and thus smell like stale tobacco and cough up all sorts of stuff.
3. I'm likely to derail my own wedding by forgetting my vows and delivering a lecture on the War of the Triple Alliance.
4. I've got a sailor's lexicon.
5. I'll likely have a panic attack if you so much as think about intimacy
6. I'm likely to drag you to some country you've never heard of that might not necessarily have running water.

I demand monogamy in a society that now derides it.
I will no longer tolerate recreational drug use.
I will not facilitate drug addictions.
I tend to be very self deprecating because I'm aware of just how little I actually know/can do.
I have no money.
I don't follow popular culture and so I'm not aware of things other people find entertaining.

Emotionally detached - seen as emotionally shallow
Don't express feelings or emotions (positive or negative) in an age-appropriate way (so I'm told)
Tap - objects, myself, others
Dislike not knowing what is going on (i.e. spontaneity, surprises, unplanned activities)
Snore
Hypersensitive to criticism
Self-destructive
No idea what is going on in popular culture, and not going to pretend I care
Cagey about large chunks of my past
Sex is a physical activity, I don't get any "emotional connection" from it
Ambivalent
Won't eat in front of people
Drink and smoke

Because I get bored very easily by sensible people who lack boldness and intellectual curiosity.

I would quite literally rather watch paint dry than to participate in one more bland conversation about how someone finds fulfillment by knowing their place and doing what they're told.

At least the paint has a character arc.

1. I'm fat
2. I have dandruf
3. I'm bad at small talk
4. I'm nerdy at heart
5. I'm lazy
6. I'm a bit of an ass
7. my humor is wrong