While I understand that you may be looking more for male solidarity than female critique, I have found a small inconsistency that you may not be aware of.
Sometime World wrote:
My reply rate is probably under 1%. That is for every 100 average women of healthy weights I send a message to, maybe just 1 has the courtesy to reply back (probably more like 1 in 150)...
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They dangle me a carrot, but big women/BBW is just not my thing and I don't message them back.
My question is: if you find it inconsiderate for women to ignore your hundreds of messages, why do you find it acceptable to ignore the messages of big women? That is all.