Why are you still single ( one reason)

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Well, there's only one guy I really like and I think he's an aspie too! In this department, he contradicts himself a lot.

In short, I don't even know how to handle stuff like this. The Aspies I know are equally lost. And I just plain scare the NTs.

I think I am cursed, I'm attractive and good at snowboarding but I still haven't had a girlfriend. I have trouble picking up on signs females display when they are interested in me and if I do pick up the signs, I do not know how to react. I have never met a female aspie before, that would be interesting too.

I say ditto for all of you in previous 4 posts..... I find it is really rude for those NT's perspective against aspies.

Because I've lost most of my motivation to look for a relationship, and I've worn out all avenues I was using to find one. Now my only chance is to look for one....*shock* OFFLINE!!

Im trying to work on getting the right mindset.
I spent a while avoiding interactions with females for some dumb reason and now I still get nervous around females and they can see it.. Im working on it with some decent results but I still have plenty of work to do.

This weekend for example I met some new people that get together to take pictures and talk about photography... One of them brought his partner and I politely ignored her most of the time(she was with her partner and twice my age). At some point I took a break from the photographs and used some lame conversation starter.
She wanted to talk so we talked for a while. She made sure I was feeling nice(kept telling me I was the only one talking to her and I should go more oftenly blah blah) but I didnt know what to say most of the time. I was scared of saying the wrong thing and her thinking I was just a dumb kid or something
Somehow the night went on and she kept talking to me but as you may guess 99% of the girls that are approached by me(which are quite rare)usually leave when they see that I need so much time to reply...

I guess I'm just not interested. I know people who have been in at least two relationships at this point in our lives, but I never have. Plus, the thought of it kind of weirds me out.

But you're only 19. I'm almost 26 already and never had any physical connection with a woman.

If I turn 40 in 14 years and will still be a virgin, then this will make me feel slightly uneasy and maybe even a bit angry and sad.

I still need a break.

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Hmm." 5 or 6 sheep. "

Ok. Yep. Soo....

I am terrible. What to do now .

Because I don't have enough confidence to ask a girl out, and i am still in pain over being cheated on.

Got out of a relationship a month ago

Live with my parents, scared of other people, don't really know anyone I'd be interested in, not even interested in dating.

Live with my parents, scared of other people, don't really know anyone I'd be interested in, not even interested in dating.

Because I enjoy being single.