The_Face_of_Boo
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18 Mar 2013, 10:00 am
Fnord wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Quote:
This is a chicken and egg scenario... does putting this 'type' of woman in porn make men change their perception of what is 'feminine', or are these women already seen as 'feminine' and that's what the viewers want?
It's a cycle: Women with certain traits are already seen as feminine and those are more accepted to the porn industry, then with time, little by little, these traits were being emphasized/enhanced/exaggerated to attract more male viewers, which is in return altering the view of younger viewers. And voila!!So, how do you explain how these traits were emphasized over the hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution before the "porn industry" ever got started?
They were emphasized over the hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution, I did say those women who are already seen feminine are more likely to be accepted in the porn industry (same for fashion, beauty contests...etc).
But the porn industry have emphasized those traits even more, maybe by 10000 years in advance
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18 Mar 2013, 10:04 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Fnord wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Quote:
This is a chicken and egg scenario... does putting this 'type' of woman in porn make men change their perception of what is 'feminine', or are these women already seen as 'feminine' and that's what the viewers want?
It's a cycle: Women with certain traits are already seen as feminine and those are more accepted to the porn industry, then with time, little by little, these traits were being emphasized/enhanced/exaggerated to attract more male viewers, which is in return altering the view of younger viewers. And voila!!So, how do you explain how these traits were emphasized over the hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution before the "porn industry" ever got started?
They were emphasized over the hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution, I did say those women who are already seen feminine are more likely to be accepted in the porn industry (same for fashion, beauty contests...etc).
But the porn industry have emphasized those traits even more, maybe by 10000 years in advance
.Totally true
it's a completely unattainable standard of beauty for most women and to be constantly judged against this standard is a crushing experience
I want the males/people doing all this judging to experience a little more of it themselves for a change
18 Mar 2013, 10:04 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
luvsterriers wrote:
No way will I be topless or wear tight clothing to be in any music video. I'm too shy. 
Unless Pitbull offers to date you, then you would throw your bra in a blink of an eye.
Maybe if I was being date raped? Or drunk? Never want to be drunk and have a man try and rape me.
Whoa! Who mentioned rape? No, not that.
Never mind.
Oh sorry I just meant I would never take off a bra in front of any man. That's just not the type of woman I am. If I was perhaps drugged or intoxicated then I may do it. But that's something I never want to know. Sure I may be tempted to do wild things like the women in the videos, but really I wouldn't do it.
18 Mar 2013, 10:05 am
18 Mar 2013, 10:16 am
18 Mar 2013, 10:31 am
18 Mar 2013, 10:35 am
nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Quote:
This is a chicken and egg scenario... does putting this 'type' of woman in porn make men change their perception of what is 'feminine', or are these women already seen as 'feminine' and that's what the viewers want?
It's a cycle: Women with certain traits are already seen as feminine and those are more accepted to the porn industry, then with time, little by little, these traits were being emphasized/enhanced/exaggerated to attract more male viewers, which is in return altering the view of younger viewers.
And voila!!
Exactly!
and people seem oblivious to the effect all these media stereotypes are having on them
And with the use of cosmetic surgery increasing people aren't even competing with natural 'perfection' or femininity any more
The ideology that runs rampant in society that it is a "competition", as you've said, is the problem.
I've already discussed at great length the problems with the cosmetic industry and don't wish to repeat myself, you already seem to get the point anyway.. I just take it a step further and claim that excessive demand for women to wear makeup 24/7 in public has obliterated any regard for natural 'perfection' or true femininity.
Fnord wrote:
So, how do you explain how these traits were emphasized over the hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution before the "porn industry" ever got started?
Exactly. It's not the porn industry who initiated this perception, they are simply using what was already there. Clearly some aspects of pornography make the ideal much worse, with women having fake breasts and whatever... but I don't really know any guys who actually find that attractive honestly. I certainly don't.
Clearly there are different agendas found in society trying to advance what their view of "sexy" or "beauty" is, but the aspect of physical attractiveness labelled "femininity" is typically a very apparent one.. and usually just describes traits that make women, women... curves, hips, breasts, lips, long hair etc etc... These are pretty basic points, and rather silly to argue given that science can tell you that these are predictors of a healthy woman who can give birth to healthy babies etc..
Quote:
There was a wider field of what was considered attractive in the past
Look at any old master painting of a nude woman for a start - I can guarantee the likes of him on here would be saying 'Eww! she's not even remotely attractive!' re most of them
What is classed as a feminine look has got narrower and narrower - it's a fact
It's what causes a lot of the unhappiness and misery people experience these days - not being able to achieve the levels of perfection 'demanded' by others
I hate it
It's also done by people who need to take a good look in the mirror themselves, which I find bizarre! Everyone has this 'demand for perfection' thing going on and I've always found it ludicrous. It doesn't seem to depend on how the judger looks themselves At ALL.
Look at any old master painting of a nude woman for a start - I can guarantee the likes of him on here would be saying 'Eww! she's not even remotely attractive!' re most of them
What is classed as a feminine look has got narrower and narrower - it's a fact
It's what causes a lot of the unhappiness and misery people experience these days - not being able to achieve the levels of perfection 'demanded' by others
I hate it
It's also done by people who need to take a good look in the mirror themselves, which I find bizarre! Everyone has this 'demand for perfection' thing going on and I've always found it ludicrous. It doesn't seem to depend on how the judger looks themselves At ALL.
You are confusing the terms "Feminine" with "Beauty" or "Attractiveness". The latter are becoming classified in ways that are more narrow, yes... but femininity remains the same.
For example, here is a woman who I find to be Feminine, but I am not attracted to her.
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I want the males/people doing all this judging to experience a little more of it themselves for a change
As if I'm not ever judged for my appearance in my life... what a stupid thing to say.
Quote:
If I was harsh I'd say you were equally as harsh towards the woman in the video
It seems to be ok for you to rip her appearance to shreds but not ok to do the same to you - why is that?
Are you somehow better than her?
If I have a jaded opinion it's because of a lifetime of obnoxious idiots questioning my gender and attractiveness to each other in the same vein as you yourself have done towards that woman
it's not often I get right of reply towards people with such unpleasant attitudes
I'm realistic about the way I look but you appear to be more than a little delusional
Your whole character is a 'red flag' before anyone even moves onto how you look!
It seems to be ok for you to rip her appearance to shreds but not ok to do the same to you - why is that?
Are you somehow better than her?
If I have a jaded opinion it's because of a lifetime of obnoxious idiots questioning my gender and attractiveness to each other in the same vein as you yourself have done towards that woman
it's not often I get right of reply towards people with such unpleasant attitudes
I'm realistic about the way I look but you appear to be more than a little delusional
Your whole character is a 'red flag' before anyone even moves onto how you look!
I can't offer my opinion on anything to do with women around here without being ripped to shreds... it's really f*****g annoying.
I do not find her attractive, she looks manly to me in her features.
Does that make me better than her? No. What kind of stupid question is that? Where do you get off calling me ugly, then telling me I'm an as*hole who thinks he's better than people for offering his opinion on how they look? f**k off lady.
So basically I'm getting all your grief and BS because I made a comment.. go talk to a shrink or something, I don't need your BS.
A little more than delusional? Please, I see women checking me out all the f*****g time and I've had my fair share of sex partners, and I have flat out turned down more than a handful (not based on physical appearance).
First of all, someone would see me before they got to know my character, so that's a pretty dumb thing to say.
And my character is just fine, thanks.. I have strong opinions about a lot of things, and there are also a lot of people out there in the world who agree with me. I'm also well aware that there are people who do not, and they are typically those more prone to initiate name calling and insults when they don't get their way.
I haven't said anything here that was a "red flag" on my character, you're just blowing this way out of proportion because I have become the scapegoat for all the men you've wanted to yell at in your lifetime. It's not like I would walk up to this woman and tell her she looks like a man (TO ME). The difference is that you're telling me (online, but the point stands) to my face. In fact, I would be respectful to her just as any other woman. Especially since I would be aware that yes, other men would find her attractive... I can't be attracted to every god damn woman on the planet, but I still treat them as human beings.
A woman could be 800 pounds with gravy all over her mouth and there is a guy out there who would find her attractive.. so get off my case about this s**t, its ridiculous.
Like really, get over yourself if you think you have the right to say these things to me just because I offered my opinion about the way a woman looks..
Last edited by uwmonkdm on 18 Mar 2013, 10:44 am, edited 1 time in total.
18 Mar 2013, 10:43 am
uwmonkdm wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Quote:
This is a chicken and egg scenario... does putting this 'type' of woman in porn make men change their perception of what is 'feminine', or are these women already seen as 'feminine' and that's what the viewers want?
It's a cycle: Women with certain traits are already seen as feminine and those are more accepted to the porn industry, then with time, little by little, these traits were being emphasized/enhanced/exaggerated to attract more male viewers, which is in return altering the view of younger viewers.
And voila!!
Exactly!
and people seem oblivious to the effect all these media stereotypes are having on them
And with the use of cosmetic surgery increasing people aren't even competing with natural 'perfection' or femininity any more
The ideology that runs rampant in society that it is a "competition", as you've said, is the problem.
I've already discussed at great length the problems with the cosmetic industry and don't wish to repeat myself, you already seem to get the point anyway.. I just take it a step further and claim that excessive demand for women to wear makeup 24/7 in public has obliterated any regard for natural 'perfection' or true femininity.
Fnord wrote:
So, how do you explain how these traits were emphasized over the hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution before the "porn industry" ever got started?
Exactly. It's not the porn industry who initiated this perception, they are simply using what was already there. Clearly some aspects of pornography make the ideal much worse, with women having fake breasts and whatever... but I don't really know any guys who actually find that attractive honestly. I certainly don't.
Clearly there are different agendas found in society trying to advance what their view of "sexy" or "beauty" is, but the aspect of physical attractiveness labelled "femininity" is typically a very apparent one.. and usually just describes traits that make women, women... curves, hips, breasts, lips, long hair etc etc... These are pretty basic points, and rather silly to argue given that science can tell you that these are predictors of a healthy woman who can give birth to healthy babies etc..
Quote:
There was a wider field of what was considered attractive in the past
Look at any old master painting of a nude woman for a start - I can guarantee the likes of him on here would be saying 'Eww! she's not even remotely attractive!' re most of them
What is classed as a feminine look has got narrower and narrower - it's a fact
It's what causes a lot of the unhappiness and misery people experience these days - not being able to achieve the levels of perfection 'demanded' by others
I hate it
It's also done by people who need to take a good look in the mirror themselves, which I find bizarre! Everyone has this 'demand for perfection' thing going on and I've always found it ludicrous. It doesn't seem to depend on how the judger looks themselves At ALL.
Look at any old master painting of a nude woman for a start - I can guarantee the likes of him on here would be saying 'Eww! she's not even remotely attractive!' re most of them
What is classed as a feminine look has got narrower and narrower - it's a fact
It's what causes a lot of the unhappiness and misery people experience these days - not being able to achieve the levels of perfection 'demanded' by others
I hate it
It's also done by people who need to take a good look in the mirror themselves, which I find bizarre! Everyone has this 'demand for perfection' thing going on and I've always found it ludicrous. It doesn't seem to depend on how the judger looks themselves At ALL.
You are confusing the terms "Feminine" with "Beauty" or "Attractiveness". The latter are becoming classified in ways that are more narrow, yes... but femininity remains the same.
For example, here is a woman who I find to be Feminine, but I am not attracted to her.
Quote:
I want the males/people doing all this judging to experience a little more of it themselves for a change
As if I'm not ever judged for my appearance in my life... what a stupid thing to say.
Quote:
If I was harsh I'd say you were equally as harsh towards the woman in the video
It seems to be ok for you to rip her appearance to shreds but not ok to do the same to you - why is that?
Are you somehow better than her?
If I have a jaded opinion it's because of a lifetime of obnoxious idiots questioning my gender and attractiveness to each other in the same vein as you yourself have done towards that woman
it's not often I get right of reply towards people with such unpleasant attitudes
I'm realistic about the way I look but you appear to be more than a little delusional
Your whole character is a 'red flag' before anyone even moves onto how you look!
It seems to be ok for you to rip her appearance to shreds but not ok to do the same to you - why is that?
Are you somehow better than her?
If I have a jaded opinion it's because of a lifetime of obnoxious idiots questioning my gender and attractiveness to each other in the same vein as you yourself have done towards that woman
it's not often I get right of reply towards people with such unpleasant attitudes
I'm realistic about the way I look but you appear to be more than a little delusional
Your whole character is a 'red flag' before anyone even moves onto how you look!
I can't offer my opinion on anything to do with women around here without being ripped to shreds... it's really f***ing annoying.
I do not find her attractive, she looks manly to me in her features.
Does that make me better than her? No. What kind of stupid question is that? Where do you get off calling me ugly, then telling me I'm an as*hole who thinks he's better than people for offering his opinion on how they look? f**k off lady.
So basically I'm getting all your grief and BS because I made a comment.. go talk to a shrink or something, I don't need your BS.
A little more than delusional? Please, I see women checking me out all the f***ing time and I've had my fair share of sex partners, and I have flat out turned down more than a handful (not based on physical appearance).
First of all, someone would see me before they got to know my character, so that's a pretty dumb thing to say.
And my character is just fine, thanks.. I have strong opinions about a lot of things, and there are also a lot of people out there in the world who agree with me. I'm also well aware that there are people who do not, and they are typically those more prone to initiate name calling and insults when they don't get their way.
I haven't said anything here that was a "red flag" on my character, you're just blowing this way out of proportion because I have become the scapegoat for all the men you've wanted to yell at in your lifetime. It's not like I would walk up to this woman and tell her she looks like a man (TO ME). In fact, I would be respectful to her just as any other woman. I can't be attracted to every god damn woman on the planet, but I still treat them as human beings.
Like really, get over yourself if you think you have the right to say these things to me just because I offered my opinion about the way a woman looks..
How very interesting!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
18 Mar 2013, 10:46 am
18 Mar 2013, 10:49 am
nessa238 wrote:
How very interesting!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
No s**t no one likes it.. the question of her attractiveness was brought up, and I offered my opinion. Do you think that woman is going to be reading every thread on WrongPlanet to see if she's mentioned?
That's not a direct equivalence, I have the decency not to put someone down to their face, or even behind their back really. I only offered my opinion because it was part of the discussion.
I'm not really that angry about your comment about my looks, I know you're full of s**t anyway.. I'm quite confident with the way I look
I'm more annoyed about the fact that I can't say anything on this board about women, even when it's the topic in discussion, even if other people agree with me.. without getting torn a new ass hole.
If someone with your aggressive and destructive tone doesn't find me attractive, I believe that means I'm better off
Here's some clearer pictures of me, feel free to judge my appearance all you'd like.
I'm aware I'm a scronny pale white boy, with a big nose and big ears. I have a high hairline that makes me look like I'm balding, and I walk funny. Feel free to add anything else.
Last edited by uwmonkdm on 18 Mar 2013, 10:55 am, edited 1 time in total.
18 Mar 2013, 10:50 am
18 Mar 2013, 10:54 am
uwmonkdm wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
How very interesting!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
No sh** no one likes it.. the question of her attractiveness was brought up, and I offered my opinion. Do you think that woman is going to be reading every thread on WrongPlanet to see if she's mentioned?
That's not a direct equivalence, I have the decency not to put someone down to their face, or even behind their back really. I only offered my opinion because it was part of the discussion.
I'm not really that angry about your comment about my looks, I know you're full of sh** anyway.. I'm quite confident with the way I look
I'm more annoyed about the fact that I can't say anything on this board about women, even when it's the topic in discussion, even if other people agree with me.. without getting torn a new ass hole.
If someone with your aggressive and destructive tone doesn't find me attractive, I believe that means I'm better off
The question of her attractiveness was brought up - by you!
So having done that, why can't I do the same to you?
Again, why are you some kind of protected species that no one can have an opinion about?
The point I am making (without getting through) is that you can say what you like about women but don't be too surprised if someone decides to say what they like about you in return!
You are saying it's ok to have an opinion on a person's attractiveness so why can't the same be done on yours?
This is like you punching someone in the face but saying they can't hit you back
Why?
It's cowardly imo and proves what I've always thought about the type of people who so freely dispense such nasty, judgemental opinions - it's not 'allowed' to be done back to them
18 Mar 2013, 10:56 am
uwmonkdm wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
How very interesting!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
No sh** no one likes it.. the question of her attractiveness was brought up, and I offered my opinion. Do you think that woman is going to be reading every thread on WrongPlanet to see if she's mentioned?
That's not a direct equivalence, I have the decency not to put someone down to their face, or even behind their back really. I only offered my opinion because it was part of the discussion.
I'm not really that angry about your comment about my looks, I know you're full of sh** anyway.. I'm quite confident with the way I look
I'm more annoyed about the fact that I can't say anything on this board about women, even when it's the topic in discussion, even if other people agree with me.. without getting torn a new ass hole.
If someone with your aggressive and destructive tone doesn't find me attractive, I believe that means I'm better off
And saying that woman looked like a man and that you'd been sick in your mouth wasn't destructive and aggressive?
It was pure misogyny
18 Mar 2013, 10:57 am
uwmonkdm wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
How very interesting!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
No sh** no one likes it.. the question of her attractiveness was brought up, and I offered my opinion. Do you think that woman is going to be reading every thread on WrongPlanet to see if she's mentioned?
That's not a direct equivalence, I have the decency not to put someone down to their face, or even behind their back really. I only offered my opinion because it was part of the discussion.
I'm not really that angry about your comment about my looks, I know you're full of sh** anyway.. I'm quite confident with the way I look
I'm more annoyed about the fact that I can't say anything on this board about women, even when it's the topic in discussion, even if other people agree with me.. without getting torn a new ass hole.
If someone with your aggressive and destructive tone doesn't find me attractive, I believe that means I'm better off
Here's some clearer pictures of me, feel free to judge my appearance all you'd like.
I'm aware I'm a scronny pale white boy, with a big nose and big ears. I have a high hairline that makes me look like I'm balding, and I walk funny. Feel free to add anything else.
You still don't get it do you?
18 Mar 2013, 10:57 am
uwmonkdm wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
How very interesting!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
No sh** no one likes it.. the question of her attractiveness was brought up, and I offered my opinion. Do you think that woman is going to be reading every thread on WrongPlanet to see if she's mentioned?
That's not a direct equivalence, I have the decency not to put someone down to their face, or even behind their back really. I only offered my opinion because it was part of the discussion.
I'm not really that angry about your comment about my looks, I know you're full of sh** anyway.. I'm quite confident with the way I look
I'm more annoyed about the fact that I can't say anything on this board about women, even when it's the topic in discussion, even if other people agree with me.. without getting torn a new ass hole.
If someone with your aggressive and destructive tone doesn't find me attractive, I believe that means I'm better off
Here's some clearer pictures of me, feel free to judge my appearance all you'd like.
I'm aware I'm a scronny pale white boy, with a big nose and big ears. I have a high hairline that makes me look like I'm balding, and I walk funny. Feel free to add anything else.
I think you look great. You aren't ugly by all means. I can show you ugly, but I may gag. In my opinion I find PSY to be very very unattractive.
Cute dog btw, what breed?
18 Mar 2013, 10:58 am
nessa238 wrote:
uwmonkdm wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
How very interesting!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
You get very angry about having your looks criticised yet you feel fine with giving out your judgements on how others look quite freely
there's a direct equivalence there but you don't like it
You felt her looks were up for debate so in my opinion yours were too
Only it seems it's not a two-way process is it?
You want the freedom to judge but not be judged
Well you get over yourself!
If you deal it out you should be prepared to take it back!
I was giving my free opinion on your looks to show how unpleasant it is to be on the receiving end of such harsh judgement and having to read others doing it all the time on here
You didn't like it - no one does!
No sh** no one likes it.. the question of her attractiveness was brought up, and I offered my opinion. Do you think that woman is going to be reading every thread on WrongPlanet to see if she's mentioned?
That's not a direct equivalence, I have the decency not to put someone down to their face, or even behind their back really. I only offered my opinion because it was part of the discussion.
I'm not really that angry about your comment about my looks, I know you're full of sh** anyway.. I'm quite confident with the way I look
I'm more annoyed about the fact that I can't say anything on this board about women, even when it's the topic in discussion, even if other people agree with me.. without getting torn a new ass hole.
If someone with your aggressive and destructive tone doesn't find me attractive, I believe that means I'm better off
The question of her attractiveness was brought up - by you!
So having done that, why can't I do the same to you?
Again, why are you some kind of protected species that no one can have an opinion about?
The point I am making (without getting through) is that you can say what you like about women but don't be too surprised if someone decides to say what they like about you in return!
You are saying it's ok to have an opinion on a person's attractiveness so why can't the same be done on yours?
This is like you punching someone in the face but saying they can't hit you back
Why?
It's cowardly imo and proves what I've always thought about the type of people who so freely dispense such nasty, judgemental opinions - it's not 'allowed' to be done back to them
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You don't think the woman is pretty or you just don't like Pitbull?
You're an idiot.
Feel free to judge me all you like, I even posted some better picture above.
Your opinion won't change anything.
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And saying that woman looked like a man and that you'd been sick in your mouth wasn't destructive and aggressive?
It was pure misogyny
It was pure misogyny
The "sick in my mouth" comment was actually about how creepy Pitbull looks.. the whole picture just turned me off completely.
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