If you're 27 and never had a girlfriend, is it too late?

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i don't either but many liberal women would free out and call me a child murder. the anties view even touching a gun to be murder and evil. every gun owner is just a mass shooter in the waiting etc.

but whats the point I'd rather be turned down now then after spending hundreds of dollars dating them and getting attached. I like guns, wet shaving and video games. its who I am I'm getting sick of having to hid it

yeah they exist but they hid it. they don't talk on game and they don't seem to tell others. given half gamers are women then why is it only so very very very few talk about it? I think being a gamer is even worse social repercussions then it does for men.

those states are from the government not me. its likely for every gay woman theres a gay guy so it balances out.
whats castro?

The Castro is a neighborhood in San Francisco where there are tons of gay men -- not so many lesbian women. The point was looking ONLY at # men vs # woman doesn't necessarily tell you much about the # of single, straight women.

Have you considered that your behavior scares women? That they're accusing you of being a child killer not so much because you like videogames and target shooting but because you unconsciously skeeve/creep them out?

And if you're happy with your guns, games and wet shaving hobby, why do you complain that women don't wanna date you?

If you're more powerful than someone, you don't need to treat them as you want them to treat you, because either they won't dare reciprocate your abuse, or they will, but only to be crushed by your might, which will prove once and for all you're above them. Lack of reciprocity proves who is boss.

You can see a girl you think you may like, then approach her and make conversation and see if there is a connection. If not, then you haven't invested too much and you can move on. NTs will talk to every girl of their age who they find attractive. It is a numbers game. You don't invest emotions until you find fruit.

Talking to lots and lots of pretty girls? That sounds scary

Yes, and super creepy.

Do you mean the girls are creepy? Or do you mean the girls think it's creepy when socially awkward guys like us spontaneously small-talk to them?

treat others as you want to be treated.

Do you mean the girls are creepy? Or do you mean the girls think it's creepy when socially awkward guys like us spontaneously small-talk to them?

It's kind of a numbers game but it's one I've been more optimistic about in recent times. I just use dating sites because I'm not good at asking out girls I've met in meatspace (they always get surprised when they find out I want to be more than friends, that surprise doesn't happen when I date girls from dating sites).

Anyway, think of it like The Drake Equation! Take the population of your city. Divide by two. That's the number of females. Now look up the demographics and find out the number in your age group. For example, in my city there are approximately 70,000 women between the ages of 20 - 29 inclusive.

Then you estimate the number of those likely to be single, and the number of those likely to be on dating sites. Then you start spamming those girls with messages. Remember, it's a numbers game so you have to spam as many girls as possible. If you odds of your pairing up are 1 in 10,000, that means you have to message 10,000 girls. It should take a few years.

So you just have to think of the number of girls who will reply to your message and the number of those who will go out with you and the number of those who will last beyond the first date and the number of those who will be willing to enter into a long term relationship with you and Presto! You have the formula for success!

While you're at it, don't forget to do do things to make yourself more eligable. This will improve your results from the equation by increasing the percentage of girls who will want to be with you. For example. After I lost about 100 lbs, moved into my own place, quit my job and got a higher paying job, and started taking night classes, the interest I got from girls shot up dramatically.

If those things don't work you can get a hobby or work on taking the perfect profile pic. I've heard that it's best to have a profile pic in an interesting outdoor or social setting (though I haven't tried this myself, my profile pic was just a selfie in my living room). Remember girls love guys with a hobby (I should get one myself). Also the more friends you have the better, since a lot of girls are looking to expand their circle of friends (they want your friends as their friends).

It depends on where and how you begin randomly speaking to pretty girls (or other humans) -- "do you know when the next bus is expected?" at a bus stop or "your basset hound is adorable. May I pet her?" to a lady walking a basset hound are pretty innocuous.

You may also want to consider not taking a girl not being happy to chat with you at that second personally. It's possible she's busy, lost in her thoughts or just not in the mood to talk to anybody that day.

let's see... total population: 50k, that's 25k women; age range 23-35 (very generous here), 2%, so that's... 300-ish woman in my age range.

that's very, very scary, and creepy. not something i'd ever do without extreme anxiety rushing around: i'd look like a rapist or a serial killer looking for his next victim (or both), if i'm lucky...

let's see... total population: 50k, that's 25k women; age range 23-35 (very generous here), 2%, so that's... 300-ish woman in my age range.
amount that are single; lets be generous again and say 50%: that makes 150 women.
those who aren't "girly girls" (who i can't live with, so won't try), perhaps 20 left; those of these that don't smoke: 5
that's the end of your numbers game; out of the 50k people i can meet on a regular basis, there's 5 that don't posess at least one hard dealbreaker (and i don't think mine are that specific); your little 'drake equation' might work in a big US city, but far from everyone lives there.

i have also asked OKC to find me someone who would match nicely, so i set up a few filters: min age 5 years under me, max age 4 years over; single, looking, non-smoking, no more than 1 foot shorter than me, lifing within an hour drive by car: zero matches; so i spammed them...

i know that it is often said that the first 100 messages don't count and should be practice, but i don't have that amount of potentials, i cannot afford to 'spam' around and hope for the 5% to return, i need to make each message count, even a single answer if i message everyone with a bit of a chance will give me 15% or more response rate...


that's very, very scary, and creepy. not something i'd ever do without extreme anxiety rushing around: i'd look like a rapist or a serial killer looking for his next victim (or both), if i'm lucky...

let's see... total population: 50k, that's 25k women; age range 23-35 (very generous here), 2%, so that's... 300-ish woman in my age range.

It depends on where and how you begin randomly speaking to pretty girls (or other humans) -- "do you know when the next bus is expected?" at a bus stop or "your basset hound is adorable. May I pet her?" to a lady walking a basset hound are pretty innocuous.