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09 Jan 2016, 7:09 pm

Nice to see you too! :)



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09 Jan 2016, 7:49 pm

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This implies that you are crazy and need to see a good shrink.


There's no need to get personal Peacesells... :|

What, she can make personal attack and I can't? Why? She shouldn't even be here because she was banned a thousand times and she keeps making new accounts. Besides what I said was a sincere advice and I really think she needs a good shrink, and I am fairly sure most people here would agree with me. There's nothing bad about needing a shrink.
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She usually never responds to me though. And I am not sure that she knows she is wrong and is just trolling, some feminists really think that way.


You think she's trolling... Really? :|

You are aware of the nature of these Forums, yes?
It's a lifeline to people with Autism, a condition which all to often leaves people confined to their homes, and isolated from the world. No doubt many feel that these Forums are one of the very few resources that they have available to them.

That you would entertain the thought of telling someone that their crazy, and that they need to seek professional help, let alone actually posting it on a forum of this nature...

Considering that one member posted a suicide Thread not too long ago, and came very close to going through with it.

Peacesells, I am not a Moderator of these Forums, so I will not presume to preach what kind of behavior should be tolerated here. At the same time however, I must ask that you pay some thought to others on these Forums. You may say something that might seem innocent to you, but given the very nature of both Autism and online communication, such comments can very easily be misinterpreted. On a normal Forum, someone might just get upset (which by itself is quite bad), but here where people openly talk about being on the edge, and how hard it is to just live...

Hmm... :|

I think you are in good faith and you just don't know whom you are defending.
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Misskong, aka katyk and other hundreds of names is a person who has a extreme hatred towards aspie men. She was renamed for her continued attack on us. I'd hope you could understand on a site meant for support for aspies that a person constantly putting them down and attacking them would be banned.

But if you still really like her rest assured she's probably already back again under another name for the 200th time. She was first banned over a year ago and has been just remaking new accounts and ips since. She's a person so filled with hatred and has no life.


Sly's just a waste of oxygen who should do the world a favor and throw himself off a bridge. He's an undateable, awful loser.

See Idealist, this is the person you were defending who came back again after being banned for the umpteenth time.
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In todays society women have life on easy mode. More so if you live in a western country.

This sounds really unfair too. Very few people have life on easy mode, women and men shouldn't say such things about each other. Please don't say such things.



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10 Jan 2016, 9:09 am

When somebody talks about Aspies "tainting the gene pool" or whatever, then the person is trolling.

Or saying: "Why would anybody date you?" when she doesn't know the person.

Whoever this person is: this person needs to see a therapist--and fast!! ! Obviously, this person has too much time on her hands.



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10 Jan 2016, 10:17 am

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Just a reminder folks, sexist generalizations will not be tolerated, and will be removed.

Keep it civil. This isn't the, "Whine About the Opposite Sex Forum."

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10 Jan 2016, 10:32 am

sly279 wrote:
Misskong, aka katyk and other hundreds of names is a person who has a extreme hatred towards aspie men. She was renamed for her continued attack on us. I'd hope you could understand on a site meant for support for aspies that a person constantly putting them down and attacking them would be banned.

But if you still really like her rest assured she's probably already back again under another name for the 200th time. She was first banned over a year ago and has been just remaking new accounts and ips since. She's a person so filled with hatred and has no life.


And that is why we should all cease to respond to whatever web incarnations she puts up. There was a few accounts I responded towards that I did not realize we're simply her sock puppets, now I know what is really going on. I think the best strategy is to ignore her in an absolute manner. Hopefully she will get bored and abandon her crusade against us.

Sly, I think I sent you a private message that these people will defame all of us and probably will not quit and consequently, it is best ignore them. I didn't get a reply, did you receive it?


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10 Jan 2016, 10:41 am

Ignoring is the best solution....especially when it's not accompanied by ignorance.



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10 Jan 2016, 1:30 pm

Deltaville wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Misskong, aka katyk and other hundreds of names is a person who has a extreme hatred towards aspie men. She was renamed for her continued attack on us. I'd hope you could understand on a site meant for support for aspies that a person constantly putting them down and attacking them would be banned.

But if you still really like her rest assured she's probably already back again under another name for the 200th time. She was first banned over a year ago and has been just remaking new accounts and ips since. She's a person so filled with hatred and has no life.


And that is why we should all cease to respond to whatever web incarnations she puts up. There was a few accounts I responded towards that I did not realize we're simply her sock puppets, now I know what is really going on. I think the best strategy is to ignore her in an absolute manner. Hopefully she will get bored and abandon her crusade against us.

Sly, I think I sent you a private message that these people will defame all of us and probably will not quit and consequently, it is best ignore them. I didn't get a reply, did you receive it?


It doesn't matter, she'll post semi-normally for little bit on some other account before returning to her usual shtick. She'll do whatever she needs to do to continue trolling, obviously someone with some deep seeded issues. I do not care, a loser like that doesn't hurt my feelings. I feel sorry for her.



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10 Jan 2016, 2:00 pm

Personally for me, I've never had an easy time getting a date.

I don't think I've ever been on a date to be perfectly honest.


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10 Jan 2016, 2:56 pm

What exactly is the purpose of trolling? I thought it was something young people did, only to try to piss people off, because they find it funny.

Is this person who is repeatedly banned really trolling in that sense, or does he/she really feel that way? For all anyone knows, it could be some adolescent boy trying to get people angry for kicks.



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10 Jan 2016, 3:55 pm

Real trolling is much more than that.


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10 Jan 2016, 9:15 pm

So, basically it's mentally ill people on a sadistic power trip to make themselves feel better by destroying and hurting other people for no good reason.

When I was young, trolls basically did stupid harmless obvious stuff to piss people off. Almost everyone could tell who the trolls were, except for old people, really young people, and those with bad tempers.

The thing about trolls is, they can't hurt you if you don't care. Unless they do something illegal and get you fired or something.



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12 Jan 2016, 2:44 am

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This whole thread was started because I was mad at a girl who was rude to me when I asked her out. Instead of turning utterly nasty I created this thread. I wasn't mad at her rejecting me, I was mad at her for implying that I didn't have the right to ask.
You may find it helpful to bear in mind that, as Jacques Lacan said, love is when you give away something you don’t have to someone who doesn’t exist.
I have no idea what that means :?


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12 Jan 2016, 3:19 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Ignoring is the best solution....especially when it's not accompanied by ignorance.



I have a hard time discerning if that statement was meant to insult me....


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12 Jan 2016, 5:19 am

Deltaville wrote:
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Ignoring is the best solution....especially when it's not accompanied by ignorance.
I have a hard time discerning if that statement was meant to insult me....
No it was meant to help you.


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12 Jan 2016, 6:22 am

Why do people see insults in every nook and cranny?

No, I wasn't trying to insult you...I was trying to say that ignoring trolls is better than adding fuel to their ignorance. Also: it was a bit of a verbal pun.



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12 Jan 2016, 8:51 am

everyone wrote:
If you're a late virgin you'll be stigmatised.
True but if you're 25 or more you might as well not bother since even if you lose it you'll still be stigmatized for how old you were at the time you lost it.

I don't even care about sex that much. I just wanted to not be stigmatized. It's too late for that. I could lose it tomorrow and it would make no difference. The stigma would remain.

The part I find difficult to deal with is the fact that it's all my fault. There were plenty of times in my teens and early 20s when girls showed interest in me. Sometimes they did it subtly and sometimes they made it very obvious (such as asking me out). This made me very anxious for reasons I can no longer explain. I shouldn't have rejected them. I should have said yes like a normal teenaged boy would have. I said no so it's all my fault. It is now too late to fix it.


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