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25 Jan 2009, 12:49 am

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If you don't feel comfortable participating, then don't, simple as that.

I don't think that was the point.. she was upset because she wasn't mentioned. But people should take it with a grain of salt, Fiz wasn't mentioned and she's f'ing gorgeous. Most people just nominated themselves, so it isn't really a popularity contest if people are nominating themselves as opposed to "voting".

What would be completely inappropriate would be having a poll listing members asking which one is the most attractive. Moderators would be all ontop of that sh**. Not the same.

true, no one is voting. That would be a little... inappropriate.

They are though. This sort of thread, both male/female, encourages guys to "vote" and make lists of their top choices. People who make the lists encourage this kind of behavior. You can call it a joke, but they really are putting in a vote for who they think is the most attractive- the thread titles are asking people to. Just because we don't have the results in poll or graph form doesn't mean it's not the same thing. That's why I voiced my opinion earlier that this is not the best idea.

And even the people who were mentioned get insecure when they are competing for a vote or a list- remember how jwa jumped to explain that yes, she is worth calling pretty because she has all these modeling contracts after I made some generic statement about how pictures online don't always represent the real thing anyway?

Women are judged too often on looks anyway, why turn this into a pageant?

I saw a +1 once in both threads. no one is voting. this is not a voting thread.

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25 Jan 2009, 1:08 am

^I thought I'd post my whole original response, because I feel it's important to show there was more to it, than that one single line. I just felt like that one line(by itself) made me look bad, in a way. :shrug:

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I say, it is all in fun, and those who participate are to be commended for having self-confidence. It might be tough for those who do not feel confident enough to get involved, but why bash those who do? It is not an actual competition and should be looked at as an achievement for those who participated, and feel good about themselves. Maybe a goal for those who are not ready to put themselves out there yet? This is for fun people, nothing more. If you don't feel comfortable participating, then don't, simple as that.

This wasn't directed at just one person. It was my generalization, after reading the posts leading up to it.

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25 Jan 2009, 1:26 am

How come everyone in this thread skips me...posts that is...

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25 Jan 2009, 2:03 am

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How come everyone in this thread skips me...posts that is...

We dont want to cross the path of a black cat!

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25 Jan 2009, 4:17 am

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well the most attractive one i ve seen is me..

I don't beleive you posted yourself yet neither and this thread has gone off-topic badly so you can help put us back on the tracks.

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25 Jan 2009, 7:32 am

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lol cheers

haha. I like the top one, kind of rock-chick :hail:

lol i started by hacking off all my hair and going blonde!

that'll work

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25 Jan 2009, 7:37 am

BellaDonna wrote:

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:cry: What about me :cry:

you haven't posted a picture

That's because I have a bogus camera - that doesnt' connect to internet.

you don't have a phone?

My friend bought me a two for one phone years and years ago. One for me and one for her other friend. It isnt a camera phone and I havnt thought why should I buy a other one cause it works fine.

I need more money. I am poor :cry:

I thinking some ways I can earn money. Start up my own business some how - selling lemonade because it has been pretty hot latley and I live near a park. What do you think?

or get a job? I think its a bit cold for lemmonade, maybe coffee :wink:

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25 Jan 2009, 7:44 am

MissConstrue wrote:

How come everyone in this thread skips me...posts that is...

maybe cause you already won :wink:

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25 Jan 2009, 7:45 am

I am disabled I can't. I tried working under supervison with other people with disabilities. They are the most frustrating people to work with and talk about who knows everything and who right and who is wrong - it was ret*d
and thier was this one girl that kept sooking all the time and the support worker was always getting called in for me being aggressive. I wasnt aggressive at all but her dobbing on me all the time... It's BS
I just couldnt stand her and I lost my job.

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25 Jan 2009, 8:06 am

Yeah, i've had loads of trouble at work. Got into trouble and arguments. Its all about finding a job that suits you.

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25 Jan 2009, 8:10 am

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Yeah, i've had loads of trouble at work. Got into trouble and arguments. Its all about finding a job that suits you.

True but what jobs are out there. It is hard enough for people with qualifications and with out disabilites to get a job.

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25 Jan 2009, 8:15 am

BellaDonna wrote:

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Yeah, i've had loads of trouble at work. Got into trouble and arguments. Its all about finding a job that suits you.

True but what jobs are out there. It is hard enough for people with qualifications and with out disabilites to get a job.

try "Mencap". Just look for a job that you know you will enjoy and could be good at. Then any possible problems are less likely to occur

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25 Jan 2009, 8:16 am

What's Mencap?

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25 Jan 2009, 8:48 am

BellaDonna wrote:

What's Mencap?

helps people with dissabilities get work http://www.mencap.org.uk/page.asp?id=18 ... swodNFv-nQ

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25 Jan 2009, 8:53 am

Thanks but I don't live in the UK.

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25 Jan 2009, 9:08 am

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Thanks but I don't live in the UK.

oh! Sorry, well just look around, there might be something similar for where you are.

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