My problem with relationships and age

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mail order brides or such have long had a draw for a certain subset of the population.

Be weary of such broad generalizations.

I cannot afford to pay for anyo e to come to America. And even if I could, I could not know if either of us will actually feel attracted to the other before meeting in person, which makes it a huge risk.

Oh I meant foriegn women who I've already came there but haven't been there their whole lives if that makes sense.

I too feel like I can identify with a lot of what's was said. My other problems though do include my weight men on other sites feel that because they wouldn't be attracted to an overweight individual in her now 40s I should take what I can get after all the "wall" is a thing and you are fat you know. For the record I am trying to lose weight but it's a challenge. I also don't line up to things politically and yes I like so many enjoy my games, anime, Manga and cuddle toys(not in that fashion) what I don't enjoy for starters is a conversation stream that starts normal then suddenly veres into deeply uncomfortable and intimate. I feel clawed at.

I once ate at a nice Chinese restaurant in Kingston.

We were going to go out on a tour of the Thousand Islands----but it rained cats and dogs that day.

I feel like the most important thing for a person of any gender----is to be clean and to take showers/baths often. I get much more turned off by a dirty model type than by a clean chubby woman. I have actually found many chubby/even fat women to be cute.

One thing on the foreigner aspect no racism means here but sometimes there can be a conflict of ideologies especially religiously.

don't worry I do clean myself. What was the name of the restaurant might still be around. I should note NYC is on my bucket list especially the amusement park area in coney and Staten and see the Pokémon/Nintendo store.

I really don't remember. It was about 10 years ago. It was near the lakeshore.

Coney Island is in Brooklyn.

When you say Staten Island, I assume you mean the Staten Island Ferry. It's a very nice ride from the Borough of Manhattan to the Borough of Staten Island. You can see the Statue of Liberty from a ferryboat. And it's free.

I bet the Pokemon place is in Manhattan.

Trust me when I tell you that for the lgb portion of the population the circle isn't as big as you might think it is. Not just the 7 percent thing but despite what the religious right would have you believe there is a biological reason for same sex attraction. But sadly their apps and spaces are being encroached on and just like heterosexuals they're finding it hard too.

There's a very nice Pokemon store in Rockefeller Center

It's an analogy.

You're still missing the entire point.

I do not have any expectations that are unreasonable for an average neurotypical man, aside from age. The difference is that neurotypical men my age already got to have sexual relationships with young women when they were in their 20s and 30s, while I missed out because of my autism. And now life has passed me and its too late to ever experience that at this point. I don't have any problems with being with older women at some point in my life, but I don't want that to be the only thing I ever experience. And I'm not demanding that 20-year-olds go out with me now; I'm lamenting what I didn't get to experience when I was younger and never can now.

Are you saying this is not about you getting a woman at all, but the point is you want your past back?

a lot of us want our pasts back but in a much improved form, a lot of us dearly wish we could be made thusly whole.

I can relate to that. There are things I want to change in my past as well and wish I could for sure.

live and learn.