ironpony wrote:
Are some people hypocritical when it comes to not wanting to have sex with virgins as a lot of people are hot for the idea of being treated by someone with sexual experience, but at the same time, they don't want to return the favor for anyone inexperienced.
Depends on age, why someone is a virgin and the intention of the virgin.
If you're 20 and religious or have been concentrating of studies or career then that's fair enough.
If you're 30, want kids but still haven't seen a penis or vagina and refused when offered after dating for a few months, then that's an all together different kettle of fish. Especially if they're not religious or have any legitimate reason.
Sometimes virginity is easy to understand and has a reasonable explanation. Other times the virgin themselves are just stubborn or unkempt.
Once people get older being a virgin becomes a bit of a problem depending on the circumstances. Like the example above, I would want an explanation as to why someone who wanted kids hasn't and still refuses to see a vagina or penis at 30 when they're already at the average age where people have their first child. Being
that straight laced and innocent is off-putting to partners and harmful to the virgin.
Many people don't want to deal with the baggage of older virgins as they're often set in their ways and the people having to deal with them are getting older themselves.
I'd dare say most older non-religious male virgins are very interested in losing their virginity, but lack opportunities.
25 Jul 2022, 10:31 pm
