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27 Aug 2023, 7:17 pm

^ Yeah, I hate that stuff, too.

I also hate it when people think they’re proving their argument is good by claiming it is and by saying they’re rational.

Puh-lease. :roll:



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27 Aug 2023, 7:18 pm

Debates, and attempts to prove a factual point by saying "I sense", "I think", "I feel".


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27 Aug 2023, 7:20 pm

When someone is years behind the program but acts like they've discovered something new (e.g., if they just discovered the Keto diet and thought this was revolutionary new information that no one else would know.)


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27 Aug 2023, 7:22 pm

When someone says they don't know English so they communicate in nonsensical sentence fragments with the use of cartoon pictures, but the next day they can write fluently somewhere else.


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27 Aug 2023, 7:24 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Debates, and attempts to prove a factual point by saying "I sense", "I think", "I feel".

Ughh!

So irritating, especially when they are extremely ignorant about the topic.



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27 Aug 2023, 7:44 pm

Lacks self awareness.



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27 Aug 2023, 8:02 pm

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- uses this emoji constantly: 8)


I hate people who do that. 8)


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27 Aug 2023, 8:03 pm

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Lacks self awareness.


I feel called out. :oops:


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27 Aug 2023, 8:03 pm

Makes everything about themselves. :lol:


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27 Aug 2023, 8:04 pm

What’s wrong with lacking self awareness?



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27 Aug 2023, 8:07 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
What’s wrong with lacking self awareness?


It can lead to all kinds of issues, some of which are/can be socially offensive.



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27 Aug 2023, 8:36 pm

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What’s wrong with lacking self awareness?


It can lead to entitled and/or self-centred behaviour. It almost inevitably leads to tone-deaf behaviour, even when no malice or intent to be disruptive exists.


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27 Aug 2023, 8:38 pm

I’ve mostly dealt with jerks who were extremely self aware.



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27 Aug 2023, 8:40 pm

I think FXE is referring to self-awareness which leads to empathy and introspection.
I think TP is referring to self-awareness as in narcissism and nefarious forethought.


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27 Aug 2023, 8:44 pm

I was also referring to FXE's meaning of self-awareness.



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27 Aug 2023, 8:47 pm

Tells you that they are in love with two different people (and doesn't specify if you are one of them, during the dating process).