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23 Dec 2017, 9:52 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
Mama Cass of The Mamas and The Papas was a very hot fat chick. :wink:

Many of my adolescent fantasies involved overweight women such as Za Za Gabor, Sophia Loren and Jane Mansfield



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24 Dec 2017, 1:53 am

cyberdad wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
Mama Cass of The Mamas and The Papas was a very hot fat chick. :wink:

Many of my adolescent fantasies involved overweight women such as Za Za Gabor, Sophia Loren and Jane Mansfield


None of those were overweight!!

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Sophia Loren had perfect body figure when she was young. The actress who was born in Rome, Italy had hot figure with the statistic measurements are 38-24-38 inches (97-61-97 cm) and wore 34C for breast.


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Jayne Mansfield had 40-21-35 inches (102-53-89cm) of her hot measurements. Jayne Mansfield Bra Size is 36D.
This statistics show that she had very slim waist, wide hips covered with flat belly and incredible breast size.


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Zsa Zsa Gabor Height in Feet: 5 ft 4 inches and 55 Kg.

ZSA ZSA GABOR BODY MEASUREMENTS
Zsa Zsa Gabor Body Measurement and Figure Size: 36C-22-36

Zsa Gabor Bra Size: 36C

Zsa Zsa Gabor Bra Cup Size: C



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24 Dec 2017, 2:03 am

Soliloquist wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
Mama Cass of The Mamas and The Papas was a very hot fat chick. :wink:

Many of my adolescent fantasies involved overweight women such as Za Za Gabor, Sophia Loren and Jane Mansfield

None of those were overweight!!


I guess they would be overweight by today's supermodel standards



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24 Dec 2017, 2:32 am

cyberdad wrote:
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CockneyRebel wrote:
Mama Cass of The Mamas and The Papas was a very hot fat chick. :wink:

Many of my adolescent fantasies involved overweight women such as Za Za Gabor, Sophia Loren and Jane Mansfield

None of those were overweight!!


I guess they would be overweight by today's supermodel standards

That's why it's difficult to tell what guys mean if they just say overweight or fat and are not more specific. It might mean morbidly obese, or it might mean in the lower half of normal weight but not underweight.



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24 Dec 2017, 2:51 am

cyberdad wrote:
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cyberdad wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
Mama Cass of The Mamas and The Papas was a very hot fat chick. :wink:

Many of my adolescent fantasies involved overweight women such as Za Za Gabor, Sophia Loren and Jane Mansfield

None of those were overweight!!


I guess they would be overweight by today's supermodel standards



No they are not overweight by any standards. They had hourglass figures.
That was their normal body shape due to their bone structure.
Look at their waist measurements of 24",22" and 21" that is not overweight.



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24 Dec 2017, 3:10 am

Soliloquist wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
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cyberdad wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
Mama Cass of The Mamas and The Papas was a very hot fat chick. :wink:

Many of my adolescent fantasies involved overweight women such as Za Za Gabor, Sophia Loren and Jane Mansfield

None of those were overweight!!


I guess they would be overweight by today's supermodel standards



No they are not overweight by any standards. They had hourglass figures.
That was their normal body shape due to their bone structure.
Look at their waist measurements of 24",22" and 21" that is not overweight.

Many women who don't have hourglass figures can't even get that small waists without being very underweight or using corsets.



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24 Dec 2017, 3:17 am

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That's why it's difficult to tell what guys mean if they just say overweight or fat and are not more specific. It might mean morbidly obese, or it might mean in the lower half of normal weight but not underweight.

I guess that would depend on the guy

Some men are into fitness and so only want to date girls without an ounce of body fat. They justify because they can only date a girl who is also into physical fitness

If the male isn't into fitness but is good looking and "doesn't want fat chicks" (to quote a popular 70s bumber sticker) then he's probably wanting a girl of "comparative attractiveness" although these guys will go for a largish backside if the girl has an attractive face/thin hips

If a male isn't so good looking but "doesn't want fat chicks" then he's going to compromise more depending on how much rejection he gets.

The thing is there are plenty of men of varying looks/money who are really attracted to average looking medium build girls, many men don't mind fat at all...



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24 Dec 2017, 3:23 am

Soliloquist wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
Soliloquist wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
Mama Cass of The Mamas and The Papas was a very hot fat chick. :wink:

Many of my adolescent fantasies involved overweight women such as Za Za Gabor, Sophia Loren and Jane Mansfield

None of those were overweight!!


I guess they would be overweight by today's supermodel standards



No they are not overweight by any standards. They had hourglass figures.
That was their normal body shape due to their bone structure.
Look at their waist measurements of 24",22" and 21" that is not overweight.

Yes that's fair
I guess I always thought they looked (please note this is my perception) on the "chubby side" (particularly Sophia) but as a 13 yr old boy it made them bossomy/cuddly which got my hormones going?



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24 Dec 2017, 8:03 am

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Back when I was young and pretty and slender, a hockey superstar humiliated me in public. He had the whole Forum looking at me, thinking it was funny that he had caught me ogling him, and he was ogling back big-time, and I had nowhere to hide. It went on till I thought I would die.

I woke in the middle of that night shovelling a huge bowl of freshly-made spaghetti into my mouth. Spaghetti that I must have cooked in my sleep, because I didn't wake till it was half eaten.

I gained 50 pounds and gained some peace.

I'm delighted to report that after being haunted for 30 years by that trauma, it was gone the day after I told you guys all about it. I had never told anybody before. Now it's gone, just gone. I still had a few pics of him in screensaver and I deleted them. He's not handsome any more, which anybody but me could have told you.


That's good.

I told one of my friends about something similar that happened to me. I referred to it recently and she said, "but everyone has forgotten about it now. Why does it matter?" Stuff like that stays with you.



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25 Dec 2017, 1:09 am

Soliloquist wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
Mama Cass of The Mamas and The Papas was a very hot fat chick. :wink:

Many of my adolescent fantasies involved overweight women such as Za Za Gabor, Sophia Loren and Jane Mansfield


None of those were overweight!!

Quote:
Sophia Loren had perfect body figure when she was young. The actress who was born in Rome, Italy had hot figure with the statistic measurements are 38-24-38 inches (97-61-97 cm) and wore 34C for breast.


Quote:
Jayne Mansfield had 40-21-35 inches (102-53-89cm) of her hot measurements. Jayne Mansfield Bra Size is 36D.
This statistics show that she had very slim waist, wide hips covered with flat belly and incredible breast size.


Quote:
Zsa Zsa Gabor Height in Feet: 5 ft 4 inches and 55 Kg.

ZSA ZSA GABOR BODY MEASUREMENTS
Zsa Zsa Gabor Body Measurement and Figure Size: 36C-22-36

Zsa Gabor Bra Size: 36C

Zsa Zsa Gabor Bra Cup Size: C


If that’s overweight then the rest if us are screwed.



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25 Dec 2017, 4:50 am

^I think we are anyway :D

He is talking about 1980's though so they wouldn't have still been those measurements then.

Merry Christmas :D



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25 Dec 2017, 7:24 am

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25 Dec 2017, 9:16 am

hale_bopp wrote:
Soliloquist wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
CockneyRebel wrote:
Mama Cass of The Mamas and The Papas was a very hot fat chick. :wink:

Many of my adolescent fantasies involved overweight women such as Za Za Gabor, Sophia Loren and Jane Mansfield


None of those were overweight!!

Quote:
Sophia Loren had perfect body figure when she was young. The actress who was born in Rome, Italy had hot figure with the statistic measurements are 38-24-38 inches (97-61-97 cm) and wore 34C for breast.


Quote:
Jayne Mansfield had 40-21-35 inches (102-53-89cm) of her hot measurements. Jayne Mansfield Bra Size is 36D.
This statistics show that she had very slim waist, wide hips covered with flat belly and incredible breast size.


Quote:
Zsa Zsa Gabor Height in Feet: 5 ft 4 inches and 55 Kg.

ZSA ZSA GABOR BODY MEASUREMENTS
Zsa Zsa Gabor Body Measurement and Figure Size: 36C-22-36

Zsa Gabor Bra Size: 36C

Zsa Zsa Gabor Bra Cup Size: C


If that’s overweight then the rest if us are screwed.


No sane man see those as overweight.

These threads always end up with an exaggeration of what men perceive as overweight.



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25 Dec 2017, 9:54 am

fluffysaurus wrote:
^I think we are anyway :D

He is talking about 1980's though so they wouldn't have still been those measurements then.

Merry Christmas :D


Jayne Mansfield certainly wasn't as she died in a car accident in 1967.


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25 Dec 2017, 10:16 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

No sane man see those as overweight.

These threads always end up with an exaggeration of what men perceive as overweight.


A man said that he perceived these woman as overweight. Where's the exaggeration?


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Many of my adolescent fantasies involved overweight women such as Za Za Gabor, Sophia Loren and Jane Mansfield


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Yes that's fair
I guess I always thought they looked (please note this is my perception) on the "chubby side" (particularly Sophia) but as a 13 yr old boy it made them bossomy/cuddly which got my hormones going?



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25 Dec 2017, 10:20 am

Most people from around the world believe Americans place too much emphasis on weight.