Do you miss someone right now?

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23 Aug 2008, 1:37 pm

Yes its kind of stupid..my infant school girlfrend..I wonder every night whether she thinks about me. I guess its true what they say the first cut is the deepest.



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26 Aug 2008, 4:55 am

Yes, some people i miss alot every day



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29 Aug 2008, 11:03 am

this sounds really really dumb but....

i miss my husband. he's at work right now. He has AS and he has just never really been there for me emotionally...i used to perceive his behavior as just him being a jerk, but now i know that he just isn't capable of it. It makes for a lonely relationship sometimes, but I really do love him. I guess in the beginning he was playing the game, trying to get the girl, and doing what he knew he was supposed to do...then he got me, and then i got the REAL him. Who i still love.



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29 Aug 2008, 11:14 am

breakfastsurreal wrote:
i miss my husband. he's at work right now. He has AS and he has just never really been there for me emotionally...i used to perceive his behavior as just him being a jerk, but now i know that he just isn't capable of it. It makes for a lonely relationship sometimes, but I really do love him. I guess in the beginning he was playing the game, trying to get the girl, and doing what he knew he was supposed to do...then he got me, and then i got the REAL him. Who i still love.

your husband is a lucky aspie to have you...


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29 Aug 2008, 11:39 am

thankfully i missed a stupid lady who stepped out in front of my car today.



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29 Aug 2008, 6:48 pm

tomamil wrote:
breakfastsurreal wrote:
i miss my husband. he's at work right now. He has AS and he has just never really been there for me emotionally...i used to perceive his behavior as just him being a jerk, but now i know that he just isn't capable of it. It makes for a lonely relationship sometimes, but I really do love him. I guess in the beginning he was playing the game, trying to get the girl, and doing what he knew he was supposed to do...then he got me, and then i got the REAL him. Who i still love.

your husband is a lucky aspie to have you...


I'd like to think that but some days I feel it's the other way around. I am an aspie too, but our problems are way different. I am the one who can never hold down a job, I have the anxiety issues and the depression, and I am the one who is never quite 100% happy when I know I should be. I have unrealistic expectations of people...he on the other hand has none. I NEED him...I don't feel like he needs me. Sometimes I feel like a leach. But he says he is happy with the way things are, so I go with it.



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03 Sep 2008, 8:30 am

Yeah, I miss someone too.

We were together for 2 years and then suddenly, she dumped me. I still don't know what happened, but I hope to hear from her someday again.



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04 Sep 2008, 10:37 pm

(sigh, hating my self for it)

Yes, always.



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13 Sep 2008, 4:59 pm

Yes, I'm missing the special someone in my life.....

I love her so much....


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15 Sep 2008, 6:22 am

I miss my oldest sister, my grandma, and my friend Aaron. I miss my oldest sister the most though.



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16 Sep 2008, 12:50 am

We have been apart for several months now. I tried so hard to relinquish my expectations and do for him what he needed. But it was never enough. One mistake and he would withdraw his love. And that would then throw me into a tailspin.

A love I can't live with and a love I can't live without.

He is self-diagnosed aspergers. Has a son, who is, I believe, actually diagnosed. My love says I am too. And the more I read, the more I wonder if it is true.

But don't we all want to say that something is wrong with us that explains all our difficulties in life? Wouldn't a nice excuse not to change be so handy?

To My Love:
Your hair falls along your strong shoulders, so smooth and black
Your eyes full of wonder and gentleness, so loving and relaxed
Your smile runs away with my soul, while your eyes dance with my heart.

Full, like the moon, your face is all I can see, all I want to see.
I look deeply ever wanting to dive in and swim within your soul.
Your warm hands run down the small of my back and I am trapped within your grasp.

I wonder if I learn, I wonder if I change can we be together again?
I wonder if you learn. I wonder if you change can we stay together?
Understanding, stepping back, removing expectations, releasing needs.
Can it bring us close? can it keep us together?

What is my sacrifice?
Compassion for me when I need it.
Someone to lean on when I am collapsing.
Completely knowing I am loved.

What is my gain?
His face, His touch, His hair brushing against my skin.
His love, although apportioned sparingly, like rewards for treating him correctly.
To stop missing him, to be in his arms, where it feels right.



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16 Sep 2008, 11:54 pm

yes, i used to "go out" with this girl called crystal, and i miss her heaps



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17 Sep 2008, 10:32 am

Sure do. That will be fixed in 3 weeks, though.



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17 Sep 2008, 3:07 pm

I miss her.


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17 Sep 2008, 9:32 pm

I miss my Aspie gf a LOT - she starts uni tomorrow, it will be a while before I see her again. I haven't let her know quite how worried I am about her, as she is finally beginning to come out of her shell and I don't want to put pressure on her through her knowing I am concerned.



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24 Sep 2008, 6:04 am

i miss my friend meagan. I havent seen her in years(although we do email some), wish i could tell her how i really feel. I'm too nervous to do it over email :oops: