Boo's "Afraid Of Being Alone Forever?"

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No worries, I used the term "screwed" ones since it was used already....it's just hard to see those people suffer and become more and more miserable after years of rejection...especially if they're your friends. and yes, sometimes nothing helps and they're doomed for solitary life.

sorry for spamming with serious posts, now let's get back to some more important matters - one other borgkatten aboard:

aha ok

I was worried that I came across differently than I had intended. Unfortunately life is never fair, I think there are a lot of nice people that deserve love but don’t have it and vice versa (unfortunately).

I love your Borgkatten

that's unfortunately true, but don't worry, you have the right to express your opinion.



thanks, happy you like

here's one more:

thanks Booyakasha

I've said this before and I'll say it again; if I sound bitter, it's because I am. But I'm not just venting here. I'm so sick and tired of these women coming down and lecturing disaffected men like me when they have absolutely no idea of how hard our lives are and how hopeless our situation is. Men and women are different, they have different thought processes and different needs. And more importantly, they're viewed very differently by society. When women suffer or have problems, society goes out of its way to try and address those problems and ease the situation. Not so with men, we're on our own... if we have problems, we either overcome them by our own means or not at all. It's sink or swim, and if we sink, nobody will lift a finger to save us. Society literally doesn't give a s**t about men who can't cut out, at least not until they snap and go on a murder rampage a la George Sodini or Elliot Rodger, but that's neither here nor there.

Look, the point here is when say to the women here "that's only because you're a woman", I'm not just venting, I'm telling the truth; the only reason they think the way they do and their lives turned out the way they did is because they're women. If they were men, especially men who "couldn't cut it" like most people here are, their lives would've turned out very differently.

There, rant over. Please continue posting kittens...

I get what you mean, but it's not bondkattens' fault things are like that; she has her own opinion to which she is entitled. I agree with you, but could you please disagree with her and others here in a bit less provocative manner.

I agree that for some it's futile to even try, I have many friends like that...but maybe some of these women you mention didn't witness it or know about it to the extent you or some other men do. I don't think she meant to offend, she was merely expressing the way she sees things, and as much as you have the right to disagree with her, she has just as much right to disagree with you.

Personally, I don't see the purpose in being bitter. What does being bitter solve? All it does is continue that vicious cycle you are complaining about.

No woman wants a bitter man, just like no man wants a bitter woman.

Being bitter doesn't make it excusable to do what Elliot Rodger et al did.

I am better sweet.

And please, let's not increase WP's relevancy for this keyword (this guy's name here) on google by mentioning him here repeatedly.

well the experiment is flawed as you aren't unattractive looking.
I get likes on similar systems, but they don't' want to talk to me. I just don't think there's a correlation between liking 100 women and having 50 like you back and getting any dates. also we don't' know if you liked 1000 girls 0r 20 and can't tell how many liked you back.

I think its cause aspie women probably fall in the minority that do different from the pack. they like to think that others are like them but its a false assumption. though there are female aspies here that also go with the pack.

been liked by a few women still I have no choice.

Idk i might be.

to bad their isn't some plague that would only target alpha male as***les.



just waiting for an equilibrium type drug.

point of view. I feel like have to defend myself a lot here. but women here wouldn't notice, well one did. but as they aren't men they're not' attacked at that point. works the other way as men we won't feel like women are under attack. you have to be the gender to know an attack is happening.

we may look at ants and think they are just working together while they are really having some bloody civil war for the hive it's all about point of view.

with the number of people who say that surely I must have a gf and just not know it.

Yeah, kinda have to agree with this sentiment. If you look at porn, which is made almost entirely with only men in mind, you see there’s porn featuring every type of woman you can imagine: fat women, thin women, short women, tall women, hairy, shaved, redheads, blondes, brunettes…

This is because, I think, men actually have varied sexual tastes and preferences, not so with women. If you look at romance novels, which are basically the female-version of porn, all the male characters there are pretty much the same and completely interchangeable. They’re all tall, dark and handsome.

It’s sad really. There’s a man out there for every woman, but not a woman out there for every man…

you definitely don't look like a Quasimodo! Whoever made you feel like that needs glasses or has a skewed perception.

and yeah, or they are sent to colonise other planets...there they could be as dominant, macho and full of bravado as they please without hurting anyone else. Their aggressive genes would be filtered out of the gene pool as well and society might prosper as nicer guys as yourself might take their niches.



Stoicism?

I just meant that looks may not be as important. There are not-pretty people who can easily get relationships, and pretty people who can't. There are also not-pretty people in relationships with pretty people (pretty being subjective, but not that subjective). I think the thing most couples have in common (in appearance) is that they wear similar style of clothes. You see posh girl + posh guy, rock chick with rock dude, yobbo woman with yobbo man.

A few days ago a Dutch actress wrote an article saying she wanted a husband+kids, but that she was nearing 40 and still hadn't succeeded. She looks nice and is successful, but still couldn't find a man. She said people didn't believe her when she said she couldn't find a husband.