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03 Sep 2023, 2:24 pm

HUGE red flag:

- expresses romantic interest in TwilightPrincess online or offline



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03 Sep 2023, 2:35 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
HUGE red flag:

- expresses romantic interest in TwilightPrincess online or offline


Why would this be a red flag? Because all of your dates are useless? :D



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03 Sep 2023, 2:39 pm

Useless is the wrong word. It's more like I've been very unlucky. Most people I've dated have been jerks in one way or another.



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03 Sep 2023, 2:42 pm

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Useless is the wrong word. It's more like I've been very unlucky. Most people I've dated have been jerks in one way or another.


Okay.



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03 Sep 2023, 2:50 pm

I think I've had trouble perceiving interest. Looking back, I think there were at least a couple opportunities with decent people I missed. I've not thought that people liked me unless they were lovebombing me. That's no longer the case now. I just think that it was a factor in the past due to my weird, sheltered upbringing and low self-esteem.



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03 Sep 2023, 2:53 pm

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Most people I've dated have been jerks in one way or another.

You just haven't met the right Hillbilly Vampire.
The King of country-western troubadours.
A man out to reclaim his rightful place as King of the music scene after several years in prison.



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03 Sep 2023, 2:59 pm

I cleaned out a room in my trailer for you...

:lol:



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03 Sep 2023, 3:15 pm

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I think I've had trouble perceiving interest. Looking back, I think there were at least a couple opportunities with decent people I missed. I've not thought that people liked me unless they were lovebombing me. That's no longer the case now. I just think that it was a factor in the past due to my weird, sheltered upbringing and low self-esteem.


Yeah, I am sure you could get someone reasonable. You seem intelligent and good looking.

Self-esteem issues can be very troublesome.



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03 Sep 2023, 3:17 pm

It's not necessarily self-esteem, TP.
Remind yourself that you have CPTSD and that makes it very hard to trust anyone.
It also makes you a magnet for aholes, especially when combined with your ASD.
You'll find the right partner.
I'm sure they'd be astounded to know there was someone like you still single.


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03 Sep 2023, 3:32 pm

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I just don't know how someone could be 40 years old and not like Star Wars OR video games. I like modernism, but modernist poetry is not really my thing although I like some of it. We were clearly incompatible. :lol:



What if he likes SW but his favorite character is Jar Jar Binks?



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03 Sep 2023, 3:35 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
I just don't know how someone could be 40 years old and not like Star Wars OR video games. I like modernism, but modernist poetry is not really my thing although I like some of it. We were clearly incompatible. :lol:



What if he likes SW but his favorite character is Jar Jar Binks?

Dealbreaker! The date would be over. That's almost bad enough to warrant sneaking off to use the restroom and not returning.



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03 Sep 2023, 3:39 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
It's not necessarily self-esteem, TP.
Remind yourself that you have CPTSD and that makes it very hard to trust anyone.
It also makes you a magnet for aholes, especially when combined with your ASD.
You'll find the right partner.
I'm sure they'd be astounded to know there was someone like you still single.

Thanks! :heart:

I'm done with dating, though. I need to find some planet that I can retreat to and become a hermit. The problem is that I don't have a lightsaber or spacecraft.



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03 Sep 2023, 3:42 pm

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I cleaned out a room in my trailer for you...
:lol:
The man is a true Romantic:



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03 Sep 2023, 3:43 pm

We'll get a big beach house on Martha's Vineyard and raise feral kittens.
I just need to win the lottery two or three times first.


Red Flag:
Doesn't love Sinatra, and doesn't wonder why they don't listen to him 24/7 every time they hear him.


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03 Sep 2023, 3:43 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
I just don't know how someone could be 40 years old and not like Star Wars OR video games. I like modernism, but modernist poetry is not really my thing although I like some of it. We were clearly incompatible. :lol:



What if he likes SW but his favorite character is Jar Jar Binks?

Dealbreaker! The date would be over. That's almost bad enough to warrant sneaking off to use the restroom and not returning.



Old but gold, you should watch all the 3 parts
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wpzJcLYl9AY



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03 Sep 2023, 3:45 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
What if he likes SW but his favorite character is Jar Jar Binks?
Dealbreaker! The date would be over.
That's almost bad enough to warrant sneaking off to use the restroom and not returning.

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Jar Jar is disappoint...

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