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andriarose
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10 Jul 2009, 9:23 am

roadGames wrote:
Perhaps befriending extremely attractive/high status guys who would never date you because they're dating cheerleaders would be the way to avoid potentially friendship destroying attraction on their part. You might find yourself on the other side of the fence, though.


I really don't have any desire to befriend a guy who is that superficial.

Also, how do you know I'm not a cheerleader? :D

Sorry, couldn't help it. :tongue:



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10 Jul 2009, 1:24 pm

LostAlien wrote:
biostructure. Please leave this thread open for those who have constructive advise for andriarose. What you want does not help her figure out a solution to her problem.


Yes I will start my own threads in the future--this is going nowhere.

LostAlien wrote:
I'm not being hyper sensitive in the least. I have had the experience many times of saying no to men and them not listening, one time to a particularly harmfull result towards me.


I'm sorry men haven't respected your decisions in the past.

LostAlien wrote:
And just to clarify, just because a woman has a more male style brain, it doesn't mean that they think of sex in the same way, women are wired differently than men regardless of brain style.


You can only speak for yourself. Meanwhile I continue my search for a sexually male-wired woman...