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Yes, it is because I think they are more sexually open.

That's my final answer.

Think about that Tim. What do you mean exactly by sexually open?

Because this is going to be all well and good when your cute artsy liberal hipster girlfriend wants to be sexually open, try a few new positions and brings over her cute female friend for threesome I bet you will enjoy that.

But when she brings over her best male friend for a threeway, wants you to be a sub, or brings out the sex toys for a nice pegging, how are you going to feel about that?

Because that's included in "sexually open".

I meant not waiting until marriage, or limiting herself to vaginal penetration within marriage.

Speicifically, I meant oral and fetishes.

That is not always true. These types of woman can actually be less sexually open because they are always getting hit on by conservative types who think that they can have some no strings attached sex with her. The problem is you are trying to find a certain type of woman in an area where they do not exist. In fact I think the woman you are looking for doesn't even exist anywhere.

Well, right-wing fundamentalists will not do fetishes, etc.

You have also got to think what you have to offer them.

You say you are X, but beyond the standard line you don't really elaborate much on your views. Like you don't know your own mind.

They do them alright, they just don't want a admit to doing them.

On the other hand some right wing people have no problem with it. Take Ragtime for instance, he has no problem discussing his kinks.

You must not be paying attention to the news lately. There has been a surplus of far-right, conservative Republican politicians getting busted for all kinds of sexual indiscretions lately.

And on top of that, whoever I date has to be an Aspie. I am still in school, and all the NTs see is that I am unemployed because of school (they don't differentiate between students and slackers).

I don't know why you are mentioning those things.

You have to have something that they find attractive, otherwise you will come across as stiff as cardboard.

You're wrong about that Tim, I've known two mormon girls who were into giving head, ironically, I'm not into that. My ex suporvisor was pretty conservative, but she did everything for her boyfriends (and felt the need to let her subordinates know).

You're stereotyping and it's gonna hold you back if you keep it up.

The secret here is to hit the gym every day and do what it takes to get that "six pack" then when you;re on some dating website, you post a pic with your shirt off. I'm telling you, I don't have another thing going for me. I don't have the personality, I sure as hell don't have the income, and my car isn't the best looking thing you've ever seen. You just want to have a card you can bring to the table. It can be an awesome ride, guitar playing skills, something that she can tell her friends.

Well if I say I am looking for a conservative female Aspie who is sexually open, without mentioning the Simpsons/South Park an any of the other stuff, nobody will answer.

What if you are wrong? You have this stereotype about artsy women but what exactly is it based on? And if you meet an artsy conservative woman who is ok with premarital sex but only of a vanilla variety, will you drop her?

I think Tim is enjoying his mental fantasy date.

She's cute, she likes art but isn't going to talk about it much and she doesn't want to drag Tim to the art gallery, she likes Tim's conservative views, she's sexually open but only when it comes to things Tim wants to try.

He's free to dream.

I got ideas of my hypothetical partner by people who frequently post in the Adult forum on here. Those who had the same interests frequented that folder, those who didn't steered clear of there. That's where I got my Simpsons/South Park/artsy = sexually open theory.

And if she's only into "vanilla" sex, it won't work out. I will not negotiate on that.

Last edited by Tim_Tex on 02 Sep 2009, 4:09 am, edited 1 time in total.

It sounds more like a compliment than an insult. I wish that I were artsier than I am.