What would you say is your main barrier in relationships?

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Salonfilosoof
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21 Dec 2009, 5:53 am

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Yeah, it's like if you are even a moderate Republican, you get labeled various things:

Misogynist
Homophobe
Anti-Semite
Abortion Clinic Bomber
Holocaust Denier
Racist
White Supremacist
Muslim-Hater
Funeral Picketer

I am sick of those labels.


Find yourself a woman who's apolitical or conservative herself. It worked for me :D



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21 Dec 2009, 9:23 am

Salonfilosoof wrote:
Tim_Tex wrote:
Yeah, it's like if you are even a moderate Republican, you get labeled various things:

Misogynist
Homophobe
Anti-Semite
Abortion Clinic Bomber
Holocaust Denier
Racist
White Supremacist
Muslim-Hater
Funeral Picketer

I am sick of those labels.


Find yourself a woman who's apolitical or conservative herself. It worked for me :D


God forbid such a woman like the Simpsons or South Park, though...

The funny thing is, I've always thought of South Park as a more conservative-friendly show (not family-friendly, mind you, but they make fun of liberals a whole lot more often than they do conservatives)...



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21 Dec 2009, 9:50 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:
God forbid such a woman like the Simpsons or South Park, though...


If she doesn't, just watch Disney with her :D

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The funny thing is, I've always thought of South Park as a more conservative-friendly show (not family-friendly, mind you, but they make fun of liberals a whole lot more often than they do conservatives)...


Maybe American conservatives are less openminded than American liberals?



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21 Dec 2009, 11:08 am

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21 Dec 2009, 11:12 am

Salonfilosoof wrote:
Tim_Tex wrote:
Yeah, it's like if you are even a moderate Republican, you get labeled various things:

Misogynist
Homophobe
Anti-Semite
Abortion Clinic Bomber
Holocaust Denier
Racist
White Supremacist
Muslim-Hater
Funeral Picketer

I am sick of those labels.


Find yourself a woman who's apolitical or conservative herself. It worked for me :D


That's what I was trying to do, but there are no female, conservative, Christian Aspies who like the Simpsons and South Park, who have no problem with oral sex, fetishes, or premarital sex, who are single.


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21 Dec 2009, 1:36 pm

South Park makes fun of Conservatives in one very blatant and obvious character: Cartman. You'd be hard pressed to find a more insulting view of conservatism than Cartman really.


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21 Dec 2009, 1:40 pm

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South Park makes fun of Conservatives in one very blatant and obvious character: Cartman. You'd be hard pressed to find a more insulting view of conservatism than Cartman really.


I either have to be an emotionless, submissive Vulcan, a drunken, drug-addicted redneck, or a hippie or hipster, just to get a f***ing BJ!! !! !


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21 Dec 2009, 1:52 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
That's what I was trying to do, but there are no female, conservative, Christian Aspies who like the Simpsons and South Park, who have no problem with oral sex, fetishes, or premarital sex, who are single.


You sound quite demanding. She must be both conservative and Christian, she must like the Simpsons and South Park, she must have no problem with oral sex, she must have no problem with premarital sex and she must have no problem with kinky sex. Hmmmm.... I bet she must have a slim figure, a good-looking face, big enough breasts and a nice ass too, right?!?

It seems like the kind of woman you're looking for is quite rare and I can only encourage you to change your criteria more according to the lines of :
- could you possibly fall in love with her?
- is she older than 20 and younger than 35?
- does she share some of you interests?
- is she willing to engage in premarital coitus?
- is she monogamous?
- does she want to have children?

Anything else should be optional in my opinion. Having oral sex, watching the Simpsons and going to church together are all nice options, but they shouldn't be your first priority. Also, I'm pretty sure most decent women would rather not share their sexual preferences with a man they haven't had sex with already :wink:



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21 Dec 2009, 1:56 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
Vyn wrote:
South Park makes fun of Conservatives in one very blatant and obvious character: Cartman. You'd be hard pressed to find a more insulting view of conservatism than Cartman really.


I either have to be an emotionless, submissive Vulcan, a drunken, drug-addicted redneck, or a hippie or hipster, just to get a f***ing BJ!! !! !

Have you ever considered that you're single because you place so much weight on sex? I have fetishes and fantasies of my own, don't get me wrong, but I can easily put them on the side-burner for the next fifty years if the right woman comes along. Your life doesn't lose meaning because you didn't get a BJ. I hope that's not something you want to look back on fifty years from now.

My biggest problem with dating is being unhappy. Women don't fall for miserable men, and the only way to work past those depressive feelings of self-doubt is to ignore them entirely. Try ignoring a man pointing a gun at your face, then tell me it's easy. Still, it CAN be done, and I'm doing it now. I just need some time to work through it.