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18 Dec 2009, 4:03 pm

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Lonermutants sn says it all: he's a sexually frustrated loser who has nothing better to do but rain on every else's parade. You are a true loser.



Well, in a few days we are going to hear how heartbroken our little Aspie boy here is.



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18 Dec 2009, 4:07 pm

Personally, I'm not being negative or raining on his parade. If you look at my posts here, I don't knock anyone. I criticize Toad out of concern and wanting him to get better and I'm pretty sure he knows I'm giving him constructive criticism. This post is just sketchy...1.)A girl that looks like her on the internet adding a random guy on myspace. 2.)That girl having Aspergers, and admitting it only after he did. 3.)Her wanting an internet boyfriend. 4.)He's never seen her on webcam. Not to mention, personally I think it's kind of unusual that he's so happy about having an internet girlfriend that he can't see, touch, or converse with in person, even if by some random 1 percent chance she isn't a fat girl or old bald guy named Spike.



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18 Dec 2009, 6:17 pm

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Well, in a few days we are going to hear how heartbroken our little Aspie boy here is.


Possibly, but that is the case with any relationship.



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18 Dec 2009, 11:35 pm

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To find out if the person is real or not is fairly easy, just phone her, I'm sure you can tell the difference between the voice of a 50 year old man and a 16 year old girl.

To be totally sure, have a webcam chat, simples.

It doesen't matter if these conversations are under a minute long (if you're both nervous or crap with phone conversations or whatever), you'll establish that she is who she says.
You make a good point. I actually do have her cell phone number so i could do that. :)


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18 Dec 2009, 11:37 pm

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Ah serendipity!! !

Though the odds of mistakenly adding a random person on a site is slightly enlarged if the people involved have ADHD :wink:

good luck, you guys seem really good together!
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18 Dec 2009, 11:42 pm

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currently looking for more income so i can move somewhere else. But for now the rent here ($333) is all i can afford.


That's it? The smallest apartments around here start at $1000 at the lowest-income neighborhoods...
it's split 3 ways haha. i'm only paying a third =P

The thing about it, if you guys 'really' hit it off, enough to close the distance, I'd actually recommend moving out her way. If she's up for Indianapolis its a nice town, very inexpensive place to live and it seems like their economy is going pretty solid as well.
Actually was thinking about that maybe :). Just don't really have the financial means to do that at this time. Though i want to visit her a few times before i start seriously considering anything like that. Give it a trial run.


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18 Dec 2009, 11:44 pm

May I ask why you want an internet girlfriend that lives miles away from you in the first place? Also, the only way to make sure she's real is to see her on webcam or have her take specialized pictures for you. In other words, her with a spoon on her nose, or her hair in a pony tail.



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18 Dec 2009, 11:49 pm

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HAS the OP spoken to her on the phone, and/or ummm....maybe spoken to her through webcam.

If not, then I would be suspicious...there is something about her that seems too good to be true...

Is that photo the only photo the OP has seen of the girl?

I don't mean to be a hater or a parade rainer...

I just get a funny vibe from the air-brushed perfectness of the photograph....and the expression on her face.

Were I to court a long-distance internet person...i would really want more concrete evidence that the person were real...

But lucky-me...despite all odds, I seem to have spectrumy males coming out of my ears...so it is not an issue.
Haven't spoken on the phone yet, though i have her cell number so i could. But i just don't like talking on the phone much. much more into textinggg.

& yes, i've seen like 100+ more of her pictures.
They're not all so "airbrush perfect", as you put it.
That particular one i posted on here i just chose because it's one of her cuter ones & doesn't have her name digitally added anywhere like some of her other ones.
Not really out to advertise her personal info if i don't have to. *shrug*


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18 Dec 2009, 11:57 pm

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He is in mine.


ok, let's see, now:

Wikipedia wrote:
Troll (Internet) - In Internet slang, a troll is someone who posts controversial, inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, chat room or blog, with the primary intent of provoking other users into an emotional response or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.


Seanmw's post clearly doesn't fit this description.

now, let's take a look at one of your recent threads:

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It's all about getting laid... Can't you people at least try to get over and past that?!
NT women want alpha males for breeding. We want alpha females for casual porn-like sex. We should get past that and accept that we are Aspies, not virgins. We are not supposed to have sex if we struggle socially. We are not genetically programmed for having kids.


there. fits perfectly.

I say you're not just a troll, you're the king of fridgin trolls, considering how long you've managed to hang around this forum without a ban.

;)
I know, seriouslyyy :?

every post of his i've ever seen has been overwhelmingly negative.
And he states his opinions as if they were undeniable fact. Which has been really bugging me.

He kinda reminds me of the user on here called Winternight in a way. Odd :?
Not really in the same way, or for the same reasons, & i have no idea why he does.
But i'm just reminded of Winternight for reasons i can't seem to pin down. :lol:


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19 Dec 2009, 12:00 am

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Wow, I don't know which deity you prayed to or lucky charm you're holding, but it sounds like you've got a great situation set up if you play your cards right. My advice having been on that cloud and fallen off is whatever you do, don't take the situation for granted, or a seemingly beatable obstacle like the long-distance factor can become a ticking time bomb. Having your finances, grades, living and travel situation under control can be every bit as important as the time you spend with her.
i'll keep that good advice in mind :) . thanks


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19 Dec 2009, 12:04 am

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May I ask why you want an internet girlfriend that lives miles away from you in the first place? Also, the only way to make sure she's real is to see her on webcam or have her take specialized pictures for you. In other words, her with a spoon on her nose, or her hair in a pony tail.


Omg... you've given me a brilliant idea just now 8O ! !!
I'll kill 2 birds with one stone and just ask for naughty specialized pictures :wink:
*pats self on back*

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22 Dec 2009, 9:36 am

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Praetor2379 wrote:
Lonermutants sn says it all: he's a sexually frustrated loser who has nothing better to do but rain on every else's parade. You are a true loser.



Well, in a few days we are going to hear how heartbroken our little Aspie boy here is.

Well, it's been more than a week now & things are still fine.
If you'd like me to update you at the 1-month mark i can do that :lol: .


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22 Dec 2009, 5:01 pm

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If you'd like me to update you at the 1-month mark i can do that :lol: .


One of the boarding schools I attended had 15 girls and 85 boys. The average length of a relationship was 3 months.



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22 Dec 2009, 7:31 pm

Um, OP, are you that desperate that you're proud of having an online girlfriend? You talk as if you two are a real life couple that are actually going out on dates and it sounds creepy.



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23 Dec 2009, 10:37 am

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Um, OP, are you that desperate that you're proud of having an online girlfriend? You talk as if you two are a real life couple that are actually going out on dates and it sounds creepy.
Ummm, 'cause it's not as if we won't see each other in real life too? Duhhh. It's not entirely an online thing. Once i get some money, i'm flying down there and we actually would be going on dates. So i have no idea why that would sound creepy, or why you're trying to imply it is so.
& that's far from desperation. If she lived right next door to me i'd date her still then then too. But she doesn't, she lives in Indiana. The point being that i can't help where she lives. & i can't help that i like her. It's not out of desperation, but rather because none of the other girls interest me like she does. Not that i haven't had offers from the locals though. This place is chock full of desperate girls


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30 Dec 2009, 12:57 am

Seanmw wrote:
Lonermutant wrote:
Praetor2379 wrote:
Lonermutants sn says it all: he's a sexually frustrated loser who has nothing better to do but rain on every else's parade. You are a true loser.



Well, in a few days we are going to hear how heartbroken our little Aspie boy here is.

Well, it's been more than a week now & things are still fine.
If you'd like me to update you at the 1-month mark i can do that :lol: .
15 days as of today and still counting.


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