Should aspies hook up with other aspies?

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Don't care what eHarmony claims. It's a joke.

I sense some strong anger here, and I'm AS. How do *you* know all NTs are the same? You don't. I presume you are making a generalization all NTs are the same because of your past experiences of having been involved with NTs. Guess what? I've been involved with NTs and things didn't work out. You can choose to stay in the past, or you can choose to learn from your mistakes, move forward, and look forward to meeting someone who is more consistent with your values in life. That's how I see it.

I've learned the following:
1. Women love to be mentally stimulated first. That is how they are initially attracted to a man. Because AS males tend to be the "little professors" of the world, women often report the initial attraction they feel around AS males.

2. Then, women love to be emotionally stimulated. They want to feel the caring, trust, and all those things associated with it.

3. Once a woman feels mentally and emotionally stimulated, they want to feel physically stimulated by a man. This is the biggest challenge for all women who are with AS males. I believe that AS men can physically stimulate a woman. The question is, "Will they?" I've already looked at various threads on here in the short time I have been a member. Amazes me how many men will avoid contact. And if it is a AS female, how many of them will avoid contact.

I disagree. If any two people liked the same hobbies and interests all the time, they wouldn't grow in a relationship. Much of relationships have to do with differences, and having the ability to grow as a result of differences. That's just my take.

I'm laid back myself and I am both AS and AD/HD.