lyricalillusions wrote:
Felgen wrote:
Beeing a virgin when you're a homosexual really isn't that uncommon. You're still young, and there are a lot of people in the same situation as you. The black metal icon Gaahl (one of Norway's most famous homosexuals) had his first boyfriend in his mid thirties.
It seems to be very uncommon to me. It seems like I'm the only one. Even online, I think I'm the only gay virgin I've ever met. It makes me feel even more on the outside of things & like I'll never fit in with anyone.
Are you sure Gaahl wasn't in relationships with females before he had his boyfriend-- like Elton John or something, who dated women until he came out as gay?
He said so in an interview right after it was publicly known that he was gay. He was never really in the closet, though. All his friends and aquaintances had known for years. In a different interview, he also stated that he knew he was a homosexual already in his childhood, and that he was never interested in women.
20% of all homosexuals die as virgins; homosexuals aren't as promiscuous and sex crazed as some people think they are. Many are in fact very shy. I don't lesbian women mind if you are a virgin, at least not the ones who prefer the active role in the relationship.
I understand that it's hard to find a significant other when you're not heterosexual, but I wish you the best of luck.