04 Jul 2010, 12:20 am
04 Jul 2010, 3:29 am
Hasn't happened yet. 
04 Jul 2010, 3:34 am
04 Jul 2010, 9:28 am
04 Jul 2010, 9:47 am
My first kiss was when I was really young, I have already mentioned it at such a young age but yea, it was beautiful and wasn't awkward at all. 
04 Jul 2010, 10:11 am
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nick007
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04 Jul 2010, 1:16 pm
06 Jul 2010, 7:02 am
06 Jul 2010, 7:15 am
jdcnosse wrote:
nick007 wrote:
jdcnosse wrote:
I also kept my eyes open. I'm not sure if this is typical of guys or if I am the only one who does it, but the way I see it is this: if my eyes are closed, how can I see what I am doing?
I'm not sure how typical it is to keep eyes open but I would imagine lots of people on the AS spectrum would close their eyes cuz of our issues with making eye contact.
But my girlfriend closes her eyes when she kisses, therefore there's no eye contact lol. I usually just focus on her nose. I still put just as much effort into the kiss, but the one time I kissed with my eyes closed it just felt awkward...
Northeastern292 wrote:
nick007 wrote:
Northeastern292 wrote:
roadGames wrote:
Abraham wrote:
People should have sex/first kiss young because 'late starters' suffer from developmental inhibition (cause/effect direction unclear).
Yeah, this is definitely true. Although my current girl thinks I'm great at sex, I'm thinking it's really because she's 19 and I'm well endowed. I think I'm somewhere around where most 19 year olds are in terms of sexual experience.
I can see 19. 19 isn't bad. But 12, 13 and 14 year olds shouldn't be sleeping around. I agree with Chef from South Park, when he says "17 — you're ready".
I think there's waaay to much emphases & pressure on things like that. Lots of girls are sleeping around by the time their 13 simply because their friends are & it makes em popular. I think people should be able to experience things like sex, kissing, romance ect naturally instead of having all that pressure on em from society. So what if never had a girlfriend till I was 20 & I wasn't interested in relationships before that
I don't feel I've missed out on anything except a lot of drama. High-school romances generally don't last & cause lots of heartache. The reason "late starters" suffer from developmental inhibition is because of society's pressure & attitude. The problem is societyI agree on that as well. Society has become one big thorn in the pressures of high schoolers. It's sad as well.
My girlfriend has sex for her first time when she was 14. I do think that's a little early, but once you're a sophomore or junior in high school then it should be okay as long as you know that consequences of those actions.
No, I think that is still too young. You usually think your in love with someone and you make a terrible mistake. I'm waiting until I'm married. If someone doesn't want to wait, I would break up with them and find someone worth waiting for. People around my age are pregnant and getting into fights at school. People in GRADE NINE get pregnant and miss 5 months of school! You should wait until your at least out of high school to have sex. Better yet, wait until you're married. And I agree with Nick about the society. It's a shame.
06 Jul 2010, 7:30 am
Sex ages topic
I find it funny when people get all stressed out about teenagers having sex. In most of Europe, the age of consent is actually 15 or under. I believe Spain has one of the lowest at 13.
A lot of people, especially the older generation, seem to be in this bubble where the mere thought of anyone having sex before the age of 18 is evil, but the majority of the planet don't seem to care, it's only in a few countries like the US and UK where people think it's some massive deal if teenagers have sex.
Anyway, dosen't affect me anymore since I'm 16 now. Just gotta find someone to actually do it with. 
06 Jul 2010, 8:48 am
Asp-Z wrote:
Sex ages topic
I find it funny when people get all stressed out about teenagers having sex. In most of Europe, the age of consent is actually 15 or under. I believe Spain has one of the lowest at 13.
A lot of people, especially the older generation, seem to be in this bubble where the mere thought of anyone having sex before the age of 18 is evil, but the majority of the planet don't seem to care, it's only in a few countries like the US and UK where people think it's some massive deal if teenagers have sex.
Anyway, dosen't affect me anymore since I'm 16 now. Just gotta find someone to actually do it with.
I find it funny when people get all stressed out about teenagers having sex. In most of Europe, the age of consent is actually 15 or under. I believe Spain has one of the lowest at 13.
A lot of people, especially the older generation, seem to be in this bubble where the mere thought of anyone having sex before the age of 18 is evil, but the majority of the planet don't seem to care, it's only in a few countries like the US and UK where people think it's some massive deal if teenagers have sex.
Anyway, dosen't affect me anymore since I'm 16 now. Just gotta find someone to actually do it with.
In Florida, its based on age differential. So a 15 year old and a 13 year old is OK, but a 60 year old and a 13 year old is not. In either case, I am totally against statutory rape laws. It should be solely based on whether or not the younger person knew exactly what they were doing and the consequences of that act. In most cases that I have seen, charges are only brought if the parents of the girl object. In other words, its a "Daddy's little girl" law. Still, a good many of the cases recently have been with older women and 14 year old boys. So times are changing.
06 Jul 2010, 8:49 am
n4mwd wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
Sex ages topic
I find it funny when people get all stressed out about teenagers having sex. In most of Europe, the age of consent is actually 15 or under. I believe Spain has one of the lowest at 13.
A lot of people, especially the older generation, seem to be in this bubble where the mere thought of anyone having sex before the age of 18 is evil, but the majority of the planet don't seem to care, it's only in a few countries like the US and UK where people think it's some massive deal if teenagers have sex.
Anyway, dosen't affect me anymore since I'm 16 now. Just gotta find someone to actually do it with.
I find it funny when people get all stressed out about teenagers having sex. In most of Europe, the age of consent is actually 15 or under. I believe Spain has one of the lowest at 13.
A lot of people, especially the older generation, seem to be in this bubble where the mere thought of anyone having sex before the age of 18 is evil, but the majority of the planet don't seem to care, it's only in a few countries like the US and UK where people think it's some massive deal if teenagers have sex.
Anyway, dosen't affect me anymore since I'm 16 now. Just gotta find someone to actually do it with.
In Florida, its based on age differential. So a 15 year old and a 13 year old is OK, but a 60 year old and a 13 year old is not. In either case, I am totally against statutory rape laws. It should be solely based on whether or not the younger person knew exactly what they were doing and the consequences of that act. In most cases that I have seen, charges are only brought if the parents of the girl object. In other words, its a "Daddy's little girl" law. Still, a good many of the cases recently have been with older women and 14 year old boys. So times are changing.
See, now that's a much more sensible way of doing things. They need to adopt a similar policy here in the UK, because underage sex happens whether the adults like it or not, and human nature isn't going to change because of laws.
Also, the UK law is stupid, in that it's always the guy who's commited an offense and taken advantage of the girl, even if the girl is older or pressured the guy into doing it or whatever.
06 Jul 2010, 9:51 am
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