The angry virgin thread
Let's give this a ranting a go then.
I don't understand why some girls go for the good-turn to abusive boys? Surely, experience should teach them, not to "play with fire", again? Unless they like it, I see no reason why these girls should be precautious.
Also, why can't some boys learn to "let go" of a girl to the point of stalking them? Clearly that's not right.
Rant over. I'm not that bothered to be honest.
What's wrong with that? Only bedding those you are emotionally attached to makes it less likely for you to obtain an STD anyway. I would feel guilty if I had sex with someone I didn't love but maybe that's because I'm a girl. XD
Erisad: Don't worry. So would I, and I'm a guy. Maybe I'm atypical for my gender. In my family, my parents have been married for more than 30 years, my grandparents more than 50. Maybe I get my monogamous values from them. And not from the media, that encourages people to go out and do it with as many people as you possibly can.
Ricky: Because I said so. I'd like to think humans are slightly more evolved than animals who would just mate with anything that didn't say no.
What's wrong with that? Only bedding those you are emotionally attached to makes it less likely for you to obtain an STD anyway. I would feel guilty if I had sex with someone I didn't love but maybe that's because I'm a girl. XD
Erisad: Don't worry. So would I, and I'm a guy. Maybe I'm atypical for my gender. In my family, my parents have been married for more than 30 years, my grandparents more than 50. Maybe I get my monogamous values from them. And not from the media, that encourages people to go out and do it with as many people as you possibly can.
You're not alone, sir. My brother is the exact same way but that's because mom raised him to be a good boy. ^_^
Yeah. My parents divorced after 7 years and I know my grandmother would still be married to her husband were he still alive. I just don't see the value in spontaneous sex with a stranger. For me, the physical pleasure is magnified ten-fold if it's with someone I love. So yeah. Yaaaaay monogamy!
I can't say that I have ever been in love. I have been with a few women (all NT), but at least in one case, I broke it off due to guilt that she was falling in love with me and I wasn't falling in love with her. So if I did have an unquenchable thirst for sex, I think I would definitely consider the prostitute route if I couldn't get it any other way.
Again though, I'm not necessarily saying go out and rent a girlfriend, more that one shouldn't turn down a first sexual experience on the grounds of waiting for the right person. If nothing else, the first time for a male is inevitably short and awkward; wouldn't you rather know what you're doing when that special someone comes along?
Because I actually have emotions. I can't just say 'you'll do' and make an emotional commitment to just anybody. I can't seperate sex and love. They are part of the same parcel to me. It has to be someone special.
Where does it say you have to do the emotional commitment? Because tv and movies said so?
You know, people are allowed to have their own opinions on things.
Doesntmean I have to agree.
What's wrong with that? Only bedding those you are emotionally attached to makes it less likely for you to obtain an STD anyway. I would feel guilty if I had sex with someone I didn't love but maybe that's because I'm a girl. XD
Erisad: Don't worry. So would I, and I'm a guy. Maybe I'm atypical for my gender. In my family, my parents have been married for more than 30 years, my grandparents more than 50. Maybe I get my monogamous values from them. And not from the media, that encourages people to go out and do it with as many people as you possibly can.
Ricky: Because I said so. I'd like to think humans are slightly more evolved than animals who would just mate with anything that didn't say no.
Good for you then. I just don't see a point in sacrificing my own enjoyment for the sake of some lame and unrewarding ideal. I used to be a lot like you until I got sick of not getting any results from being nice and caring.
A female point of view... a male being a virgin never bothered me. Once or twice , before 25 I think, I dated a guy who was a virgin, was late 30s... big deal. Its actually good in a way as you know the guy cant have picked up any STDs from anywhere.
Also, a male can always lie about virginity. He can say "Yeah, Ive had sex but I was pretty drunk, it was quite hazy."
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"Caravan is the name of my history, and my life an extraordinary adventure."
~ Amin Maalouf
Taking a break.
What's wrong with that? Only bedding those you are emotionally attached to makes it less likely for you to obtain an STD anyway. I would feel guilty if I had sex with someone I didn't love but maybe that's because I'm a girl. XD
Erisad: Don't worry. So would I, and I'm a guy. Maybe I'm atypical for my gender. In my family, my parents have been married for more than 30 years, my grandparents more than 50. Maybe I get my monogamous values from them. And not from the media, that encourages people to go out and do it with as many people as you possibly can.
Ricky: Because I said so. I'd like to think humans are slightly more evolved than animals who would just mate with anything that didn't say no.
Good for you then. I just don't see a point in sacrificing my own enjoyment for the sake of some lame and unrewarding ideal. I used to be a lot like you until I got sick of not getting any results from being nice and caring.
Hmm, yeah, I'll have to agree with you on that point. Being nice and caring has never got me anywhere in life.
Also, a male can always lie about virginity. He can say "Yeah, Ive had sex but I was pretty drunk, it was quite hazy."
I'm glad to hear this. I always thought of it being a social stigma, an instant deal breaker. I'm glad there's women out there that don't judge you based on your experience (or lack thereof).
What's wrong with that? Only bedding those you are emotionally attached to makes it less likely for you to obtain an STD anyway. I would feel guilty if I had sex with someone I didn't love but maybe that's because I'm a girl. XD
Erisad: Don't worry. So would I, and I'm a guy. Maybe I'm atypical for my gender. In my family, my parents have been married for more than 30 years, my grandparents more than 50. Maybe I get my monogamous values from them. And not from the media, that encourages people to go out and do it with as many people as you possibly can.
You're not alone, sir. My brother is the exact same way but that's because mom raised him to be a good boy. ^_^
Yeah. My parents divorced after 7 years and I know my grandmother would still be married to her husband were he still alive. I just don't see the value in spontaneous sex with a stranger. For me, the physical pleasure is magnified ten-fold if it's with someone I love. So yeah. Yaaaaay monogamy!
Good on you! I like you. Don't just give it away to some stranger.
What's wrong with that? Only bedding those you are emotionally attached to makes it less likely for you to obtain an STD anyway. I would feel guilty if I had sex with someone I didn't love but maybe that's because I'm a girl. XD
Erisad: Don't worry. So would I, and I'm a guy. Maybe I'm atypical for my gender. In my family, my parents have been married for more than 30 years, my grandparents more than 50. Maybe I get my monogamous values from them. And not from the media, that encourages people to go out and do it with as many people as you possibly can.
Ricky: Because I said so. I'd like to think humans are slightly more evolved than animals who would just mate with anything that didn't say no.
Good for you then. I just don't see a point in sacrificing my own enjoyment for the sake of some lame and unrewarding ideal. I used to be a lot like you until I got sick of not getting any results from being nice and caring.
Hmm, yeah, I'll have to agree with you on that point. Being nice and caring has never got me anywhere in life.
So why do you keep following the same pattern?
Not quite true. Certainly it's less likely, but you can contract particular STDs by other means.
Yes, but the chances are slim, unless he has been cavorting with an alien from Xortec-5.
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"Caravan is the name of my history, and my life an extraordinary adventure."
~ Amin Maalouf
Taking a break.
Also, a male can always lie about virginity. He can say "Yeah, Ive had sex but I was pretty drunk, it was quite hazy."
I'm glad to hear this. I always thought of it being a social stigma, an instant deal breaker. I'm glad there's women out there that don't judge you based on your experience (or lack thereof).
Yes, there are. And only women who wont judge you are worth your time.
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"Caravan is the name of my history, and my life an extraordinary adventure."
~ Amin Maalouf
Taking a break.
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