Wouldn't it be smarter to stop gathering stats & just decide for yourself what you want/do not want sexually & what you are willing to do/not do for a partner? Than talk to said partner & pick a nice middle ground or whose way goes & be done with it?
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Balance is needed within the universe, can be demonstrated in most/all concepts/things. Black/White, Good/Evil, etc.
All dependent upon your own perspective in your own form of existence, so trust your own gut and live the way YOU want/need to.