What you love about the opposite sex.

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14 Sep 2010, 8:50 pm

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They make great friends.


Ditto. Not to over-generalize, but the majority of my best friends are female.


That still doesn't make people of one sex better friends than people of the other sex.

An AS male probably gets along with females better because the normal males notice there's something unmanly about him and stay away from him. Likewise, an AS female probably gets along with males better because the normal females notice there's something "off" about her and stay away from her. In my own experience, though, one's sex has less to do with one's likability than with one's individual personality.



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14 Sep 2010, 9:45 pm

I find most guys (not all but most) are laid back and are less whiny about the little things. And some are narrowly focused when they need to be, but are for the most part fun and live for the now. It helps for someone like me who's anxious all the time to be around the kind of company to challenge that.



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14 Sep 2010, 10:54 pm

menintights wrote:
Ambrose_Rotten wrote:
MONKEY wrote:
They make great friends.


Ditto. Not to over-generalize, but the majority of my best friends are female.


That still doesn't make people of one sex better friends than people of the other sex.

An AS male probably gets along with females better because the normal males notice there's something unmanly about him and stay away from him. Likewise, an AS female probably gets along with males better because the normal females notice there's something "off" about her and stay away from her. In my own experience, though, one's sex has less to do with one's likability than with one's individual personality.


I cannot find anything in what I said that contradicts what you just said, and I never said anything about one sex being more likable.



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15 Sep 2010, 12:27 am

raisedbyignorance wrote:
I find most guys (not all but most) are laid back and are less whiny about the little things. And some are narrowly focused when they need to be, but are for the most part fun and live for the now. It helps for someone like me who's anxious all the time to be around the kind of company to challenge that.


I agree completely. The majority of my friends are female, but I can't just enjoy their company the way I can with my male friends. I always feel at least a little out of place when around a group of women.


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15 Sep 2010, 12:40 am

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That they can pee standing up?


Women can do that to 8O


Not counting the classic scene from Mrs. Doubtfire, they can do it if they apply themselves and stand directly over the toilet bowl.

I actually heard that some women have two vaginas.


Women do not pee out the vagina.


I know, but it was an interesting fact I heard.


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15 Sep 2010, 1:29 am

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i like that men's conversations are less gossipy


They aren't though.. try working in a workplace with 90 % men... the same as women in that regard. Rumours flew around one of my old workplaces like wildfire... spread by men and maybe one of the 3 women who worked there. :lol:

Guys would come upto me and say "want to hear a rumour?"

Several were about me too.. and those ones never get back to you personally. Funny the way gossip works.



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15 Sep 2010, 2:01 am

hale_bopp wrote:
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i like that men's conversations are less gossipy


They aren't though.. try working in a workplace with 90 % men... the same as women in that regard. Rumours flew around one of my old workplaces like wildfire... spread by men and maybe one of the 3 women who worked there. :lol:

Guys would come upto me and say "want to hear a rumour?"

Several were about me too.. and those ones never get back to you personally. Funny the way gossip works.



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15 Sep 2010, 8:45 am

I'm 6 foot tall and my husband is 6' 6". I love his swagger, the way he walks. His big feet and long legs. He looks like a stalking tiger. I also like his aspie goofyness. It doesn't match his appearance at all. He's a walking conundrum. He's like this big, magestic tiger and then he talks and sounds like Fran Dresher in the Nanny. :lol:



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15 Sep 2010, 9:35 pm

I also like the way some women do really weird/goofy/stupid things. I think ditsyness is funny & cute; I don't notice in guys


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15 Sep 2010, 10:43 pm

nick, i can't hold back anymore.

what on earth does "chock from lathing" mean???

i'm quite sure i have not yet done it from reading one of your posts.

i like a little ditziness too actually. i think it's because i myself walk into doorframes and bang my head on my car all the time and such and i have a soft spot for myself.

i also like when people laugh absurdly at their own jokes, (again a trait i have, admittedly - this is not painting a humble portrait of me i recognize, but so it goes). by which i don't mean arrogance but an inner appreciation for and comfort with one's own oddities is appealing. a lack of concern for outside recognition both positive and negative.


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15 Sep 2010, 10:46 pm

katzefrau wrote:
nick, i can't hold back anymore.

what on earth does "chock from lathing" mean???
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I'm assuming he means "Choke from laughing."



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15 Sep 2010, 11:02 pm

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I like the way women are more sensitive, more caring & more empathic. Women are not violent bullies like guys can be. Women are sweeter & nicer


Biggest lie EVER! :twisted:

I enjoy boobs, that squishy thing between their legs, soft skin. That's about it. 8)



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15 Sep 2010, 11:07 pm

RICKY5 wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I like the way women are more sensitive, more caring & more empathic. Women are not violent bullies like guys can be. Women are sweeter & nicer


Biggest lie EVER! :twisted:

I enjoy boobs, that squishy thing between their legs, soft skin. That's about it. 8)


Just because someone expresses a opinion different to yours you cant imply that they are lying.

From the posts that Ive read nick seems to be a nice guy and he mentions a few times having problems because of being too sincere.


You can disagree with what he is saying if you wish but you cant say he is lying just because he doesnt share your opinion.



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15 Sep 2010, 11:08 pm

Eyes, how their hands can be both strong and gentle (same can be said of their personality but I know women with that trait too), their voices, I tend to relate with them a bit better, they can smell good too (at least the ones that I let get close to me did anyway). I'll probably add more when I'm not tired. :lol:



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15 Sep 2010, 11:25 pm

spongy wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I like the way women are more sensitive, more caring & more empathic. Women are not violent bullies like guys can be. Women are sweeter & nicer


Biggest lie EVER! :twisted:

I enjoy boobs, that squishy thing between their legs, soft skin. That's about it. 8)


Just because someone expresses a opinion different to yours you cant imply that they are lying.

From the posts that Ive read nick seems to be a nice guy and he mentions a few times having problems because of being too sincere.


You can disagree with what he is saying if you wish but you cant say he is lying just because he doesnt share your opinion.


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16 Sep 2010, 6:12 am

The only good thing about women is that they stay away from me.